夫妻无安全感怎么办呢

　　fuqiwuanquanganzenmebanni，henduorenfanyingshuo：zaiganqinglibianquefaanquangan，zibei，yizhiganjuebudaoairendeqing。jiaruniyouzheiyangdeqingkuang，neiyangjiaoshixianzaijiugaosunimenyuanguzainaer?ruhejiejue?

　　youhenduorenhuiwenwojiang：“jiaoshi，youyuwozibei，suoyiwozaihunyinshenghuolibiantebiediguanxinduilaogonghao。danzongshibuzhangjiu，yiranhuizongshichaojia，shibushiwoyouxinlijiankangwenti?”，zheigewojuedeyebujiaoxinlijiankangwenti，dahuoerxuxianquguolvdiaozheileiziwohuaiyi。zibeiyeshizhengchangde，youyunideyuanshengjiatinghuoshiguoqudejingli，yehuirangniyouzheizhongganjue。

　　zaixinlishang，youzheiyangyigezhuanyoumingci：queaiderenqishijiushiyizhongqingxujikezheng。birushuowomenrenyitianyicanzuiduoyejiuchiyidaoliangwan，jiuwendingle。keshinikankan，ruguoyigerenduzielesansitianle，neimetabukehuaizhedianfanguochi，zheijiushiyizhongnannai。neiyangganqingfangmiandoushi，niyiqianhenque，yincinidaoganqingzhongjiuhuiyouyizhongqingxunannai。

　　neizheizhongqinggannannaihuizhuyaobiaoxiandaodizainali?wojugelizi，bifangshuoyelihenilaogongchiwanfanle，neimenigenlaogongshuo：“zou，dajiaxialaidahuiqiuyundongyixiaba”，jiarunidelaogongshuo：“e，jinriyoudianerhenleiwojiubuqule，woxiangtangyihuier”。

　　fuqiwuanquanganzenmebanni，dangtajiangchuzheixiedeshihou，yibanmeiyouqingxujikezhengdenvxingpengyou，henyoukenengxiangdejiushi：e，taxianzaileilekunle，neizijixialaizouyizouba。huanjuhuashuo：neimenijinritaileile，woyebuqule，peinikanhuidianshiba，zheiyexushizhengchangdedeniantou。

　　keshinikankan，jiaruyouwendujikezhengdehua，tahuibazheiyidianfangjinleishangbian，kenenghuijuede：nishifoufashengbianhua?nishibushibuaiwole?zhiqiannizaiku，nidounengpeiwoqude。shenzhihaihuiyourenzheimerenwei，tahuijuede：shangyicinixiangqudalanqiu，wozheimexinkuwohaiheniyiqiqule，weihezheiyiciwoxiangyaoqu，nidoubunengpeiwoqu?zhenshirucidehuaxiangdehua，shangshengzhiaihuobuaideshihouhuifashengzhengzhi，dannanhaizijiuhuiganjuemanbujiangli。zheibianshiqingxujikezhengdeyigezhuangtai。