失恋后想挽回男朋友该怎么做，失恋了怎么办想挽回

 shilianlezenmebanxiangwanhui？henduorendouhuiyouzheiyangdejingli。fenshouyiduanshijianhou，tadeqiannanyouturanlianxileziji，tadebuqingyuanhuizaicifuxianzaitadenaohaizhong。zaizheigeshihou，ruheyutagoutong，shitameiyouyalishifeichangzhongyaode。

 yinweiyidannishuocuoleshenme，nikenenghuichudongninanpengyoudejingti。nihennanrangtazaicilianxini。yinci，dangnidenanpengyouzhudonglianxinishi，jishitafeichangxingfen，xiangzhongguiyuhao，tayeyinggaiyinzangzijidexuyaogan。

一.联系前男友时注意事项

 fenshouhou，dangnimenbicijiechushi，niyinggaizhidaonimendeguanxizhishiputongdepengyou。jishinixiangzaicizhengjiuta，niyexuyaoyongputongpengyoudeyuqijinxingjiaoliu。youguanxinxidejianyiruxia。

 yifangmian，zaitiwenzhiqian，nixuyaoyouchongfendeliyou。liru，ruguotacongshiyulvyouxiangguandegongzuo，niyinggaiyaoqiutatuiqilvyouluxianhuoxunwengeguodeqianzhengzhengce。zhiyaotabushizhendehenni，tatongchanghuihuida。

 lingyifangmian，wentiyinggaijiandanmingle，buyaobiaodanideganshou。jiranniyijingchengweiyigeputongdepengyou，buyaotanlunchaoyuepengyoujiexiandewenti。dutezhichuzaiyutansuoyinsi。buyaowenfuzadewenti，zheihuizengjiahuidadenandu。fouze，tazhishijuedenihenmafan，kenengbuhuihuifuxinxi。

二.没有合适的话题，不发短信比硬聊更合适

 huifushifeichangde“jingxi”shiqing，nixuyaoduosikao，duosikao，bunengbeiqingxusuozuoyou。fasongxiaoxiyeshiruci。ruguomeiyouheshidehuati，niningyuanbufa，yebuyaowubingshenyin。

 ruguotazaijimiaozhongneihuifuxinxi，zheiziranshiyigehaozhaotou，danruguotabuzaijimiaozhongneihuifu，buyaotaibeiguan。yexutazhendehenmang，huozhetakenengzanshibuxianghuifu，huozhebuzhidaogaihuifushenme。

 zheibingbuyiweizhetabuxianghenishuohua。yuqitaizaiyitadehuifushijian，buruguanxinxinxideneirong。liru，suirantahuidayoudianwan，dantahoulaihuidalenidewenti，zheishiyigehenhaodehudongkaishi。

三.沟通中需要注意的点

 fenshouhouwobuzhidaoruhegoutong？zheitongchangshidaduoshufenshouhourenmenmianlindeyiwen。ruguotayinweishuocuohuaergandaoyane，zheijiangzengjiahuifudenandu。xuehuiliaotianlaizhengjiunideaishifeichangzhongyaode。fenshouhou，shiyongzhengquedegoutongjiqiao，tigaotadexingqu，zaicixiyinta。

 1.buyaodaduantadehuati。zhidaoruhebaochichenmoshijianhaoshi。tayuanyihenijiaoliu。buyaodaduantadehuati。zheibujinkeyilejietadexianzhuang，lejietadeqingxu，haikeyirangtazaitanhuazhonggandaokuaile。

 liru，dangtayunifenxiangtazuijindesuojiansuowenshi，tayikaishibeinidaduan，ranhouniyizhizaitanlunniziji。zheiyang，nijiubuzhidaotazuijindeqingxu，yebuzhidaotazuijinzuoleshenme。

