大学生人际交往的问题

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一、大学生人际交往的问题

1、自我为中心倾向

 dangdaidaxuexinshengduoshidushengzinv，ziyoubeishoujiatingdechongaiyuhehu，zairenjijiaowangzhong，gengxiguanyucongzijidelichang、guandianchufa，duidaizhouweiderenheshi。duibierenqiwanggao，yaoqiuyan，ziwoyueshusong，yaoqiudi。zaiyutongxue、pengyou、laoshixiangchuguochengzhong，shichangyi“ziwoweizhongxin”dexintaiqukandaibieren，yaoqiubieren，henshaoqutihuibierendexiangfayuganshou。jiaowangzhongquefayurenhezuodeyishiyuxingweiyijihuanweisikaodenengli。

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2、功利化倾向

 suizheshichangjingjideshenrufazhan，renmendeshangyeyishiriquzengqiang。mianduijiliedejingzhenghejiuyedeyali，yuelaiyueduodaxueshengkaishizhongshirenjijiaowangdewuzhishihui。“youqiujijieshi”、“youyongjijiaowang”、“huxiangliyong”denggongliyishizengqiang。gebiexueshengjianggonglizhuyizuoweirenjijiaowangdezhidaosixiang，biaoxianweiyouyongdecaijiao，wuyongdebujiao，yongchudadeshenjiao，yongchuxiaodeqianjiaodejiaowangguannian。

3、虚拟淡漠倾向

 suizhewangluojishudefazhan，xunishijiekaishichengweidangdaidaxueshengdejingshenjiayuan。“tazhelingshengjinchuketang，sushelimianbushengbuxiang，hulianwangshanghusuzhongchang。”keweishimouxiedaxueshengjiaojixianxiangdexingxiangmiaoshu。you39%yishangdexueshengrenwei，fenfanfuzadewangluoxunishijieshizijichenmiqizhong。xianrujin，ruguoyigedaxueshengbuhuishangwang、meiyouqqhaoma，neishibukesiyide。

 wangluoxunijiaowangyibianshixianhuoderen，lingyibianqueshifuhao，suiranfuhaokechuandisixiangheqinggan，danwufaganshoudaoxianshirenjijiaoliudeqinggansecai，zhangciyiwangbiranyinqijiaowangzhedeqinggankuifaerquxianglengdan。jiazhi，daxueshengyidanzaixianshijiaowangzhongshouzu，jiuhuizhuanxiangxunishijielixunqiuanweihemanzu，danmomianduixianshirenjihuanjing，xingchengexingxunhuan，daozhigengjiachenniyuwangluo，tuolixianshi，zuizhongjiangdaozhituisuogupi、ziwofengbi，zhishirenjijiaowangchuxiandanmoyushuli。