夫妻怎么样才有安全感呢

　　fuqizenmeyangcaiyouanquanganni，zhenzhengdeaiqingyijianmeihaodeshiqing，tongshiyeshiyijianrangrengandaojiaolvdeshi。tebieshizailiangrenguanxizhong，changchanghuichuxianyifanghuoshuangfangzugoudeanquanganbugou。zishizhizhongfaxianduifanghuibeipanziji，huozheminganduoyijianchaduifangxingji。meiyouanquangandezhuangkuangbunengbeihulve，yinweitahenyoukenenghuizhijieyingxiangnimendeganqingweichi。jiarunijiushineigeyizhimeiyouanquangandeyifang，bufangshiyishizheisanzhao，shizijixinlizhuangtaigengjiankang，rangnimenzhijiandeguanxigengjiawengu。

　　一、静下来，探寻难题的根源

　　meiyouanquangandezhuangkuangkenengjiushiyinweiduozhongduoyangyinsuzaochengde。birunigerendeqinshenjinglixinggeqizhi、ganqingshi、xinliwenti，huozhenimenzhijiandeguanxicunzaidewentideng。zaitansuochulimeiyouanquangandenantiyiqian，womenxuyaofanshengyixia，faxianwentideyuantouzainali。zhiyouneiyang，cainenggengzhenduixingdichuliwenti。

　　liru，nikenenghuimeiyouanquangandoushiyinweinicongqiandeganqingshizhongjingliguobeiyiqideqinshenjingli，suoyicaihuiyizhifaxianduifangbugouaini，huilikaini。zheizhongwentinengtongguohuanhuandilajinguanxi，shizijixinlizhuangtaimanmanjingxiaxinlai。huoshi，nikenenghuiyiqianyizhichuyudanshenzhuangtai，meiyoujianliguozhangjiudeqinglvguanxi，daozhizijixianzaiduiyuqinglvguanxizugoudeanquanganqianque。zheizhongqingkuanghaikeyiduizhengzhiliao，jingchangqushijianhuodongbingshizhelajinguanxi，jinerzhujianhuanjieziyidebuanquangan。

　　二、多和另一方沟通交流，让彼此更贴近

　　meiyouanquanganyeyoukenengshibicizhijianzhongcunzaidewenti。biru，jiaruwomenyiqiancengjingyongyouguoqingxupanbiandengfangmianzhengchao，neinijiuyaogenlingyibanyiqishigandichuliwenti。buyaoxuanweizhewandaoqusikaowenti，ershitongguodequyongxinyingdui，jiejuehaoxianjieduanyijingcunzaidenanti。jianyibawentiliebiaoyiyiliechu：zhengchaoshiyinweishenme?zenyangjiejue?yiqixiangdaoxingzhiyouxiaodejihuafangan。jiaoliuguochengshijishanghainengrangbicizhijiangenghaodelejie，jinerkeyirangbicigengtiejin。

　　fuqizenmeyangcaiyouanquanganni，ciwai，duoyuairengongxiangzijideguandianhetongkuyeshihenzhongyaode，tebieshizainimeiyouanquangandeqingkuangxia。lingyifanghuoxubuzhidaonidexintai，yeyongyuanbuzhidaoyinggaizenmezuocainengrangzijigengjiaanxin。lianggerenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliujinyouyueda，nimenzhijiandeganqingcaikeyigengjiadelaogu，rangtamenchuangjiangengweiderenke。

　　三、多多关注对方的好，保持自我稳定的生活

　　meiyouanquanganyeyoukenenglaizinimendeguanxirichanggoutongzhong，niguodujujiaozailelingyifangdefumiancengmian。yidingyaobimianzheiyangdezhuangkuang，womenyinggaigengjiazhongshiduifangdehao，shizijibuhuizaiguoduguanxinduifangxiaojiqingxu。yaodongdejiejueyixiebuhaodexiangfa，yongxinganshouduifangdehaoheweimeidedifang。

　　yucitongshi，yeyaodongdeweichiwendingdeshenghuo，buyaoguofenquyilailingyifang，fouzenihuiyuelaiyueguoduminganduoyi。jingchangquwajueneixindexihao，zairichangshenghuozhongzhaodaozishendemanzugan。neiyang，jishiduifangyouyitianbuzainishenbian，niyekeyijixuguoshangduocaideshenghuo。