分手了如何挽回 一起来看看正确挽回的方法

　　fenshouleruhewanhui？“cengjing，youyifenzhenzhideaiqingbaizaiwomianqian，womeiyouzhenxi，zhidaoshiqudeshihou，wocaihouhuimoji。”renshengzuidadetongchumoguoyuci，weilebujizijiliuquehan，henduorendouhuixuanzewanhui，keshigaizenmewanhuini?

　　一、分手后，人的情感一般会经历3个阶段

　　①抵触期

　　zheishihouyinweinimenzaiganqingliyouyixiefenqi，zaiyiqishijianjiule，kenenghuibaduifangdequedianfangda。yincifenshoudeneiyike，zhihuixiangyaoduifangdequedian。

　　zheiyijieduanduifangdeqingxushiduizheiduanguanxidewunai、fennu、shenzhishijuewang。

　　zheiyijieduanwulunwomenzuoshenmedoushibuduide，womenweiyinengzuodejiushizanshianduifangdexiangfalai。liru，duifangshuomeishibuyaolianxi，neiwomenzanshijiubuyaolianxita。

　　②反思期

　　erdichuqiguohoujiuhuijinrufansiqi，zaifansiqizhong，duifanghuicongfenshoushineileibijiaojiliedeqingxuzhongmanmandizouchulai，kaishifansizheifenganqing。

　　renbenshennengjizijidehuiyidiaozhengjieshi，zaichanshenghelihuadexinlijizhi，yibaozhengzijiyigexiangduijijideqingxu。

　　yinci，zaizheigeshihou，neixiecengjingmeihaodehuiyihuibujingyidibeitaxiangdao。

　　③怀念期

　　jiexialai，congfansiqijinrudaoxiayijieduanhuainianqi。

　　jinruhuainianqiyihu，duifanggengduodexiangqizaiyiqishideeihao。ruoshizaihuainianqizuochuzhengquedewanhuidongzuo，fuhedegailvhuifeichangda。

　　二、挽回第一步，如何判断对方是否已经进入怀念期

　　①guanchaduifangdepengyouquandezhuangtai。

　　jiarugangfenshoushihuifayixieganshangdepengyouquan，danshizhihoupengyouquandehuifahepengyoujuhuihuozhegongzuodengjijidedongtai，ganjueshenghuoyehuifuzhengchangle。

　　zheibiaomingduifangyijingzouguolefansiqi，jiarukanbujianweixinpengyouquande，nikeyitongguogongtongpengyouhuodeduifangdedongtai。

　　②tongguoqiuzhulaijianceduifang。

　　xunwenyigeshuyuduifangshanzhangdenanti，guanchaduifangdehuiyingzhuangkuang。

　　tangruoduifangdehuiyinghenlengdanshenzhishiyoudiyi，zheibiaomingduifangrengzaidichuqihuoshifansiqi。tangruoduifanghuifuhenzhengchang，yekeyiliaoyixieqitadeshiqing，zheibiaomingyijingshihuainianqi。

　　③主动的自我展示。

　　fenshouleruhewanhui？nikeyizhaoyixieniyugongtongpengyoujuhuidezhaopianfangzaishejiaopingtai，huozhedaoyixiedajiacengjingchangchangqudedifang，paizhaofangzaishejiaopingtai。

　　tangruoduifangdianzanle，neijiujinrudaohuainianqile，huozheranggongtongpengyouquzhaoduifangliaoxiangguannifadedongtaideshier，yekeyiceshichuduifangdetaidu。

　　ruguoquedingduifangjinruhuainianqi，womenjiukeyikaishijiexialaixingdong。

　　三、如何利用共同回忆挽回对方

　　gongtonghuiyi，zhuyaoyoudidianxinghuiyi，changjingxinghuiyi，wujianxinghuiyi。womenyouhenduodeshihoudoushikeyijiezhudaozheixiehuiyide。

