聪明女人这样经营感情，往往会这样“装”

 congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？shenmeshiaiqing？jiarunizugoulangman，yexunihuishuoaiqingjiushiliangzhuhuadie，jishijiejubugouwanmei，danzheizhongganjueyezuyigandongtiandi。

 danzaixianshishenghuozhong，langmandeaiqingqueshicunzai，wanmeideaiqingqueshicunzai，danzheizhishizanshideaiqing。meiyourennengbaozhengxiamiandegushishifouhuixiangyuanlaiyiyangmeili，yemeiyourennengbaozhengzheiduanguanxihuiyizhichixuxiaqu。

 yourencengshuo：“zaidayue1000wanrenzhong，zhiyouyiduiliangzhukeyibianchenghudie，qitadezhinengbianchengezi、zhanglang、cangying……jiushihuabuchengdie。”

zaidangjinshehui，renmenzongshiqingxingerzizhi。zaiyiduanganqingmianqian，peibantamenyishengshizuidadeshechi。buyaotaolunniaibuai。

shishishang，weichiyiduanganqing，aiqingbingbushizuizhongyaodeyinsu，guanlishizuizhongyaodeshouduan。

 niyinggaimingbaiaihuixiaoshi。dangjiqinghelangmanxiaoshishi，zuichumeilidexingxianghenrongyibeidapo。daoneishi，tamenzhijiandeganqingzaoyibufucunzai。

 shenghuozhong，nvrenchangchangzhiyinanrendehuaxin，danshijishang，bianxinshiyizhongbenneng，erjifazheizhongbennengdeyinsuzeshinvrendexingwei。

chuleyixiecongyikaishijiumeiyouaiguodenanren，shengxiadeneixiecengjingaiguodenanrendoushishensishulvdejieguo。

 danshiruguobayiduanshibaideganqingguijiuyunvren，neijiutaipianxinle，bijing，renheyiduanganqingdezouxiangdoushishuangfangguanlidejieguo。

congmingdenvrenwangwangzhidaoruheguanlizijideganqing“zhuang”。

zaikaishiyiduanganqingdeshihou，sheibuxiangdaizheyigerenqubaitou？danshiganqingzongshikanqilaimeihaoerjiandan，hennanheduifangxiangchu。

 xuduonvrenzongshirenweiaiyigerenjiushizhanjuyigeren，dantamenbuzhidaozijidelilianghebaquanrangnanrengandaojusang；xuduonvrenzongshirenweiaiyigerenjiushiduiyigerenzuoyiqiehaoshi，dantamenbuzhidaoyoudixiandenulizhihuirangnanrenxiangshoutamendenuli。

shishishang，renheshiqingdoushiguoyoubujide。

 youshihou，nvrenzaiguanliganqingdeshihou，yidingyaozhidao“zhuang”buyaorangzijidelilianghedaoduifang，buyaorangzijidenulibiandelianjia。

fulankelinhaishuo：“jiehunqianyaozhengkaiyanjing，jiehunhouyaozhengkaiyizhiyanjing。”

 meiyourenshiwanmeide。jishishijieshangyouyigewanmeideqingren，yebukenenglundaoniqujianmianheyongyouta。yinci，dangniyudaoxiangyaogongduyushengderenshi，nibixuyouyikekuanrongdexin。

 dongde“zhuang”yejiushishuo，bubizhizheyumeiyijianshi，bubizhizheyumeiyigequedian，buzaihu，zhishi，yubuduandezhenglunxiangbi，gengjiakuanronghelijie。

 lianggerendeshenghuowufeishizhuiqiuyizhongshushideganjue，danruguolianggerendeshenghuobiyigerendeshenghuogengbushufu，neimejiumeiyoubiyaojianchizheizhongguanxi。

yinci，nvxingzaiguanliganqingshibixuzhidaoruheguanliganqing“zhuang”

zhangailingcengshuo：“taiqingxingdenvrenbuhuigaoxing，yaomezhendehutu，yaomezhuanghutu。”

jiazhuangmimangshiyizhongguanliganqingdefangshi，shizhierbuyandezunzhong。

 xuduonvrenzaiaishangyigerenhouhuibiandetebieminganheduoyi，haipananrenhuigaibianzhuyi，suoyitamenguoyuguanxinyiqie，guoyuguanxinmeiyigexiaoxijie。

shishishang，aideyueshen，jiuyuerongyigandaohaipa，zhishi，bingbushisuoyoudekongjudounengrangduifangjieshou，bingnengqinshenganshoudaoai。

 dangnanrenbulijie，nvrenjianchiyijianshishi，nvrendekongjuwangwanghuiyanbianchengnanrenyanzhongdebuheli。congzhangyuanlaikan，tamendexinrenhuizhujianxiaoshi。

