怎样才能让婆媳关系好，等价交换才是最明智的婆媳相处方式

 zenyangcainengrangpoxiguanxihao？ruheyupoxixiangchuziguyilaijiushiyigenanti。jushuomeigejiatingdouyouyibennandongdejingwen。weishenmejingwenhennandu？

 youyubutongdechengzhangjinglihebutongdechengzhanghuanjing，tamenhuiyoubutongdesiweiguannianhezuoshifangshi。hunyinbujinshilianggerendeshenghuo，yeshijiatingchengyuanzhijiandexianghumohe。yinci，chulihaorenheyizhongguanxidoushiyizhongzhishi。

 lianggexiangaiderenzuchengleyigejiating。yinweifuqizhijianyouai，zhiyaotamengengjialijiehekuanrong，tamenjiunengkuailedishenghuo。yinci，ruhechulipoxiguanxixuyaomeigejiatingchengyuandenuli。womencongyixiajidianjinxingfenxi。woxiangxinzheijiangyouzhuyuruhechulipoxiguanxi。

01、单方面的付出和包容不会换来和谐的婆媳关系

 jingchangshoudaoyixienvxingduzhedesirenliuyan“popobijingshizhangbei，weilejiatinghemu，wojibenshangkeyirenshou。danshiweishenmewoderenpopodegezhongkunnan？”youyunidetongqingdali，niderenranghedaotuiyongcuoledifang。buzhenxinideren，huijuedenihaoshuohua，haoqifu。

 woyehuikandaoyixiepopodeliuyan“woxiangnveryiyangbangzhuerxizhaoguhaizi，dasaofangjian，zuofan，dantahaishihentiaoti，shuowozuobuhao，neiyezuobuhao。wozhendebuzhidaogaizenmeban，zheiyangwodeerxicainengmanzu。”woxiangjianyizheiyangdepopo：ruguofuchufanerhuanlaixifudechuimaoqiuci，qingtingzhijixufuchu。

 zaiyupopoheerxixiangchushi，youxieyuanzebunengweifan，youxiedixianbunengkuayue。buyaotianzhendirenwei，zhiyaonifuchuherongren，nijiunengjiaohuanbicideqinmiguanxi。duiyuneixiebudongdeganenderenlaishuo，zheibuzhidenifuchu。zaimouxierenyanli，kuanrongbingbudaibiaonidekangkai，ershihuibeirenweishiruanruoheqipian。

02、婆媳关系，没有无缘无故的爱和仇恨

 yinweiyigenanrendechuxian，popohexifuzhijianyouyigejiaoji。tachengpopoweimuqin，danshishishang，popobushimuqin，gengbuyongshuobaerxidangzuozijidenverle。zheixiebiaomianshangshiguanmiantanghuangde。youduoshaorennengzhenzhengzuodaozheiyidian？

 zenyangcainengrangpoxiguanxihao？yijianxiaoshidefenqijiangchengweimaodundedaohuosuo。poxizhijianhennanxinganqingyuandiweiduifangzhexiang。jishitamenzhendefuqian，tamenyehuishoudaoduifangdezhiyi。jishishisuosuideshiqingyehuishoudaopiping、wujiehewujie。bapopodangzuomuqin，baerxidangzuonvershibuxianshide。

 nvrenchengpopoweimuqinjibenshangshiyizhongzuncheng，zheibingbuyiweizhetamenkeyibeidangzuozijidemuqinduidai。youxienanrenjingchangshuotamendemuqinburongyi，bingyaoqiutamendeerxixiaoshun。wobumingbaiweishenmenanrenyaobasuoweidexiaoxinjituozainvrenshenshang？popoheerxizhijiansihushiyizhongdengjiajiaohuan。ruguoniduiwohao，woziranhuiduinihao。

 poxizhijiandeguanxixuyaobaochijuli。yudaomafanshibuyaotairenzhen。zhiyaowomenhuxiangzunzhong，hubuganshe，hubudarao，huxiangguanxin，womenjiushizuihaodexiangchufangshi。zuoweiyigenanren，meiyoubiyaoweilesuoweidexiaodaoerrangerxihemuqinzhuzaitongyigewuyanxia。bujinjiazaizhongjian，erqiebuliyupoxizhijiandehexie。

 zenyangcainengrangpoxiguanxihao？poxiguanxisihushilianggerenzhijiandeshi。shishishang，poxiguanxidezhiliangduiyigejiatingdehexiefeichangzhongyao。zhengquechulipoxiguanxiyeshinanrenyiburongcidezeren。bijing，zhiyoujiatinghemu，meigerendounenggandaoxingfu！