和女孩子聊天的技巧究竟是什么

怎么和女生 聊天 ?和女孩子聊天的技巧究竟是什么?为什么有些男人总是能跟女人有说有笑、侃侃而谈，而有些人却怎么样都无法激起对方的兴致，甚至根本不知道要说些什么?

一、怎么和女生聊天

 shouxian，nibixuxuehui「lingting」denengli。nvrenhentaoyanneixietaotaobujue、ziwopengzhang、daduanbierenshuohua、congtoudaoweizhigujiangzijidenanren。yinweizainvrenkanlai，zheidingduoshiyizhongbuanquangandebiaoxian， buranjiushixinxiang：「nidaodixiangzhengmingshenmela?」

 xinshidaidenvxinghencongming。tamenkantaiduoyetingtaiduo，nishuoleshenmehua，naligaidashenmezhekou，fanyingchunishizenyangderen，tamendaduoxinliyoushu。zhuigenjiudi，henduonvrenzaoyifazhanchushuyuzijideyitaoguizequpinggunanrendezhenwei。

 chenggongdegoutongshishuangxiangde。youqidangnvrenkenkaikoushi，nizhangdaerduozixiting。nvrenkenduinishuohuaweibidaibiaoxihuanni，buguoqimaniyijingrangtachanshengchubude「xinren」。dangnannvzhijiandexiyinjianlizaixinrendepingtaishang，zheiduanguanxicaisuanwengu。

二、搭讪秘籍

dashanmijiyi：dashanzhedezishenxingxiang

 zheiyidian，yinggaishizuijibendelimaole。yigeyiguanbuzheng。juzhicusuderen，benlaizouzaijieshangjiuhuirangqitalurenfenfencemule，jiugengbuyongshuolanzhuyigechuchudongrendenvshengyaoqiurenshile。

 suoyi，zishendexingxiangyaozuohao，yexunibushidashuaibi，danshiyidingyaobaozhengzhezhuangzhengqi，ganjingqingshuang，yikanjiushizhengzhengjingjingdehaorenjiadenanhaizi，zheiyangcainengrangnvshengyuanyiduinifangxiajiebeixin。

dashanmijier：dashandechushoushiji

 jinliangxuanzenvshengkongxian、youanquangandeshihouqudashan，zhaoguhaoduifangdeganshou，zheiyeshizaicemianzhanshinidelimao，tongshiyenenggoutigaonidedashanchenggonglv。

 buyaozainvshengguomalu，dadianhuahuozheshimaidongxideshihouqudaraoduifang，yebuyaozaiyongjicaoza，guangxianhunanhuozheshikongkuangwurendedidiandashannvsheng。

dashanmijisan：dashandekaichangbai

 yaozhidao，mianduimoshengrendeturandashan，nihuijinzhang，nvshenggengshihuijinzhang。suoyia，jinkuaibiaomingnidelaiyijiushiduinvshengdeyizhonglimao，yehuirangtajinkuaifangxiajingtixintai。

 dashandekaichangbai，suiranxuyaonihaohaozhuomo，danshiyoushihou，caiqushenmeyangdeshouduanbingbuzhongyao，daliangdeshijianzhengming，chengshiyulimaodekaichangqiaqiashichenggonglvzuigaode。

三、和女孩子聊天的技巧

diyige：liaotianqianqibuguitian

 henduonanshenggangjialenvshenghou，shanglaijiushiyidunmenggong，gezhongtaolugezhongxianyinqin，bazijidexuqiuganwanquanbaoluchulaile，zheigeshihou，chufeinizhendezhangdehenshuaihuoshihenyouqian，buranyibandenvshengdouhuibanidangbeitai。jiusuanqianqihenvshengliaotianhuatibijiaoshao，jiangdiliaotiandepinlv，yebuyaoquyinghetaohaonvsheng。

dierge：liaotianzhongqiyaodaya

 henvshengliaotiandaoyidingdechengduhou，kenengshuangfanghuiyouyixiehaogan，zheigeshihou，qianwanbuyaodiaoyiqingxin，buyaoyiweizheigemeiziyijingdaoshoule，qishi，nvshengxiangmaoyiyang，niyuefoudingta，tayuexiangzhengmingziji，niyueshiyingheta，tayueshigaoleng。

disange：liaotianhouqiduojujue

 zheigejieduan，nimenkenengchuyuaimeideshihou，nvshengzheigeshihouhuigezhongshitanni，zheishinvrendetianxing，nanrenyaoshidangdejujueta，ruguotazhenxiangyueni，jihuiyoudeshi，ernvrenyuenibeinijujuehou，nikeyixiangxiang，nvshenghuizenmexiang，yidinghuirenweinishiyigeyouxiudenanren，bushiyigejikedediaosi。yinciruguoninengji“nvshen”yingzaochunishiyigeyoubiaozhun，youtaidu、ganyushuobudenanrenhou，“nvshen”duinidehaoganhuishunjianshangshenghaojigedangci。