聪明女人这样经营感情，抓住男人三种心理他会离不开你

 congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？zai《xiangwoyiyangbenzhuodeshenghuo》zhongshuo：“nirenweinideaishijiandanermanwumudede。shishishang，zaidaduoshuqingkuangxia，nixiangyaodeshixingqu。zheizhongxingqukenengshishushi、anquanhuoziwoqiwang。ciwai，zheizhongaizhuyaoshiniquanhenglibihoudexuanze。”

yinci，ganqingbingfeiwusi，nannvzaiaiqingzhongdouyouzijibutongdexuqiu，xunqiuliyidebuduanmanzu。

yaodongdezheigedaoli，nulimanzuduifangdexinlixuqiu，ganqingjiuhuibiandegengjiajianding。

xuduonvrenzhishiyinweibudongzheigedaoli，zongyiweizhiyaojinruganqingjiukeyigaozhenwuyou。

shishishang，ganqingyexuyaobicixixindeguanli，ruguobumingbaizheigedaoli，neimehouguojiuhuihenweixian。

shenghuozhong，congmingdenvren，wangwangnengzhuazhuyixiasanzhongnanrendexinli，huirangtalibukaini。

一：让他感到被理解

 zaishenghuozhong，nanrentongchangzuowaichuzhuanqiandegongzuo。tamenmeitiandouyaomianduigezhonggeyangderen。chuyugongzuo，tamenhaixuyaozaigezhonggeyangderenmianqiandishengxiaqi。zheizhongyalihenda。

 ruguoyigenvrenbuzhidaoruhejiyulijie，neimedangtahuijiashi，tabixumianduinvrendezhizehebulijie。zheizhongganjuezhihuizengjiananrendefudan，shenzhizaizheizhongguanxizhongzhixi。

congmingdenvrenzhidaonanrendezheizhongxinli，suoyi，zaishenghuozhonghuirangnanrengandaobeilijie。

 jishiyudaomaodun，yebuhuimangmupiping，ershiyaoheduifanghaohaogoutong，buduanzhaodaohaodejiejuebanfa，buyaorangduifangdehaoganbeimaodunmoqu。

 ruguoyigenanrenzaigongzuozhongyudaomafan，yigecongmingdenvrenbuhuizaidiyishijianzeguaita，ershijiduifangshijianjieshi，zheiyangyigenanrenjiubuhuiwuyuanwugudibeiwujie，zhiyaotazaiduifangshenbian。

 zheizhongzhuangtaihuishibicideganqingxunsushengwen，buhuichanshengbubiyaodegehe。huanjuhuashuo，zheizhongguanxishifeichangjiandingde。zaixianghulijiehezhichixia，lianggerenkeyitongdeweilaibuduannuli。

二：让他有安全感

 congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？zaiganqingshang，nvrenxuyaoyizhonganquangan，dannanrenyebuliwai。ruguoyigenvrendeganqingbugoujianding，tahuiyouyizhongdanxindeshideganjue，congerbuduanhuaiyizijideganqing。

 congmingdenvrenmingbaizheigedaoli，suoyizaixiangchudeguochengzhong，tamenhuibuduandiyongzijidexingdongrangnanrengandaoanquan。wuluntamenyudaoshenme，tamendouhuijiandingdizhanzaiduifangshenbian，jiyuzhichi。

 zhiyaonvrenbiaodachurucijiandingdetaidu，nanrenjiuhuijuedejishixuyaofuchugengduodejingliyeshizhidede。zheizhongshuangxianglvxinghuishibicideganqinggengjialaogu，bubihaipaxianshidekaoyan。

 zaixianshishenghuozhong，xuduoyuchundenvrenbumingbaizheigedaoli。nanrenmenzhengzainulizhengqubicideweilai，dantamenzhishizaiwan。henduoshihou，jishitamenzuoleyixieyuejiedexingwei，tamenyebuhuizheimerenwei。

 zheizhongxingweihuishinanrenshiquanquangan，yehuishiquzheizhongguanxidejianding，kaishihoutui，zhidaoduifangbuduantiaozhandixian，zhidaonaixinxiaoshi，huifeichangjiandingdilikai。

 yinci，ganqingshixianghude。dangyigerenjilenizhencheng，niyeyinggaiyijiandingdetaidurangduifangmanmangandaoanquan。zhiyouzheiyang，nicainengyouyigegengzhangyuandeweilai。

三：让他找到自信

 ruguonizaiyiduanguanxizhongbuduanbiandiyigenanrendecunzai，jianjiandi，yigenanrencongzheiduanguanxizhongganshoudaodezhishilingrenzhixideyalihewuxiandejuewangshitazaiciaini，tayehuishiwangdifangshou。

 xuduocongmingdenvrenhuirangtazaiaiqingzhongzhaodaozixin。wulunyigenanrenyoushenmeyangdexiangfa，tadoubuhuiqingyifouren。jishitazuocuoleshenme，tayebuhuimangmudizemaershiyongxingoutong，jiandingdipeibantamianduisuoyoudetongkuhehouguo。

 zheizhongxinrenhezhichihuirangnanrenbuduandizhaodaoxinxin，zuoyiqiedouhuichongmanhuoli，zongshiyijijiheleguandetaiduqianjin，xiangyaojiniyigegenghaodeweilai。

 manmandi，zheizhongzixinjiangchengweiduiganqingdejiandingxinnian，bingzaiganqingdailaidejijiqingxuzhongshengcun。zheizhongganjuehuijitadailaiguishugan，nideganjuehuizaiweilaibiandegengjiaqianglie。

 yinci，henduoshihou，ganqingbunengsuibozhuliu。ruguotamenyizhifangshou，tamendeganqinghuizaishijiandekaoyanzhongmanmanxiaosan。danghaoganxiaoshi，xinxianganxiaoshishi，shengxiadejiushiwuliao。

 “tanqingjiuxiangxiaqiyiyang，jihuabuju，qishizhuanheshizuijibende。”buyaozhizhidaoruhezaiganqingzhongxiangshouhecaiyi，yaoxiangganqingzhangjiushunli，jiuyaoyongxincaozuo，yonghaojiqiao，shibangongbei。

shijieshangmeiyouwuyuanwugudeai，yemeiyouwuyuanwugudehen，suoyoudeqinggandoushijingyingchulaide。

youqishizailianaizhong，lianggemeiyouxueyuanguanxiderenriyexiangchu，gengxuyaozhanzaiduifangdejiaoduquganshou。

 congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？duiyunanrenlaishuo，nvrendewaibiaozhishijiafenxiang，tagengxuyaodeshiyigenenggoulijieta，lijieta，weitazhexiangdenvren。