夫妻安全感缺失会怎么样

　　fuqianquanganqueshihuizenmeyang，yinweineixinshenchudehusiluanxianghemeiyouanquangan，womenwangwanghuixiayishidishengshuheduobizheixiechangshidaijiwomenwenrouderen。zheizhongfanyingqishiyudajiaxunzhaoandingganbennengfanyingyoubei，danshizeshineixinziwofangyujizhideyizhongtixian。

　　bulunnannv，zhuixunguishugandourenleidetianxing。meiguozhumingshehuixuejiamasiluozaitaxuyaocengcililunzhongmingquezhichu，shenglixuyaoshidiyicengji，erguishugannaishijinsuiqihoudediercengcixuqiu。meiyouanquanganderen，zailianaiguanxizhongchangchanggandaozishenzheifenganqingwufazhangqi，yinermeitianminganduoyi，tixindiaodan，yuairenjiaowangshibiaoxiandeyouqiyizhi。

　　womenyinggaiyishidao，meiyouanquanganshizishenwenti，shituyongbierenlaidiaojiehuojiyuguishugantongchangshibunenggenchu。jibiantanenglinshijiyuzijixiangyaodeguishugan，buguojiranzheiyifenanquanganjiushibierenfuyude，neitamenyekenenghuiquhui。

　　yinci，yuqishuozaibierendenaerhuodeguishugan，bibushangjizijiguishugan。

　　一、分散注意力

　　fuqianquanganqueshihuizenmeyang，youxieshihou，jiaolvyuaierbudedexintailaiyuanyuduiyuqinmiguanxideguoduguanxin。dangwomendeshenghuojibenshangjinsheng“hunyinguanxi”zheiyizhongxindianshi，dajiabijiaorongyixianruqizhong，bunengziba。weilebaituogezhongqingxu，dajiaxuyaoxuehuifensanzhuyili，zhaodaoshuyuzijidecunzaidejiazhi，bingjizijizhaoyixiebiedeshiqingzuo。

　　yaorenshidaohunyinguanxijinjinshenghuozhongdeyibufen，erfeisuoyou。dajiaxuyaopeiyanggerenxingquaihao，kuokuanjiaojiquan，tigaoyutarenhudongjiaoliu。neiyang，dangwomendezhuyilibuhuizaichedidoujizhongzaihunyinguanxichushi，jiaolvyuaierbudedexintaiyenengdedaojianqing。

　　yaozhaodaoshuyuzijidecunzaidejiazhi。womenmeigerendouyouzijidutedejiazhiheyiyi，womenyinggairenshidaozheiyidian，bingbuduanzaizijidelingyulizhanfangguangmang。zaiwomenjuedezijiyouyiyi、gengyouyiyishi，jiuhuigengzixinxin、wanqiang，jinergenghaodiyingduiqinmiguanxizhongdekaoyan。

　　yaodongdejizijizhaoyixiebiedeshiqingzuo。zheibujinkeyiwomenyaocongqinmiguanxidejiuchanbuqingzhongjiefangchulai，hainengbangzhuwomenkaituoshiye、chongshishenghuo。

　　二、懂得人格独立

　　rengeduli，yiweizhezaimianduikunnanshi，womenkeyixuehuisikao、dulizuochujueding，bingganyuchengdantiaoxuanchanshengdezhize。zheileidandubingfeiyicuerjiu，ershiyaodajiazhujianjiejue“yikao”xinlizhuangtai，suzaozijidedulijingshen。

　　zhideguanzhudeshi，rengeduliyuhuaxuewuzhidandumiqiexiangguan。jinguanhuaxuewuzhidandubingbushirengedulidesuoyou，danliangzhejingchangjinmilianxi。zaijingshencengcidandudeguochengdangzhong，womenhaixuyaonulichuangzaowuzhishangziligengsheng，congergenghaodizhichengdianwomendesikaohepanduan。

　　yaobaituoyilaixinlizhuangtai，zuixianxuyaokefuquefazixin、buduli、bugouchengshuxinlizhuangtai。dajiayaoxiangxin“wozuibang”，tongguofahuizishendezhuguannengdongxing，manmangoujianqidulidesixiang。zheixuyaowomenchixuxuexi、sikaoyushijianhuodong，yitishenggerennenglihezixin。

　　zaiwomendongderengedulishi，dajiabujinkeyigenghaodiyingduishenghuodangzhongtiaozhanjiannan，haikeyigengjiazhudongdicaokongzijideshenghuofangwei。zheijiangdaozhidajiagengyouzixin、jianqianghewanshan，bianchenggengjiayouxiuderen。

　　三、回归真实

　　zaiwomenguoduyilaibieren，weilemanzulingyifangergaibianxianzhuangshi，zuizhenshidezijitongchanghuizhujianxiaoshi。biru，lingyifangxihuanlanse，womenjiuyizhichuanhongseyifu;lingyifangaichihuoguo，womenjiuquxuezuohuoguo。danshi，zheimezuozhinengrangwomenmanmanmishifangxiang，buzaineimexiangziji。

　　zhenzhenzhengzhengdegoutonghetihuishishuangxiangde，erfeidanxiangdesuoyaohuojiyu。womenyaoyongyuchengxianzhenshideziwo，baohanzijideyiyuan、chuangyixiangfaxintai。weiyouruci，womencaihuihuirangduifangjiandaozuizhiguan、zuichuncuidezishen，caikenenggoujianqizhenzhenzhengzhengshencengcidechuanqizhifuchengxu。

　　womenyaoxuehuifangqizheixiebubiyao“pslvjing”，yingyongdizhanxianzhenshideziwo。zaiwomenzheimezuoshi，womenbunanfaxian，zhenzhengyiyishangdehunyinguanxidoushijiyubicizhijianzhenzheng、gongpingdejichuzhishangde。zheizhongguanxibudangengwending，yehuirangwomenjuedegengweimanzuhexingfukuaile。