henduoshiqingzhendebuxuyaotaizaiyi，jiuxiangshuo，dangyigenanrenshuoyixieshanyidehuangyanshi，zhuanghutushimingzhide。

 zhiyaobushejiyuanze，womenjiukeyibaneixieyinmandangchengyizhongguanxin，suoyi，zhendemeiyoubiyaotaizaiyi，zhengyizhiyanbiyizhiyan，tajiuhuiguoqu。

 xuanzehunyinbenlaijiushixuanzeyizhongshenghuofangshi，meigerendouxiwangzijixuanzedeshenghuofangshinengrangzijiguoshangshushideshenghuo。ruguomeitiandouhennanandingxialai，sheiyuanyijixuxieshoutongxing？congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？

shuidaoqingzewuyu，rendaochazewutu，ganqingzhongyeshiruci。bijing，meigerendouyouzijidemimi。

 juedaduoshunanrendoushiyouhaomianzideren，youqishizaiwairenmianqian。tamenkenengbuhuiqiwangnvxingzaiwairenmianqianxiaoerdi，dantamenhuiqiwangnvxingzaiwairenmianqianjizijizugoudemianzi。

erqiedangnvrenzaiwairenmianqianchongfenfahuihaoqizidezuoyongshi，jiuyijingjilenanrenzugoudemianzi。

 shishishang，nanrenzhishixiangrangnvrenlaichentuozijidemeili，shunbianxuanyaoyixiatamenyouzheimehaodeqizi，tamenxiangyaodelianzhendehenjiandan。

 danzaixianshishenghuozhong，zongyouyixienvrenyikaonanrenduizijideai。jishitamenzhidaonanrendepengyouhetongshizaishenbian，tamenrengranbujinanrenmianzi，shenzhibananrendelianrengzaidishang，yonglicai。

 beiaideren，queshiyouchangkuangdeziben，danshi，zheizhongchangkuangdezhichengdianjiushiai，keaizheizhongdongxi，zaijileilezugoudeshiwangzhihou，jiuhuixiaoshi。

 yinci，dangyigenanrenouerzaiwaimianzhuangqiangzuoshishi，bufangjitadianmianzi，jiazhuanghutu，zheiyangtajiuhuijuedenilijieta，zheiyangjiuhuigengaini。

 yuchundenvrenkenenghuiyaoqiunanrenxuehuifangxiabubiyaodemianzi，rangnanrenzhudonggaibianziji，ercongmingdenvrenzhidaogaibianzijizongshibiyaoqiunanrengaibianzijirongyi，suoyitamenzhidao“zhuang”。

 shishishang，meigerendouzhidaohaomianzishibuhaode，danshimeigerendouzhinengrangzijixuehuifangxiaduoyudemianzi，eryaoqiubierenfangxiaduoyudemianzi。

haowuyiwen，nanrenxihuannvrenjidu，yinweijidushiguanxindebiaoxian，meigenanrendouxiwangzijiaidenvrenhuiguanxinziji。

danshiyoushihou，nvrendecurongyifanlan，bujinduixianzaijiejinnanrendeyixingjidu，haihuiduinanrenguoqudejinglijidu。

 dangnishenaiyigerendeshihou，nizhendehuiyouyizhongqiangliedezhanyouyu，yinweiqitayixingdejiejinerjidushizhengchangde，guanxinnanrenguoqudejingliyeshizhengchangde。

keyizaiyiyuluanchicushiliangmashi。

 youxienvrenhuifengkuangdixunwennanrendeguoqu。dangtamenhenanrenchaojiashi，tamenhuitanlunnanrendeguoqu。shishishang，nvxingdezheixiexingweibujinhuijiangdijiage，erqiezhihuirangnanxinggandaoyane，jishinvxingbiaoxianchugengduodeguanxin。

meigerendouyouyigeguoqu，erguoqudedouyichengweiguoqu，keyifankai，zhendemeiyoubiyaozhizheyuci。

 jishiniguanxinyigerendeguoqu，yebuyaoyiciyouyiciditijita。niyinggaixuehuijiazhuangkangkai，shizhexiangxinnanrenxianzaiaiderenjiushiniziji。zheiyang，nanrenjiuhuiganjinidexinren。

mianduiganqing，womenyinggaibaochiqingxingzizhidetaidu，erguanliyiduanganqingxuyaoshidang“zhuang”yidian，shidangdehutu。

 congmingnvrenzheiyangjingyingganqing？congmingdenvrenzaiguanliganqingdeshihou，wangwangzhidaoruheguanliganqing“zhuang”xiwangniyeshiqizhongzhiyi。