和男生相处不自在正常吗，如何改善和男生相处的不自然

 ruhegaishanhenanshengxiangchudebuziranzhengchangma？shiyinweishekongdeyuanyinhaishiyinweizaichengzhangguochengzhongmeiyouheduorenjinxingjiaoliudeyuanyinni？henanshengxiangchurongyihaixiuzenmeban？shouxianyaozhidaochanshengzheizhongqingkuangdeqiyuan，qiciwomenyinggaiyaoxiangzheruhequgaishan。xianzaixiangenzhexiaobianlaikankanzheigegushiba。

 wodenvren，zaishifanzhuanye，shenbianjihumeiyouyixing，suoyibushanzhangheyixingjiaoliu。zuijinfashengleyijianwowufajieshoudeshiqing。

 wobuzhidaonishifouyouzheiyangdejingli，yinweigongzuo.youyuxuexiheqitayuanyin，woyijinghenjiumeiyouhenanhaijiaoliule。dangwojianmianhejiaoliushi，wohuigandaobushufu。woyiqianbushizheiyangde。wobuzhidaoweishenmexianzaituranbianle。

 jitianqian，wohewozuihaodepengyouzaigaozhongyudaolesangenantongxue。shishishang，tamendourenshiduifang，danhenzhangyiduanshijiandoubujianmian。zuozaiyiqihenbushufu。woshenzhibuganzhishitamendeyanjing！

 woshuohuadeshihouyehenjinzhang。woshuohuadeshihouyuwulunci。wotebieguanxinzijidebiaoqinghedongzuo，danxinzijidezhuangrongshifouhuaguang。guanjianshiwogenbenbuxihuantamenzhongderenheyige……

 wotongchangmeiyoujihuihenanhaixiangchu，danzaigaozhongbushizheiyang，zaiguoquzhinengbeirenweishishao，xianzaifazhandaohaipahenanhaixiangchu，bushufuhebuzixin，henvhaixiangchubuhuiyouzheiyangdeqingkuang，nihuiyouzheiyangdeqingkuangma？

henanshengxiangchurongyihaixiushiweihe？ruhegaishanyunanhaixiangchubushufudexianxiang？

1.接受新的想法

 yexunihenvhaiyiqizhangda，nidexinzongshirenweinanhaihenvhaiyinggaibaochiyidingdejuli，huozhenihuirenweinanhaibuyinggaihenvhaiwan，daozhinihenanhaiyoujuligan，buganjiejin，suoyicongxianzaikaishinijieshouxindexiangfa，yuyixingjiechu，nihuicongyuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhongxuedaohenduodongxi。

2.多参加活动

 dangnibuhaoyisijiechuyixingshi，nikeyishizherangzijicanjiayixiexuexiaozuzhidehuodonghuoyixiexingqujulebu。yibanlaishuo，youhenduonanhai。zaiyutamenyiqixuexihegongzuodeguochengzhong，jinliangrangzijikangkaidafang。

 buyaohaipabierenshuonibuhaorenshuonibuhao，jinikan，wulunnibiaoxianruhe，douhuijiniliuxiashenkedeyinxiang。shizhezainanhaimianqianshuohuahejiaoliubingbuxiangnixiangxiangdeneimekepa。henanshengxiangchurongyihaixiuzenmeban？

3.交异性朋友

 ruguonizhendexiangkefubuganjiejinyixingdezhangai，niyuexiangjiejinziji，zhendeheyixingpengyou，xiangxintamenhuihenleyihenijiaopengyou，leguanjiji，shenzhiyixingpengyouyezaijinbu，manmannihuifaxiannibuzaineimehaipananhai，buzaineimehaixiu，buganjiejinyixing。

 ruhegaishanhenanshengxiangchudebuziran，qishiyinggaiyoubufennvshenghenanshenghuiyouzheizhongkunrao，heyixingxiangchudetamenrongyihaixiuhuozheshiganjuebuzizai，huoxuyouxieshixiaoshihouyouguoshenmechuangshang，daozhitamenzaichengzhangjieduan，zhouweiyixingsuiranduo，danshiyemeizenmezhudongdequxiangchu，jiuhuirangrenjuedenishibuhaoxiangchuderen，jianjiandeshenbiandehaoyoushihuibijiaoshao，zijiyehaishiyizhihetongxingtongbanxiangchudebijiaoduo，ruguozhenxinxianggaishande，haishixuyaoduoquheyixingshejiao。