老公不碰我却自己解决 这样的婚姻何时是个头？

　　我和丈夫结婚七年了，但是我们已经三年没有夫妻生活了，他宁可自己处理，也不愿碰我。老公不碰我却自己解决？

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　　我的大腿上满是妊娠纹，这些都去不了，会伴随我一生，老公不碰我却自己解决？erwodexiongbuyijingwanquanxiachui，meiyouxiwangle。yexushizheiyang，wozhangfubuxiangpengwo，danwoyebuxiangzheiyang。wobudoushiweileshenghaizima?weishenmewoxianzaijuedecuoderenshiwo?