在婚姻中，如何正确处理婆媳矛盾

 ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？jushuoshijieshangzuinanchulideshiqingjiushipoxiguanxi，muqinyongyuanshimuqin，erpopoyongyuanshipopo，daduoshupopozaijiatingzhongdoushiyigecankudejiaose。

 yigenvrenjiajileyigenanren，danyedengyujiajileyigejiating，jiajiletadeyuemu，yinweizaihunyinzhong，nibujinyinggaixuehuihetadezhangfuxiangchu，haiyinggaixuehuihetadeyuemuxiangchu，youdianzaogao，hunyinguanxipoliele。

 “hunyindezhenxiangshiyigerenyuyigejiatingderonghe，erzaizheigeronghedeguochengzhong，popodezuoyongshibukehushide，shenzhishijuzuqingzhongde。”

 zaihunyinzhong，xiaopopoxiwangerziyongyuantingzijidehua，buxiangyinweierziheqiziergaibianrenheshiqing，suoyihenduorendehunyinhuiyinweipopoerbuan。

neimeruhechulihunyinzhongdepopoguanxini？

第一，妈宝男的丈夫注定要处理好婆媳关系

aiqingshilianggerendeshi，tanlianaideshihou，keyilangman，keyiweiaiqingfenbugushen。

 danshijiehunshibutongde，yinweihunyinshilianggejiatingdeshi，youqishizaijiatingzhong。niyinggaixuehuichulipoxiguanxi。ruguonidezhangfuzhishiyigemuqindenanren，neimehunyinjiubuhuiyouxingfu。

 ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？woyouyigechuzhongtongxue，yijingjiehunsannianle，zaizheisannianli，tabingbuxingfu，buxingfu，meijiehundeshihou，hezhangfudeganqingxiangdangbucuo。

 dangzhuiruaiheshi，tadezhangfuhuitingqutadejianyi，zunzhongtadeyijian。ruguotamenyudaorenhekunnan，tamenhuizhaodaojiejuebanfa。yikaishi，tarenweijiajitadezhangfushizhengquedexuanze！

 danjiehunhou，tafaxianzhangfushimuqindebaobei。tabixutingmuqindehua，juedemuqinshiduide。shenglehaizihou，popohetazhuzaiyiqi。

 youyupopodechuangru，jiatingmaodunyuelaiyueduo，popofuzezhangfudegongzika，meigeyuetadouxiangmaidiandongxi，huozhejihaizimaidiandongxi？

 popodouyaoguan，popojuede，nvrenzaijiazhaoguhaizi，buyaohuashenmeqian，buxuyaohuaqian，poposhuo：“nizhuanbudaoqian。nihuadeqianbushiwoerzizhuande”。

 tingdaozheijuhua，taxinlizhendetebieweiqu，ertazhengdangxiangzhaolaogonglilun，fanertalaogongshuo，“womayeshiweilezheigejiahao，womashuodedui，qianyaocunyidianhuacaihao。”

 zaihunyinguanxizhong，ruguozhangfubunengdiaohejiatingguanxi，tazongshizhanzaimuqindejiaodushuohua，congbuweiqizizhexiang。tazongshirenweimuqinshuodeshiduide。shuoshihua，zheizhongmabaonanzaixiangchulehenzhangshijianhouhuigandaopibei，hunyinyehuiyouwenti。

第二，婆婆知道如何儿媳，会促进家庭和谐幸福

 zaizheigeshijieshangyudaoyiweihaopoposhixingyunde，zheiyeyiweizhetashiyigefeichangxingyunderen。youxiepopozhendehenhao，zhidaoruheweierxizhexiang。dangtadeerziheerxichaojiashi，tazongshizhanzaierxiyibian。

 popojuedexifujiajiwomenjiaburongyi。tayinggaiduitahaoyidian，batadangzuonverdechongwu。dangtayudaozheiyangyiweitongqingdali、shanliangdepoposhi，tazhendeshiyigezaiqianshishoudaozhufuderen

biruwobiaojie，tabujinjiadezhangfuduitahao，erqiepopoduitayehenhao，youshenmehaochu，doushixiangzheta。

 dangbiaojiehezhangfuchaojiashi，popohuigaosuzhangfu“duinixifuhaoyidian。tayigerenjiajiwomenjiaburongyi。ruguoniyouhaizi，niyinggaishandainideqizi，zunzhongnideqizi。”。

 tinglezheijuhua，tadeerzigandaoxiukui，juedetademuqinhenguguai，danmuqindehuajiejuelesuoyoudejiatingmaodun。tadebiaomeizhendehengaoxingnengyudaozheiyangyiweihaopopolaizhichita。

 zaihunyinzhong，yigeyougejudepopojuedinglejiatingdezhudaodiwei，yuebu，yuedongdezunzhongerxidepopo，hunyinxingfuzhishujiuhuiyuegao。

ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？yuanmeiyigenvrenzaihunyinzhongdounengyudaoyigehaozhangfu、haopopo，rangjiatingyuelaiyuexingfu。