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“ningkezuodalingshengnv，yebuzuoduanhunqifu。”duiyunianlingjiaodadeweihunxing，tamenzaihunyinfangmianbijiaoyanjin，buhuiqingyijiangjiuhunyin。xiangqinshibailexinlihennanshouzenmeban？

suoyi，shangmianzheijuhua，yonglaigaikuodalingshengnv，shibijiaoheshide。

tamenzouguolexuduolu，jinglilexuduoshiqing，yudaolexuduoren，yuelaiyuedongdeweizijierhuo。

buguanshiyinweixueyehegongzuodanwule，haishiyinweizhaobudaoheshidenanren，meiyoujiehun。

zaizhenzhengjinglilexianshidemolizhihou，tamenyegengjiakanqinglehunyindebenzhi，buhuibayushengjituozaibuzhidedenanrenshenshang。

yinci，tamenzhongdedaduoshurenhuigengjianuli，shizijigengjiaduliheyouxiu。ruguozhendehennanpipeiheshideduixiang，tamenyeyouzugoudezibenhexinxinqushenghuo。

shenghuozhong，henduorenduidalingnvxing，youqishinanxing，douyoutaiduodepianjian，shenzhishiduitamendezhize，shitamenbaoshoubaiyanhechaoxiao。

zheizhongbugongpingdedaiyu，yechengleshisushehuiduidalingnvxingdeshufu。

cengjing，woyehenbulejiedalingnvxing，juedetamenyeyouyidingdetiaojian，weishenmezongshibunengjiehunni？

houlai，zaiyudanweiyiweinianzhangdenvtongshiayahezuohou，caizhujianmingbailezijiweishenmebujiangjiu。

shishishang，meigerendouyouzijidexuanze，weishenmebunengjianchizuoziji，zhidaoyudaozhenzhengdongxinderen？

ruguonianlingxianzhilenvxingdehunyin，zheishiduinvxingzuidadebugongping。jiuxiangayayiyang，tazhendebunengjiehun，dantabuxiangjiehun，huiguotabuxiangguodeshenghuo。

ayadetiaojianxiangdangyouxiu，yewugugan，yuexinguowan，zhangdepiaoliang，xinggekaifang，shitongshiyanzhongjingzhidezhichangnvxing。

raner，zheiyangyigeyouxiudenvren，quezaijiaxiangzaodaolerenmendelengchaorefeng。jiaxiangderendoushuota38suihaimeijiehun，kendingshijiabuchuqu，meirenyao。

meiciayatingdaozheiyangdehua，douxiandehenwunai，talandehebierenzhenglun，zhixiangguozijideshenghuo。

ayashuo：yaoshianzhaobierendexiangfajiehun，neiwoningyuanyibeizidanshen。xiangqinshibailexinlihennanshouzenmeban？

ayadehua，rangwoxiangqile《sheishuowobunengjiehun》limiandechenglu，zheigenvrencaimaoshuangquan，shiyeyoucheng。

buguo，youyutameiyoujiehun，yizhishoudaoshenbianrendezhiyi，tashenbiandetongshidouyilunta，shuotabunengjiehun。

yinci，mianduizhiyi，chenglujiandingdigaosushenbiandetongshi：“bushiwobunengjiehun，ershiwobuxiangjiehun。”

zheiheayadeqingkuangshiyiyangde，tamendoubeishouzhengyi，shoudaoletaiduodebugongpingdaiyu。

mianduijialidecuihun，ayagancuiliechulezeoubiaozhun，ruguobufuhetadetiaojian，tajiubuhuiquxiangqin，gengbuhuijiehun。

ayaduilingyibandeyaoqiushi：zhaoyigeyuexin3wanzuoyou，nengzunzhongtadenanren。

zheigeyaoqiuhenjiandan，danshizhenzhengnengmanzuderenbuduo，zheirangayadexiangfagengjiajianding。tayuexinyiliangwan，bukenengjiajitiaojianburutadenanren。

heayayiqigongzuoyinian，yexuyejianjianmingbailetadanshendeyuanyin，tazhendebunengjiehun。

zheiyinian，taxiangqinle22ci，danyicidoumeiyouchenggong，yexujiuxiangtashuode，zhendeyouxiexiuchi。

zai《dongjingnvrenhuace》zhong，youyiweimingjiaolingdelaodanshennvzi，tazhiqianyetanguojigenanpengyou，danzuizhongyinweishijiyuanyinfenshou。

houlai，yixinzaishiyeshangfendou，jingguozijidenuli，zhongyurangzijibiandefeichangyouxiu，chengweiyigechenggongdenvqiangren。

zheishi，lingyeshoudaolexianshidechongji，renmenjuedetazheimelaole，zaibujiehun，yihoujiubunengjiehunle。

lingyuanbenhenduli，juedeyigerenguozhejingzhideshenghuohenhao。raner，dangtabuduanshoudaoxianshidezhiyishi，tabudebufangxiazijidexiangfa，xuanzexiangqin。

