单身生活的好处与坏处有哪些？

 danshenshenghuozenmeyang?danshenzaizheiyishehuifazhanbingbuzuweiguai，danshenduoxingfu，wodanshenwosuiyi。danshenjuyouyichuyeshibiduan，yichushiledewujuwushu，biduanjiushishuoduirentijiqixinlijiankangjubeiqianzaixingdeweihai。xianzai，jiuzhuisuixiaobianwomenyiqilaikanyixiadanshenshenghuodehaochuhebiduanba。

一、单身的好处

1、ninengsuishisuidikaizhanzheichangqingsongziyoudelvyou

 jiaruzaoshangxinglaishi，jinizheizhongxianglaihaiwailvyoudeyuwang，yuanyifanshanyuelingdaobingdaotubulvyou，yihuozhedachuanquredaidiqu，neimanijuedenineilanmandeairenhuizuohetixianni?dangnidefanganzhongmeiyoubaohantamen，tamenhaowuyiwenshihuibugaoxingde。keshi，danshendedajianenggouhaowugujidesuiyidequlvyou，jiaruzainideneixin，nijuedezishenshi1geliulangzhe，neimadanshendeyishizhuxingjianghuihuiheshini。

2、ninengmeishenmejupadihetarentiaodou

 womenyiqirenqingzheiyizhuangkuang：wulunshibushinidanshen，youshi，renquanshihuitiaodoude。benzhishang，zheileitiaodouyibanquanshiqianyishide，jiarudanshenderengaoyiduanluodui1geyouqishiderendeqinggan，keshizheiyirannenggouzaochengzheizhongnankandezhuangkuang。zaiairenjianturanmaochu1gepohuan，zheijianghuizaochengzheizhongnankandejushixunsujiuhuizhuanbianchengzheichangkongbudemaodun。yiner，jiaruzuixihuantiaodou，neimayigerendeshenghuojianghuihuiheshini。

3、ninengziliziqiangdegongzuozhong

 dangyouzhe1geairendeneishihou，renshihuifeichangrongyihenduode。meiguodexueshuyanjiuganlezheixiangdiaoyanfajue，dangdajiagangkaishimeiduanqingganyihou，62%deshouzhongdezengzhongle14bangnaizhidaliang。zheileizengzhonghaoxiangshidianxingxingdeyouhuiyezhutihuodongde1gelijibuliangyingxiang。dangbeiwenqi，tamenliangrenyuehuideguanjianzhutihuodongshi，30%deshouzhonghuitiaoxuankandianshiju，20%derentiaoxuanyikuaierchitesemeishi。jiaruniyaojizhongzhuyilitishengnidexinshen，neimayigerendeshenghuojianghuihuiheshini。

4、ninengjieyuehenduodeshijian

 tuisonghuojieshoudaoqingyimianmiandexinxineirongshishifenquweide，keshinikeyixiangxianglianrenjianjiangshiduoshaozhenguideshijianhuaxiaozaishouji?meiyouheairenkaizhanlijigoutongjiaoliu，dabufenrenjiuhuiyuelaiyuexinshenbuning。yinerjuedaduoshurenyaoyaohuafeishangjixiaoshideshijianfaxinxihetongdianhua。huoxu，ninengtiaoxuan1gezijuexingqiangdeairen，keshiquefajue，xunzhaoneiyangyiweiairennalijianyi。jiaruniyaojiangdaliangdeshijianzijintourudao1gegengweihelidecengmianshang，neimayigerendeshenghuojianghuihuiheshini。

5、ninengyouzhe1geqingjingerroumeideshuimianzhiliang

 zibai：woqueshiqueshihenxiangbeixiangyong。wozaoyidanshenhaozhangguoduanshijianle，zaixuduocengmianwohenxihuandanshen，keshirentichupengcengmiandequeshaoyaowofengkuang(yexuwogaizhao1genenggouxiangyongdexiaohuoban)。zheiwomenyiqiguanxindaozheiyidianer，jibianbicixiangyiyiqihengaoxing，keshihetarenyiqishuiyaowojuedehennanshou(feichangshijiarutamenshuijuedahulu)jiarunilejieneileijuede，neimaniheshidanshendeyishizhuxing。

