如何做一个好的倾听者

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一、如何做一个好的倾听者

 1、yaozhuanxin。tangruonibuxiangzongshizhongtudaduan，neimeduinisuotingdaodeneirongjichufankuiyeshihaobanfa，zheiyangzuorangduifangzhidaonizairenzhenting。niyekeyitiyixiekaifangshidewenti，zheiyangkeyishitanhuagengjiashenru。

 2、yanshenjiaoliu。dangranwomenyebuxiangzuodeguotourangduifanggandaobushufu，danshiyanshenjiaoliushiyigezhongyaodefangshi，rangrengandaowomenzaizhenxinshiyidiqingting。ouerdiandiantouyeshixiangtamenbiaomingnimeiyouzoushen。

 3、zhuyinidezhitiyuyan。nishifoubashoujiaodiezaixiongqianhuochazaiyaoshang？nidezishishifouzaigaosuduifangniyibunaifanxiangjieshutanhua，haishinihenfangsongdizuozhe，bingqiekanqilaihenleyiliuzaineilitingtamenshuohua？

4、biaoshitongqing，erbushishitujiejuetamensuoyoudewenti。tongchangdedaoqingtingshizuizhongyaode，erbushibeigaozhiyaoquzuoshenme。

 5、tingmeiyoushuochulaideneirong，ganshouyancibeihoudeqingxu。tongchangrenmenzaishoushangdeshihou，zongshijishishimengshangyimiansha。qingtingzhedegongzuojiushiguanzhushiqingdejinzhanyijixinlingdetuidong，weilerangqingsuzhenenggoushufudichangkaiziji。

 6、buyaohaipachenmo。ruguoduifangshoudaodeshanghaihenzhong，tamendangshikenengbuxiangqupouxineixiegennifenxiangguodeshiqing，danshikenengxuyaonijinjinzuozaineilipeiban，xiangtamenbiaoshinizaiqingtingbingqiemingbaitamendetongku。