如何正确处理婆媳矛盾，聪明人都学会这4条“套路”

ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？poxiguanxizenmechuli？worenweichulihaopoxiguanxi，keyicongjigefangmianlaijiejue。

一、清楚地意识到婆婆不是妈妈

popobushimuqin，bushibuyouhao，ershilichangzhengque。

popobunengyaoqiuxifuxiangnveryiyangshuncong，xifuyebunengyaoqiupopoxiangmuqinyiyangfuchu。

 qichu，xuduopopoheerxixiangyaojianlilianghaodeguanxi。tamenrenweitamenkeyifazhanchengmunvzhijiandejiatingguanxi。tamendourenweibierendeshibaishibierendewuneng。jieguo，tamendejiarennuligongzuo，danzuizhong，tamenkenenghuiyinweiyijuhuaerzhuanguolian。yuanyinhenjiandan。tamendeyuemubushimuqin。

 zaimunvguanxizhong，yigezaishangcengzhihui，lingyigezaixiacengzhixing。poxibunengzuomunv。zuihaobazijidelichangdingxialai，yizhengquedejiaosexiangchu，zheiyangnijiubuhuiduibiciyoutaiduodeyaoqiu。

二、降低对方的预期

 chulemunvzhiwai，nverhemuqinyoushizaijialishiduilide，dangengduodefenqibingbuyingxiangtamenshimunv。poxibuyiyang，zhiyaoyoumaodun，henduopopodouhuixiang:“woduitazheimehao，langxingoufei，weibushuxidegou”。

 yuanyinhenjiandan。munvzhijianmeiyouhuibao。tamenyoubutongdeyijianhejianchi。popoheerxiweilebiciyouhaoerfuchudaijia。weilehuodemuqindezige，popodezuizhongmubiaoshirangerxifucong。

 danshinverkenengbuhuifucong，zheiyupopoxiangyaodadaodemudebuyizhi。yinci，jiangdibicideqiwang，shixianjiatingguanxidehexie，buxuyaoduirenherentichugaoyaoqiu。

三、互相尊重

ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？poxixianghuzunzhong，jiyaozunzhongduifangdeshenghuoxiguan，yeyaozunzhongduifangdequanli。

 popozuichangfandecuowujiushirenweizijishierzijialidehuangtaihou，renweizijikeyiganshexiaofuqideshenghuo，meigerendoubixufucong。

 shishishang，liangdairenzhijiandegainianchajutaidale。nianlingchajushi30sui。gaigekaifangkeyibashenzhenbianchengyigemingxingchengshi。liangdairenzhijiandedaigoubuxiao。zuihaoshihuxiangzunzhonghexiguan。ruguonibixu，nikeyixuanzehulveta，zunzhongtarenduishenghuodejuecequan。

四、保持安全距离

shidangdejulishirenmenxiangchuqingsongdeguanjian。yuqijinjulikan，burubaochijuli，zhaobudaoduifangtaoyandedifang。

 ouerjuzaiyiqi，bicidoushikeren，gejinsuoneng，liaodehenkaixin。shaoyonggerendejiaodukanduifang，shaotiaotiduifang，shaozuoshi，duorentongduifangdejueding，duoganxieduifangdenuli。

tongshi，jianjuezhichipeiouxiaoshun，buyaorangpeioudefumurenweiqulexifujiuwanglemuqin，buyaoranggongpobayuanhenzhuanjiajiziji。

 ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？yinci，buyaorenweipoposhimuqin，buyaorenweierxishinver，zuohaozijidebenfen，baochijuli，jianshaoqiwang，zhishaoshiyizhongkansihexiedepoxiguanxi。