6、ninengbiandeyuelaiyuededandu

 niqinshenjingliguotichufenshouma，nideqingganbenkuiyizhiyuzaihaojigexingqineinibukeyixiufu，naizhishihaihaoduogeyueli?aiqingshizheizhongcuoluandewupin，tajishixingfude，yiqiyoujubeihuimiexing。(nilejiefengbaojiushishuoyirenqumingde，duibudui?)mingxiandeqingganbukeyi，doubuyingdangbaochichenmo，keshibukeyirangzijibianchengniguanniandezhuzaizhe。youyuhenshaodejibanzhongjiushiyaoqudechenggongde。jiaruzhenduineibandefengxianxingnijuedenanshou，neimaniheshiyigerendeshenghuo。

7、ninengyunidepenyoubaochilianluo

 bubishangxin，renmenjianghuishizhongbaochilianluode。zheizhonghuatingqilaihenlejiedangconglikeyaoshengxiaohaihuoshiwanhundepenyoudekouzhongjiangchushi。neimayouyoujigehuizhenshidexinshounuoyanni?wogandadu，benzhimeiyouhaoduogeren。zhenduineiyangdeqingkuang，bingbushijuedejingya。youyuneibandeyishizhuxingjuecelerenmenwubiyaoxunzhidiaomouxiesuiyishijianhebenrensuiyi。ruguonichengjialiyele，huoshishiyouxiaohaizile，nijiuhuifaxianmeibanfajiyashijianquganmouxieqitashier。dangnidouhaimeitiqianzhunbeihao，neimaniheshidanshendeyishizhuxing。

8、niwuxuguanzhe1gecaogaodeairen

 zaiguowai，yijin50%dehunyinshenghuozuihouyibuchenggongjieshude。neimanijinbuzhusisuo，youshiduoshaoduifufuyiranyishizhuxingyiqi，zhishishiyinweixinfengzongjiao，zichanyuangu，huoshishikanzaixiaohaidefenshang。jinxingzheiyikongbudejiemian。ruguonijuedegududeneishihou，shishizaitaifeichangrongyiwanbizheileicaogaoguanlian。yinerruguonimeiyoubaifenzhibaidezixinxinlejieniyuanyicongnideairenneibianhuodenaxie，neimaniheshiyigerendeshenghuo。

9、ninengwujuwushuganyiqieniyaogandeshier

 haosihuaduoxiangtong，jiaruwobujitajiaoguan，neimatajiuhuidiaoxie，qinggandoushizheiban，ruguobushilijideaixiyuguanai，neimaqingganyehuimeibian。nizhoubianyoumuyouneiyangdepenyou，tachangchangzaimaiyuanzishenshizenyangqidaihuodeduifangdeguanzhu。yijuneishihoudechangjing，zheileimaiyuanshinenggoulejiede。keshidabufenrenxiaokanle，baochimeiduanshenxinjiankangdeqingganbixuduojiu。meiyoushenmejuedeguaiyideqidailingyidabanhuaxieshijianpeinidaiyiqi。jiaruwobutiqianzhunbeikaolvdaobierendebixu，neimaniheshiyigerendeshenghuo。

二、单身的弊端

1、chenmiyuganqingfeizaoju

 renkenijiaodadeyouxiyuleshiganqingfeizaojushima。xiangxiangzishenshinvzhujiao，youmeihaodeaiqingxiachang。xianzaikaishidiaojienideaihaole。dangkengrendeyouxiyulefushileniquanbukongxiandeneishihou，tachanshengdeweihaishihenfengxiande。

2、nifajuequanbunanshengchangyouwenti

 danshentaijiude1gefumianyingxiangshitaiguokeke。niyizhizaishenpangmeiyinanshengshoushangdounengfajuequexian，ershishishangnidedabufenzhizedoumeiyoushenmeshijijiben。jiusuanpinxingjianyoudenanshengshoushang，niyekeyitiaomaobing：chuanyifubuzupinwei，lianshangmaokongcuda，buxiangkanyulexinwen，jieshenghuaqian…… huoxunizaochenglezishenshigegaojidianpingjiadehuanjue。gengyoujianghuideshi，nidanxinzhuiqiuwanmeiyixingpengyou，yineryongzheizhongzhuangqiangzuoshidekekedangtuoci。