 2.baochireqinghexingfu。fenshouhoubeishangshizhengchangde，danbuyaobabeishangdaidaotanhuazhong，yinweizheihuirangtaxiangqihenizaiyiqishijinglidebuyukuaideshiqing。baochiyizhongwennuanhekuailedeqifengengyoukenengganranta。

 liru，tantannizuijinzailvxingzhongdesuojiansuowen，yijizailvxingzhongyoushenmekuailedeshiqing。shunbianshuoyiju，tidaonimenyiqilvxingdekuaileshiqing。huifubushibujiu，ershixiyin。

 sichanlanda.kukuaiqiuzhihuizaochengnibeiweidexingxiang，beidongdijieshoutadehuiying。yongnideleguanzaicixiyinta，keyirangtamentanhuadeqifenhexie，youzhuyufuhe。

 3.yinqitadexingqu。goutongyuanzezhiyouyige:tidaotadexingqu.liru，ruguotaduizuqiubuganxingqu，buyaozongshishuozuowandezuqiubisaiyouduobang。

 weilezhengjiuta，nixuyaolejietadexingqu，shuotazuixihuandeyinleju，tazuixihuandeshiwu，tazuixihuandedianying。zheiyang，nidetijiuhuimanmanzhankai，chuangzaoyizhonghudongdejiaoliufenwei，bangzhunitigaohuifudekenengxing。

四.以普通朋友的形式发起邀请

 1.shilianlezenmebanxiangwanhui？fenshouhoudeyuehuizenmeban？woxiangxinhenduorendouhenguanxinzheigewenti。fenshouhou，ruguonijiyubiaodazijidexuqiu，woxiangxinnihuibeiheidegailvchaoguo90%。yinci，zhengqueshiyongyaoqingjijiangyouzhuyunidechenggong。

 2.buyaozaitamianqianbaolunidexuqiu。jizhu，dangnibeiyaoqingshi，niyijingfenshoule。ruguoniaishangleni，wokeyigaosunitabuhuifuyue。xiangfan，ruguoniyipengyoudemingyiyaoqing，tabuhuiyouqiangliedeyapogan。liru，nikeyishuo“zuijinfaxianleyijiabucuodexicanting，youshijianyiqichifan。”zheizhonghua。

 3.weiyuehuizuohaozhunbei。zaiyuehuizhiqian，nixuyaodazhitiqianweiyuehuiguochengzuohaozhunbei。nixuyaoquyuehuidedifangkankanzhouweishifouyouyulexiangmu，biruzhouweishifouyougouwuzhongxin。

 shifouyougejuyuantingyinle，shifouyoudianyingyuanyiqikandianyingdengdeng。ruguonizhishiqingtaliaotian，zhihuirangtajuedewuliao，rangtajuedewuliao。

 4.xuanzeheshidedidian。zaijuedingyuehuididiandeshihou，yaozhuyideshijinliangxuanzeyixieyouya.dute.huozheshixinkaide.youyisi.fengjingbutongdedifang。zheishiweishenme？youyuhuanjingguoyufuza，zhinengrangrenjuedenishizheizhongxingge。

 zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，tahuiyingxiangtadeyuehuijingli。niyuetachuqushiweilerangtakandaonidebianhua，biandeyuyiqianbutong。ciwai，nihaixuyaozhuyideyijianshishi，zaiyaoqingzhiqianbuyaokuadanideyuehui，zheiyangtajiukeyiduinideyuehuiyougengdadeqiwang。

 dangshishibiandexiangfanshi，nikeyixiangxiangtaxinzhongdechajuyouduoda。zaitaxinzhong，nidehaoyinxiangyijingxiaoshile。zheiyang，tayebuliyunidehuifujindu。

 zaizhaohuinanpengyoudelushang，takeyizaifenshouhouzhudonglianxini，zheishiyijianhaoshi。raner，ruguonixiangjiuta，nibunengqinglvxingshi。buyaozaitamianqianbaolunidexuyaogan，xiangputongpengyouyiyangyutajiaoliu，tigaonidejiazhi。zheiyang，huifudedaolujiuhuigengjiapingtan。

 shilianlezenmebanxiangwanhui？meiduifufudeshijiqingkuangdoubutong，jiejuefanganyebutong。buyaomangmumofangbierendehuifufangshi。ruguonideganjueyoukunnan，nibixujishilianxiwomen。rangwomengenjunindeqingkuangweininzhidingyigeheshidehuifujihua。buyaolumangxingshi。zuihou，dangtawanquanwufahuifushi，nihuihouhuide。