　　①地点型回忆

　　birushuo，zaiyuduifangliaotianshi，womenjiunengtijiyixiedidianxingdehuiying。keshi，zheigehuiyibingbuhuijiduifangdailaihendadeyali。

　　wojugelizi：“zuoriwuyijiantongshidaiwoqunichangqudeneijiacantingchifan。jideyiqiannidiancaideshihouhaimanqingsongde，rujinlundaozijizijidiandeshihoubuzhidaozenmedianguo，suoxingjiudianguoniyiqiandianguodecai。buguozuorichideweidaohezhiqiandeweidaofangfobutaiyiyang。”

　　ruguozheishihou，duifangwennalibuyiyang，biaomingyuanyihewomenliaotian，neimewomenkeyichangshixingdeliaoxiaqu。

　　jiezhe，womenkeyiyibubuditongguogongtongdejiyi，jifaqiduifanghuainiandeganjue。suihou，womenhaiyoujihuiyueduifangyiqiquchizhiqianjingchangqudecanting。

　　danshijiaruwomenzheiyangdakaigongtonghuiyi，xiaoguojiubujinrenyile。

　　例如，你这样说：

　　“zuoriwuyijian，tongshidaiwoqunichangqudecantingchifan。zhiqiandoushiwomenlianggerenyiqiqude，rujinwoyigerendiancan，yebuzhidaodianshenme。niruguozaijiuhaole，wojidenizhiqiandouhuidianhaocaidengwo。”

　　congshangshuzheijuhuakeyikanchuniyoujiqiangdesuoyaogan，yeyouyixiechizegan。nideqiantaici，bianshi“yinweinihewofenshoule，suoyiwocaibianweiyigerenquchifanle。”

　　②场景型回忆

　　womenkeyiqucengjingdajiachangqudechangdi，keyizaizheixiedidianpaizhaofapengyouquan，zheiyekeyirangtahuiyidajiacengjingdemeihao。

　　dangranhaiyoujiushinimenhusongdeliwu。zheixiedounengzainimendeliaotianzhong，huoshipengyouquanzhongzhanxianchulai。

　　③物件型回忆

　　zaiyiqishi，cengjinggongtongyangguochongwu，zheiyehuiyouhendadebangzhu。

　　lirufenshouhou，nihaiyizhiyangzhechongwu，nijiukeyiquduifangjiafujindehuayuandaigouwan，tizaofayigepengyouquan。

　　jiarunengmotouduifangchuruxiaoqudeshijian，nenggouzhaopengyoubagoufangdaoduifangjiafujin，youyuxiaogoushirenshiduifangde，duifangkenenghuizhudonglianxini。

　　jiarugaobuqing，neijiuzaifayigegougoubujianledepengyouquan。yinweijiuzaiduifangjiafujin，zijihenji，qingduifangbangmang。huoxuzaiyiqixunzhaogougoudeguochengzhong，nimendeguanxijiutuijinle。

　　zaishiyonggongtonghuiyideguochengzhong，ruguochuxianbushihenhaodexiaoguo，womenyaoxianhuibidiaozheiyihuati。

　　dengyiduanshijianhou，zaizhaoheshideshijian，zhaoqitadeneirongzaiqugenduifangchupeng。②changjingxinghuiyi

　　womenkeyiqucengjingdajiachangqudechangdi，keyizaizheixiedidianpaizhaofapengyouquan，zheiyekeyirangtahuiyidajiacengjingdemeihao。

　　dangranhaiyoujiushinimenhusongdeliwu。zheixiedounengzainimendeliaotianzhong，huoshipengyouquanzhongzhanxianchulai。

　　③物件型回忆

　　zaiyiqishi，cengjinggongtongyangguochongwu，zheiyehuiyouhendadebangzhu。

　　lirufenshouhou，nihaiyizhiyangzhechongwu，nijiukeyiquduifangjiafujindehuayuandaigouwan，tizaofayigepengyouquan。

　　jiarunengmotouduifangchuruxiaoqudeshijian，nenggouzhaopengyoubagoufangdaoduifangjiafujin，youyuxiaogoushirenshiduifangde，duifangkenenghuizhudonglianxini。

　　jiarugaobuqing，neijiuzaifayigegougoubujianledepengyouquan。yinweijiuzaiduifangjiafujin，zijihenji，qingduifangbangmang。huoxuzaiyiqixunzhaogougoudeguochengzhong，nimendeguanxijiutuijinle。

　　zaishiyonggongtonghuiyideguochengzhong，ruguochuxianbushihenhaodexiaoguo，womenyaoxianhuibidiaozheiyihuati。

　　dengyiduanshijianhou，zaizhaoheshideshijian，zhaoqitadeneirongzaiqugenduifangchupeng。