女孩不和家里说有男朋友是为什么呢？

现在的人谈恋爱，似乎更倾向于先不告诉父母。因为在他们看来，恋爱是两个人的事，如果过早地告知父母就变成了两个家庭的事情，这样的后果往往是他们所不能承受的，那么女孩 不和 jialishuoyounanpengyoushiweishenmeni？

一、为什么谈恋爱不愿意告诉父母

1、lianggerenzhijiandemaodunhuifangda

 gaoduixiangnanfangbuhejialirenshuoweishenme，lianggerentanlianai，chuxiandianmaodunshizaisuonanmiandeshiqing。jiusuanshizaihepaidelianggeren，yehuiyudaozheiyanghuoneiyangdemaodun。danshiruguonibanimenlianggerendeshiqinggaosujilebama，nimenzhijiandemaodunwangwanghuibeifangda。

jiazhiruguonibamaduiniduixiangbenlaijiumeiyouduodadehaogan，nimendeganqingkendinghuizaibamadeyingxiangzhixiafashenggaibiande。

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 shuoshizaide，nvhaibuhejialishuoyounanpengyou，qishishilianggerenzhijiandewentizhiyaotamenzijiqingchujiuhaole，ruguoyouqitarenzhidao，buguanshishei，maodundourongyibeijihua。gaoduixiangnanfangbuhejialirenshuoweishenme？bujinjinshifumu，jiusuanshiguimi、jiyouyeshinengshuodeyueshaoyuehao。

 ruguonanshenggaosulejiyounimendemaodun，nikendinghuijuedenanshengbugouaiziji，zheimejimaosuanpidexiaoshijiuyaoqubierenneigaozhuang。danruguoshiniquniguimineishuoshi，nanshengkendingyehuijuedebushufu，ganjuezijidemianziguabuzhu。

 suoyi，weilebuyaoguozaojihuanimendemaodun，jinliangbuyaotaizaogaosufumubijiaohao。duoxieshijianliujinimenlianggeren，quxiangshoushuyunimendesuantiankulabushigenghao。

2、fenshouhoubojidefanweitaida

 nanpengyouhewoyouhehaolequebuhetajialishuoweishenme，zaiyiqimeiduojiudelianggeren，bulunshixinggepiqihaishishenghuoxiguandoushixuyaoshijianmohede。kenengyikaishizaiyiqideshihou，nizongjuedekeyihetazaiyiqiyishengyishi，danshishijianyijiu，nihuranfaxiannimenzhijiandewentibingbushinixiangdeneimejiandan。

 danzheishi，nidelianqingyijingqianchedaoleshuangfangdefumu，benlailianggehaobuxianggandejiatingyinweinimendeguanxiyoulejiaoji。shuobuding，suizhenimendeganqingjiashen，liangjiadeguanxiyemiqieleqilai，shuangfangdejiazhangshenzhikaishiweinimenguihualeweilai。

 danshinixinliqingchudizhidao，nimenzhijiandemaodunhuajiebule，nihetashibukenengde。danshiyinweiqianchedefanweitaiguangle，niyoukaishiyouyudaodiyaobuyaofenshou。qishi，zheishidenicaishizuitongkude，yinweibamadeyuangu，bunengsuisuibianbianjiufenshou。

 nanpengyouhewoyouhehaolequebuhetajialishuoweishenme，ruguolianggerenzuizhongzouzaiyiqizhishiyinweijiating，erfeiaiqing，xiangxiangdouhuishiyijiankepadeshiqing。bijingmeigenvshengdouxiwangzijikeyijiajiaiqing，bijingzhiyouyinweiaiqingzaiyiqidelianggerencainengdedaoxingfu。