大学生如何处理好人际关系？该怎么做？

 renwuwanren，meigerendouyouquedian，ruguonizongshidingzhebierendequedianbufang，nimendeguanxikendinghaobule，fanzhi，xuehuihuanweisikao，duokanbierendeyoudian，nijiuhuifaxian，yuekanbierenjiuyueshunyan。renshengzaishi，bukebimiandiyaoyuren jiaowang ，yaoxiangguodeyukuai，jiuyaochulihaozijiyushenbianrendeguanxi。dangdaidaxueshengruhechulihaorenjiguanxi？xiamianjiuranghuazhenqingganxiaobianjidajiajieshaoyixiaruhechulirenjiguanxiba。

一、当代大学生如何处理好人际关系？

1、贫富差距

 daxueshenglaizibutongdequyu，diyudechayikenengdailaipinfuchaju，zheizhong“jingjidebupingdeng”daozhideduilizaidaxueshengzhongyehenbianji。yinweipinfuchajuyinqidepinkunshengdezibeixinsizaidaxuexiaoyuanliyeshiyizhonggaofaxinsiwenti。jiaruzheixieguanxichulibuhao，jidaxueshengdailaidexinsishanghaichangchanghuiyingxiangtamendefazhan。

2、不讲卫生

 jingchangyourenzaishuifangliluanrengdongxi，conglaibudiebeizi，chuangshangyouzangyouluan，wazichuanwanyebuxi，tileqiuyishenchouhanyebuxi，shangcesuonaizhichangchangwangdiaochong，congbudasaoshuifangweisheng，fanershilajizhizaozhe……zheixieexichangrangshiyoushoubule，tebieshiyixieaiganjingdetongxue，yidanyishidaozijichengweishuifangde“qingjiegong”deshihou，xintoubidingbukuai。jiuerjiuzhiduilidichujiuhuifazuo。

3、焦点人物

 “xuexichonger”“laoshichonger”“aiqingchonger”changchangshixueshengzhongdejiaodianrenwu，danyechangshitongxuechicudeduixiang，jiaruzheileitongxuezaiyanxingshangtixianbudang，changchanghuiyinfatongxueduilinaizhidaozhibeicanjufazuo。

4、过夜异性

 suiranyixingzaishuifangguoyeyizhishigaoxiaoyanlijinzhidexingwei，danbanannvpengyoudaidaoshuifangliguoyedetongxuerengshidayourenzai，tebieshizaizheigezhuiqiugexingchangkaideshidai，daxueshengdexingxingweirutongchengweiyizhongbiaobangziyou、xingjiefangdeqizhi，zheizaibenlaichunjiedexiangyataneiyijingbushihanshi。keshizheizhongxingweiguanyushuifangqitashiyoutebieshiqita“danshenhan”laishuoshizaishiyizhongchongji，zheijibuzunzhongshiyou，yeyingxiangleshiyoudexiuxi，zheizenmerangrenrenshou?

5、密切有间

 bulunshiyouqishishifouyuanyi，douyaolazheshiyouyiqiduanlian、shangxue、chifan、kandianyingdeng，guoyumiqiedejiaowangshideshiyoushiqulehetarengoutongdeshikeyukongjian，xiazhaiderenjijiaowangrangshiyoujuedekongxuerduicirende“youhao”fannaobukan。“yikaoxing”pengyouzaidaxuenvshengquntizhongbingbuhanjian，guoduodizhanyongtarendeshikedexingweizaixinsixueshangchengzhiwei“chengrenjuanlian”。guofenmiqiedelingyizhongfangshijiushibufenbiciyongtarendedongxi，danshifanshiyou“du”，miqiedetai“bujuxiaojie”le，haoshiyehuizhuanhua。bifangfanzhengshihaoxiongdidedongxi，yibaobingsuanshenme，xianchilezaishuo；xiayutianbuxiangmaifandiaoshuile，jiuqingtongshuifangdejiemeidailaoyiciba……yiliangcikeyi，jiuerjiuzhi，jiarubangmangdejizhidebudaolunhuan，zaitiedexiongdi、zaiqindejiemei，yehuishengchuegan。tebieshiyinweishiqingfazuozaipengyouzhijian，tongxuedaduohuitiaoxuandidiaochuli，danjiaruxintoudeyinyichijiudebudaoxiaochu，chenmoyezongyoubaofadeyitian。

6、霸权主义

 “wodeguannianjueduizhengque”，“wozuitaoyandejiushimeicifazuozhenglun，bulunshenmehuati，tazongyaobawowanquanpibocaibaxiu”，youxierenzongaiyutarentaigang，yicibiaomingzijidebiejuyige，duirenheshiqing，bulunqinghongzaobaidoushizijizhengque，bingqieqiangporenjiajieshouzijideguannian。zheizhongxingweirongyijifatarendedikangxinsi，zaitongyishuifangzhong，bujiandesheideguannianjiubitarengaochaoduoshao，suoyi，jiarufaxianzijizai“shuifangbianlun”zhongzongshiqudequanshengdeyifang，xiaoxinshuifangbuhaodezhongzihuoxuyijingzaixiaoquanzilibosakaile。

7、遵守作息

 xiandaigaoxiaoxueshengzaishuifangyongyoudiannaoyijingshihenbianjidexianxiang，diannaojixuexidailaideyoudianshifeichangmingxiande，keshi，jiaruyelidayouxihuozheyuyintantian，yeliyiliangdianhaibuyuanguanji，gaodeshuifangjiquanbuning，changchangbawomencongshuimengzhongjingxing，zheihuishitongxuejiandeguanxibiandejinzhangqilai。yelidianlazhukanshu、tantian、dayouxizheixiehuodongdoubuyinggaiwushitarendequanliqiangxingjinxing，yinggaizunshoushuifangdeyiqidezhiduguize。

二、如何处理人际关系？

1、帮人难处

 bangrennanchujiushizaibierenkunnandeshifen，shenchunidexiezhuzhishou，kenengshijushouzhilao，yekenengxuqiubidingdefuchu，zhiyaolisuonengjijiuhao，jinshangtianhua，buruxuezhongsongtan。

 renzaichunfengdeyideshifennibangta，tabubidinghuijizhuni。zaibierenyounandeshifennijiyulexiezhu，renjiahuijiniyibeizidehao。zainiyoukunnandeshifen，renjiayehuixiangtongxiezhuni，nidelucaihuiyuezouyuekuan。

 birurenshengzhongchangchangyudaodeyixieshi，huanbingzhuyuan、hongbaixishi、tianzairenhuodengdeng，nidexiezhu、nideyishengwenhou、shenzhishiyitiaoduanxin，douhuiyouruchunfengshuinuan，chedilajinbicijiandexinsijuli。

2、记人优点

 jirenyoudianjiushiyaochanghuaiganenzhixin。yaozhidao，meiyigerencongchushengdaoshishi，meiyidianqianjin、meiyidishouhuo，doulibukaifumu、jiaren、pengyoudexiezhu。

 yongjiujizhubierendehao，cainengmeitianjuyouyangguang，meitiandouyoupengyouxiangban，zhongshengdouyouxingfuxiangsui；xiangfan，zongshijizhubierendebushi，zhihuikuleziji。

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