聪明女人这样经营感情，需要做好这些

 congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？bunanfaxian，xuduoaiqingjiulenanmianhuijinrupingdanjieduan。jiarubujishijishenghuojiadiandiaoliao，henrongyishizheiduanguanxibiandefawei。pingdanqiyidanchixutaijiu，liangzhezhijiandemaodunjiuhuiyuelaiyueduo。dangguanxishiquaiqingshi，yeganjuebudaotianmidexingfu。

 baochiaidefaze，zheiyangnijiukeyiyouxiaodijiejueqingganmaodun。zailijieyigerendexindejichushang，nijiangzhidaoruheguanliheguanlinideganqing，rangnichengweiaidezhuren。

1.不粘人

buguannannv，buzhanrenshidiyiyaowu。nibuzhanren。ta，tacaihuizhengshini。zheishuyuwodetianxing，woshenglaijiushizheiyang。

 wozongshidiyige，ranhouaiqingheyouyijibenshangshiyiyangde。nanrenzaiwoxinzhongbingbutebiezhongyao。womenzaiyiqihenkaixin。dangwomenfenkaideshihou，womenhuigengkuaile，huozhewomenkeyiheqitarenwandehenhao。wohuidingqixuyaozugoudeziwokongjian。zaizheiduanshijianli，wobuxiangbeirenherendarao。youqishinanren。

 wocongbuxianzhinanrendeziyou，zaibuyingxiangwodeqingkuangxia，takeyizuorenheshiqing。woyoushihuijianchawodetiezi，danjinxianyu“zhidaoniyaozuoshenme”，juebuxianzhitadexingcheng。

2.不能百依百顺，一定要学会抗议

duiyutazuocuoleduihuozhebudaoweidedifang，yidingyaotichu，erqiediyicijiutichu。

 nikenengmeineimeshengqi，dannibixutidao，napazhishiyijuhua，sayigemirende。yongyuanbuyaobaozheta“buganshuo，pamafan，renrenba”zheigexiangfa。yinweinibuti，tajiubuhuibianhao，ruguotayuelaiyuecha，nishoubulehaishiyaoti，diyitagaibule，diernishengqishangganqing。

 congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？danshiyaozhuyibuyaowuliqunao，yidingyaobawohaoliyou，zaizhanlingdaodezhigaodiandeqingkuangxiaquzuo，zhongdianshiyaobeihonghao。wochengzhiweixunlian。yidingyaonengbeihonghao，yidingyaorangnanrenjuede“tabukaixin，danwokeyihongta，wokeyizuodao”。tahuimanmandigaibiannidefangxiang。

 jutilaishuo，ruguonidenanpengyouzuoleshenmehuozhebuxihuanshenme，diyicijiuyaoti，yongweiqudeyuqiti。“nibunengzheiyangduiwo。zheiyangzuoshibuduide。

 xiacinibunengzheiyangzuo”dengdeng，zhuyibuyaozaiyitashifouhuihongbieren，buyaozaiyitazaibianhushishuoleshenmefeihua，buyaobeijinu，yaozhidaonanrenhuiweilebianhuerxuanzezijidehua，zhiyaotadaying“xiaciyidingbuyaozuo”tingxialai，jitajijutianyanmiyu。

 takenenghuidiercifanzui。niyaobidiyicifazuoyanzhongyidian，nanhongyidian，chule“nibuyinggaizheiyangzuo”zheiyidian，yezhuazhuleewaideliyou“nidayinglewo，danmeiyouzheiyangzuo”zheiyidian，danjizhu，bunengburao，zaitadeganjue“youdianzaogao.mafan.tayoudiannanchan”cishitingzhi。

yihouzaitui。meiyicidouyoudianyanzhong，danmeiyicidoukeyihonghao。zhangciyiwang，lvshibushuang。

3.保持信任和尊重

congfuqizhijiandeyantanjuzhi，keyikanchuliangrenzhijiandeqinqingxishu。

 xingfudeganjuexuyaolianggerendegongtongnuli。jiaruqizhongyiyonglengyanheshangyindehualaiduidailingyigeren，lianggerendeguanxibuhuichixutaijiu。

 lianrenzhijianzuizhongyaodeshixianghuxinrenhezunzhong。zheishizuijibendeguize。jiaruguanxidiweibupingdeng，yifangzongshijugaolinxia，shuomingliangrenquefaxianghuzunzhong。

womenyaoxuehuihuanweisikao，zhanzaiduifangdejiaodusikao，buyaomangmugenfeng。

4.学会互相赞美

gangkaishiyuehuideshihou，nimenshuolehenduozanmeiduifangdehua。

buguo，suizheliangrenxiangchushijiandeyanzhang，ganqingtianmiqiguohou，suiranganqingyuelaiyuewending，danhennanduiduifangshuozanmeiheguli。

danshishenghuozhonghuiyouhenduokunnanheyali，airendegulihuirangwomenchongmanliliang，jileidecuozheyehuiyisaoerguang。

congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？yinci，youyongqijixuxiaqu，ganqinghuizaibuzhibujuezhongjiashen。