怎样才能让婆媳关系好，看婆婆能不能做到这三点了

 zenyangcainengrangpoxiguanxihao？yourenshuo，poxipoheerxizhijiandemaodunyijingchengweizhongguojiatingdezhuyaomaodun。zheibingbukuazhang。wulunshinagepingtai，zhiyaoshiguanyupopoheerxixiangchudehuati，jibenshangdoushixifutucaopopo，youxiehuatitebieshengqi。

 weishenmexifuduipopozheimeshengqi？zuoweiyigehepopoyiqishenghuoleliuniandexifu，woxiangwoyouzigebiaodawodeguandian。xuduopopozhendehentaoyanta。

buguo，jintianwoxiezheipianwenzhangbushiweiletucaopopo，ershicongyigeerxidejiaodu。

讨论婆婆到底怎么做，才不会招儿媳讨厌

尊重儿媳

shishishang，poxizhijiandexuduomaodundoushiyouyupopobudongdezunzhongerxieryinqide。

liru，xuduopoporenweixifujiehunshiyinggaixiangbaomuyiyangzhaoguerzi。zhiyaotaburuziji，tajiubuxihuanta。

 youxiepopobiaomianshangshuoshibangzhunianqingfufuzhaoguhaizi，dantamenbixuduiyiqiedouyouzuizhongjuedingquan。ruguotamendeerxitichuyidianyijian，tamenhuijuedetamendeerxihenpanni，buzhidaoruhezunzhonglaoren，shenzhizhijietuichu。

 gengzhiyouxiepopojuedeerzijiehundeshihouyijingjiqianle，suoyiduixiaoliangkouzhijiandeshiqingjinxinglegezhongganshe，shenzhimeiyouheerxishangliangdeqingkuangxiajuedingde。

zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，shiwenerxifuzenmenenghuodekaixin，huixihuanpopo？

 ziguyilai，zhongguojiutichangzunlaoaiyou，zheishidexuduopoporenweizhixuyaoerxizunzhongziji，buxuyaozunzhongta。danwobuzhidaozunzhongshixianghude。zhiyouxianghuzunzhong，guanxicainenghexie。

 zenyangcainengrangpoxiguanxihao？suoyi，xiwangpopomingbai，xifubushinijiadebaomu，tahenierzipingdeng。nibunengxiangaierziyiyangaita，danzhishaoyaozunzhongta。

jiarubangzhuzhaoguhaizi，yexiwangnenganzhaoxifudeyijianlaizhaoguhaizi，zhiyaoduihaizimeiyoushanghai，tingsheidezhendebuzhongyao。

lingwai，popoyaoduoheerxishangliang，buyaozhiheerzishangliangyiqie。

 yongyuanjizhu，xifushitamenxiaojiadenvzhuren，ruguopopoxiangzuonvzhuren，neijiuhuidaozijihezhangfudejiali，buyaozaierzidejiali。

不要恶意猜测儿媳妇

 meiyouyigeerxifuzaidiyicijinmenshiyupopofashengchongtu。tazhisuoyixiangdirenyiyangzhizaomafan，shiyinweitazairichangshenghuozhongmanmanjileileyuanhen，erzheixieyuanhendexingchengzongshiyupopodeeyicaiceyouguan。

 liru，wodeyuemushiyigefeichangxihuanhusiluanxiangderen。wodeputonghuachangchangbeitawujieweiduitachongmaneyideyuyan。zuiwuyandeshi，tahuiyongeyijieshideyisixiangerzibaoyuan，zheiduifuqiguanxiyingxianghenda。

 daduoshupopoyupeiouguanxibuhao，buzhidaoruhechongshiziji，suoyitamenzongshibazhuyilijizhongzaierzishenshang，zheiyangtamenzaimianduierxishijiuhuidailaieyi，shenzhibaerxidangzuoqiangjieerzidenvren。

 popoyidanyoulezheigexiangfa，jiuhuiduierxibumanyi，zheishierxidexingwei.yigeyanshen，yijuhua，tamendounengcongzhongjieduchuxuduobuhaodeyisi。

zaijiashangyixiepoposhanzhangyikuernaosanshangdiao，zuizhongdaozhierxiyixiangdaotamenjiuzhixiangduodeyuanyuande，guanxiziranbuhao。

 shishishang，daduoshunianqingrenmeiyouneimeduodexiangfa。tamenzaishuohuahezuoshishimeiyouneimeduodexinlihuodong，tamenyebuhuijinlirangzhangfuhejiarenbukaixin。

 yinci，youyupopotongyierziquxifu，tamenyinggaizhenzhengjieshoulingyigenvrenchuxianzaierzishenbian。buyaoyongyouseyanjingkanerxi，gengbuyaoshuobaerxidangzuojichengjiatingdegongju。

注意边界感

 popozuirangerxitoutengdexingwei，buzhuzhongbianjieganjueduikeyipaizaidiyiwei，poxizhijiandemaodun，jibenshang90%douyubianjieganyouguan。

 youhenduoxingwei，popobuzhuyibianjiegan，birusuiyiganshexiaofuqideshenghuo；liru，yidongerxidedongxi，jinruerxiheerzidefangjian，dengdeng。zheilimeiyoulizi。

假如婆婆想让儿媳不恨自己，就应该时刻牢记以下几点

 1.buyaobaerzidejiadangzuozijidejia。dangerzijiehunshi，tahuizuchengzijidexiaojiating。muqinkeyiqutajiazuoke，dantabunengzuonvzhuren，yinweierxishineigejiadenvzhuren。chufeitamenhenizhuzaiyiqi，fangzishinihenizhangfude。

 2.duinideerzilaishuo，buyaobeimuaiyanmei。tayijingzhangdale。qingkezhinidedanyou。ruguoniweinideerzizuoleyiqie，nishijishangshizaihenideerxiqiangjienidezhangfu，erdaduoshunianqingnvxingduiyulaotaitaiqiangjienanrenbuganxingqu，suoyitamengenbenbuweizhangfuzuorenheshi，zheihuiyingxiangfuqiguanxi。jizhu，nizuodeyueduo，tadeerxijiuhuizuodeyueshao。

 3.erxiheerzizhijiandeshiqinghenshaojieru，youqishidangtamenfashengchongtushi，zhiyaotamenbushitebiejilie，zuihaoshibuzhidaozijishizhangbei。chufeinizhendenengzhanzaierxiyibian，fouzezhihuijihuamaodun。

4.buyaofuchumeiyoudixian，fuchutaiduoyebuhuiganji，youqibuyaomaidiaozijidefangziranghaizimaifang。

popozainanzuo，yemeiyouerzinanzuo。

shishishang，zuinanshoudeshierzi，yinweishuangfangdoushitazuixihuanderen，buguantazenmezuo，douhuidezuiyigeren。

 woxiangxindaduoshupopodoufeichangaitamendeerzi，suoyidangniduierxibumanyishi，duoxiangxiangnierzixiangyaoshenme。zhiyaoerzirengranaitadeerxi，muqinjiubuyinggaijiqitamendeganqing，chufeinizhendexiangrangtamenlihun。

 buguanshenmeshihouzuomuqin，zhiyaozunxunweierzihaodeyuanze。danshizheigehao，yidingshierzizijixiangyaodehao，erbushinixiangdehao。

 zenyangcainengrangpoxiguanxihao？duiyunanrenlaishuo，zuihaodeshiqingjiushifumujiankangkuaile，fuqixingfuhexie，haizicongmingjiankang。mingbaizheiyidian，youhebigenxifuguobuqu？