buguo，dangtayishenjingzhidizhanzaixiangqinshichangshangshi，caifaxianxingshibingbuleguan，neixielaixiangqindenanren，jihumeiyourenzhendikantayiyan。

yuanyinshitanianjidale，burongyishenghaizi。zainanrenyanli，tabushilixiangdejiehunduixiang。zheizhongqingkuangshilinggandaofeichangbushufu。tarenweitahenrongyizhaodaoyigepiaoliangjingzhidenvren。

xiangfan，meiyounanrenyuanyixuanzeta，zuizhongtashiwangergui。

ayadeqingkuangheayahenxiangsi。ayaxiangqin22ci。takaishirenweizijishiyigejingzhidezhiyenvxing。zhaoyigetongyangyouxiudenanrenyinggaihenrongyi。

raner，jingguoyiciyouyicideshibai，tazhujianfaxian，zainanrenyanli，nvrenzaiyouxiuwufakangjunianlingdailaidepianjian。

ayashuo，neixiexiangqindenanren，douxiwangzhaodaonianqingpiaoliangdexiaonvhai，duixiangtazheiyangyouzhidelaoshengnv，genbentibuqixingqu。

zuilingrenyinxiangshenkedeyici，ayaheyigenanrenxiangqinshi，nanrenzhijieduitashuo：

“nizheigenianji，zhendebuliuxing，haitichuzheimegaodeyaoqiu，yourenhuijiajinima？”

ayatinglehenshengqi，dangchangfanbodao：

“nianlingdalezenmele？wopiaoliang，yougaozhiliangdetiaojian，weishenmeyaojiangjiujiehun？ruguonibunengjiehun，jiubuyaojiehun，wohaibuxiangjiehun。”

nanrenyewuxinzaijiuchan，zhishixiaozheshuo：“ruguoninengzai50suizhiqianjiehun，wojiushule。”

ayazhendebeixiangqinnandehuarenaole。tazhanqilai，wufarenshou。tanaqimianqiandecha，bananrendeliandaoleshui，shuoleyijuhua“niyoubingba”jiuhuiqule。

jiuzheiyang，ayalianxu22cixiangqin，zuihoudoumeiyouzhaodaoheshideduixiang，tayudaodenanren，douhenqimiao，rangtawufarenshou。

suoyi，ayashuo，tazhendebunengjiangjiujiehun，zheizhongnanrentabunengjiehun，yimianjiangjiuhouhui。

wangshangyoujuhuashuo：“hunyindebuxingwangwanglaiziyuzuichudejianghui。”

yexuzheijiushiweishenmexiangayazheiyangdelaoshengnvyizhijianchi。

tamenzhihuixuanzezijirenweipipeideduixiangjiehun，duiyubufuhetamenyaoqiudenanrenlaishuo，tamenzhendehennanjiangjiu。

rujin，ayahaishidanshenyiren，taduixiangqinyexiandemamu，juedezhendebukenengzhaodaoyigezhenzhengpipeizijidenanren。

zaigongsili，tashitongshimenyanzhongjingzhidenvqiangren，shenzhishixuduonianqingnvhaixinzhongchongbaidemubiao。

raner，dangayahuidaojiaxiangshi，tarengranwufaduobizhouweideren，kanbuqita。zheikenengshizuixianshideqingkuang，yeshisuoyoushengnvdouwufataobidezhuangtai。

zai《shengrenweiwang》zhongshuo：

“zhenzhengdexingfushinenggouwuyuanwuhuidijiehun。tabuyinggaiweifumujiehun。tabuyinggaizaiwaimiantingdaorenheliuyanfeiyu。ruguotatingdetaiduo，taxiangjiehun。tayinggaixianghetaxihuanderenjiehun，angshoutingxiong，tebiejianqiang，kewangshengli。”

ayashizheimexiangde，qishishenghuozhonghenduodalingnvxingyeshizheimexiangde，bunengshuotamendexiangfashicuode，zhishizaixianshizhong，zhendeburongyishixian。

wobuzanchengnvrenyiweidejiehun，danyebuzanchengnvrenyizhibaozhegaobiaozhundezeoutiaojian，xuanzenanren。

yinwei，hunyinshiyizhongshuangxiangxuanze，nanrenzaixuanzenanrendeshihouyehuixuanzeni。

buguo，woxiwangwulunnannv，douyaozhanzaiyigegongpingdelichangshang，duanzhengxintai，shidangdeshihouxiangchu，buyaohuxianggongji。

zaizheigeshijieshang，meiyourenshiwanmeide，meigerendouyouzijidequedian。ranhou，dangnixuanzeyigeduixiangshi，niyinggaiyigengbaorongdetaidumianduita，erbushimangmudipipinghepianjian。

xiangqinshibailexinlihennanshouzenmeban？xiwangzaixianshizhong，xiangayazheiyangdedalingweihunnvxing，nenggoujinkuaiyudaohaohunyin，yongyouxingfudehunyin。