3、一直想的太多

 henbeiju，niyishizhuxingzaiquanbunanshengdouaizhenidexuwangxiangxiang。heyixingpengyoudemeiciyibanxiangchudoubeinishouyufeichangdehanyi。lirumeiciyoushandeshoushihewenminglimaodediandiantoudoujinijuedeqingyi，haoxiangmeigelianjinidoushengquanzaiwo。shubuzhi，kanyixianishoushangdehuangpai，zhibuguozhangxiaopaibale。

4、dajiajuedeniyeshishuangxinglian

 niconglaibuzainanxingshenpangtingliu，doubuzhuyaobiaoxianwaiduitamenhenganxingqu，dajiayinerjuedejiniqitaxingquxiang。nidayuefajuele，nidedepengyougangkaishihetashuangxingliandewodebiaomeitongchutongjin，erdajiayizhirangniliangduliyiqi。

5、男人婆职场女人

 yigerenjiule，huiyulaiyudandu，yuelaiyuezhichangnvren。gezhonggeyangyishizhuxingshangdexijiebixuzishenlaidudang。zhangciyiwang，nigangkaishixingqingyuelaiyuexiangnanshengxiangtongshenjingdatiao，yuelaiyuenanrenpoqilai。zheideyirangyiqieyixingpengyouduiniwangershengwei。

6、yuelaiyuefeichangdebagua

 danshennvrendeshenpangdouhuijinjinweiraohaoduogexutaodeguizhongmiyou，mei1gequanshidianxingxingdedaozizui，juzaiyiqiliaodehuatitaolunjiushishuonansheng，bingqiechangchangshiniyiyanwoyiyudezeguainanshengdebingbushi，erqieweiciweile。

7、失落

 gudushihencaogaode，shiluoyeshizaotoule。youzhengzhaonenggoukandechu，shiluoxiangyitoujidadebianyiqicao，zhengpanjuzainidenaohaizhongli。yuanyigee-mailyougounanpengyoujiushishuozaiqizhongjiduanhuadeshili。buguanniruhexiang，zheiwojuedeyidianerdoubulanman。

8、寄予于高新科技

 nisheqilezhao1geshijizhongdenanshizuoairendeniantou，qidaiquanshijiebijiaofadadekejijinbunenggouweilenichansheng1ge。nixinggaocailiediguanxinshengwugongchengxuexingyedemeiyidianerfazhanqushi。shishishang，shibushinizaoyizaizhijinshangzishenhuaguoxuduohongweilantule?nihuoxuguannianlaidaozheileimimidexinyuan，danshitongchangtadouzangzhewuyishili。bixuyaogenggaineiyangdeniantou，tabushishenxinjiankangde。

9、zaiyixingpengyouyanqianmiantianbuji

 weishenmewobuheyixingpengyouxiangchu?shidebiaoshushi，niyongyuanbuzhidaozaitamenyanqianzenyangzichu。ruguoniningshitamenertamenyefajuelenideningshi，niganjuenibingbushizaitaohaotamen，zhishizaidichutamen。

 ruguoniganghe1geyixingpengyoujiaowangleguoduanshijian，woyeyongmouxieherendezuofajieguolezheixieguanlian，biruzaidierciyouhuideneishihoujiujiaotasongnijinshenneiyi(yizhiyuwangleguanlianjindudeyiqiezhengchangliucheng)。jiaruzheihaibuzuheren，woyegangkaishiyankedikandainideyixingpengyou。zaipenyouyanqian，niduitazhihuizhelaizhihuizhequ，jinjinyibianxiangbierenzhengshininengzhangkongnidenanpengyou。ruguoshiyizai，zhenshideshiluojiuhuilailinzainishoushang。