婚姻积怨怎么修复

　　hunyinjiyuanzenmexiufu，fuqineizailianxishixianghuzhichide，zhinengjiejuehaolecainenggoukaixinkuailehemuchichuanzhuxing，danshidouyoumocadequanguochengzhong，neizenmezuo，laijiejuehaohunyinzhongcunzaideqinggankunhuo?

　　tanlianaideshihou，bicizhijiandoufeichangxihuanlingyifang，yongyoushenshendeailianheyilai，zhinengshangxiduifangdehao，doushihuiyouyiyanshizijibuzuzhichu，zaishuangfangyanlijiushiwanmei，keshihunyinshenghuojiubuyiyangle，jielehunhaiyouyisiaiqingdeyurehuishou，danglianggerenzaiyiqishijianjiule，bierendequedianjiuquanbaoluchulaile，pingfandeshenghuoyexiaomodiaolecongqiandejiqing，buhuizaihuishangxizijidelingyibanle，xianghuzhijianmanmandiyongyoumoca。naizhiyouxiefuqizhongjianchuxianganqingwenti。

　　shijishangdaduoshuhunyinzhongdeganqingweijishinenggouwanliude，ruguonixiangyaowanliu，qianwanbiesipilailian，yaolizhilengjingdijiejue，xunzhaobuchenggongdeyuanyinduizhengzhiliao，nijiukeyichenggongwanliunimendehunyin。

　　qudechenggongwanjiuhunyinzhuyaoyouliangbu：

　　1.理性分析，找到原因

　　hunyinzhongchuxiankunjing，shouxianbaochilixing，jirannimennengyiqixieshouzouruhunyin，biaominglianggerenzhijianshiyouganqingde，yibanqingkuangxia，jielehunshibuhuichuxianhunyinwentide，yinci，dajiazhijianbucunzaisanguanbuhewenti，shiganqingbiandanle。rendouhuiyouyizhongbenxing，bianshijuebumanzu，duidaiganqingdoushi，yinci，womenyinggaijiangdiqiguiding，baozhengmanzuchangle。

　　2.给彼此留些室内空间

　　dabufenfuqijianchanshengfenqi，daotichufenshoudechengdushi，biciqingxuyebupingwen，niyaozuodejiushi，jibiciliuxieshineikongjian，bubijiuchanbuqing，zuihaobuyaochanshengzhengmianjiaofeng，zaijilingyifangsiweideshineikongjian，zijijiuxiangqingchu，gairuhequgoutongjiaoliu。biebalingyifangguandehenyan，kantaijin，yaoburanhuishideqifande。

　　3.要积极

　　jiaojilingyifangsiweideshineikongjian，bingbingbushiyaomeililingyifang，dajiahaixuyaozhudonggoutong，nizuiyinggaizhudongyixie，buyaotaiguomiantian，bazijineixindexiangfadadanshuochulai，huoxutayunideqingxushiyiyangde，yexianggennifuhexing，jinjinhaipajiangchu，zheigeshihounipaichujiangchu，yutadadaogongqingli，tamenhuijuededuiniyouzhongneijiugan，jiuhuiyouyizhongyunijiaoliudebulizhi。

　　4.讲出两个人之间碰到的生活压力

　　hunyinjiyuanzenmexiufu，zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，nenggouzaishidangdeshihou，jiangchudajiarichangshenghuoyudaodegongzuoyali，biaomingneiniyelijietadebuyi，keshi，biebaoyuan，bunengyouxiaojiqingxu，yaoburanhuishideqifan。zheishi，lingyifangyouyizhongyudaozhijideganjuele，ganjueyunitongbingxianglian，nimendeganqingziranyejiuzouruleyibu。

　　5.懂得浪漫惊喜

　　youxuduofuqibufuhepingdanwuqideganqingshenghuo，niyaodongdelangmanjingxi，zainindehunyinshenghuozhongzengtianyixiexinyi，rangfengfuduoyangdejingshenshijietaimibutadebufuhe。langmanjingxiqishiyehenjiandan，dongdechuaicelingyifangdexiangfa，zaijiweizhongyaodejieriliweitamaixiexiaolipin，huoshiyiqichiyidunfengfudeliangrenyuehui。rangtaganjuetazainixinzhongdeweizhi，bubimeitiandouzaizhongfuyichengbubianderichangshenghuo，shidangzhizaoyixiexiaolangman，yeshihenbucuodefangshi。