4招教你和小孩怎么样去沟通！

 fumurezhongyukanhaiziriji，shenzhifanshoujiduanxin，zicongweixindengshejiaoruanjianchuxianzhihou，fumujiuruqinlehaizidepengyouquanheqqkongjian，xiaoxiaodeshouji，chongchizheqinzidazhandexiaoyan。qishi，dabufendejiazhangdoubudonghexiaohaizenmeyanggoutong，xiangyaolejiehaizideshenghuo，guangkaoyingjijintamendeshejiaoquanshibuxingde。xiangzhidaohehaizigoutongzenmeyanghuiyouxiaoguo？nixuyaoxuehuizheijizhao，xiangzhidaogengduodexiaohuogen huazhenqingganxiaobian lailejieyixiaba。

一、和小孩怎么样沟通

1、huanweisikao，duihaizibaochixinren

 henduofumudouhuitucao，yijingduihaiziguanxindewuweibuzhile，danshibuzhidaohexiaohaizenmeyangqugoutong，huafeiletaiduodexinsi，quehuanlaihaizidezhenfengxiangdui，shenzhihenduoshihou，shaoweishuojijuhua，haizijiuhuimingxiandebunaifan。xiangxiangqishimeigerendouhuiyouzheiyangdeshiqi，kewanggengduodezizhuquan，kewangkuaidianzhangda。

 nixuyaozugoudexiangxinzijidehaizi，duanliantamendeshejiaonenglihedulinengli，tahaizibukenengshiyongyuanyangzailongzilidejinsique，ruguoneigenxianladetaijin，fanerhuiduan，rangtaqufeixiang，tahuichuangzaochuzijideyipiantian。

2、pingdengduihua，kendinghaizideziwo

 chuzhongshiyouyigetongxuejunzi，tadexinggeshifenwanlie，piqifeichangbaozao，erqiebuaixuexi，dajiadouyiweitashiquefaguanjiao。yuanlaibingbushizheiyang，tadefuqinduitaguanjiaofeichangyange，shaobumanyijiuhuipitougailianmatayidun，damagengshijiachangbianfan。chuzaifuqindegunbangquanweixiadejunzi，xuehuileyongpanniqubaoguoneixindeshangkou，duidaishenbianderenyeshimanshenliqi。fuqinyicicicongwangbalahuita，tayicicideaida，danhaishiyicicijixuqu，rucidexunhuan，junzizuizhonghaishituixuele……

 zheiweijiazhangqishijiushibuzhidaohehaizizenmeyangqugoutong，ruguojiazhangxuehuibahaiziheziji，fangzaidajiapingdengdeweizhishang，duoyidianquqingting，yeduoyidianquqingsu，zhenzhengyiyigewenhedeshenfen，zoujinhaizideneixin，zheiyangdejiaoyubeijuhuoxubuhuifasheng。

3、zuohaoyueding，ziyoubudengyufangzong

 haizichengzhangdaoyidingdenianling，tadexintaishangkewangduliheziyou，danhenduoshihou，xingweihaishigenbushangzheizhongbianhua。tamenxiguanxingrangfumubangzijidalihaoshenghuo，yidanchuliqishijiwenti，haishichengweile“mabao”。

 goutongzenmeyangcaiyouxiaoguo？niyaojihaiziquduanlianzijigerennenglidejihui，yeyaojitade“ziyou”yiyueshu。yaogenhaizishuo：“hao，wokeyijiniziyou，danshiwomenyaozunshouyueding。”zheizhongfangshiziranergaoxiao，bujinliyunigenhaizihaohaogoutong，hainengpeiyangtadezerenganhedulinengli。biru：“zijideshiqingzijizuo，weijiatingfendanjiawu；buguanwandaoduowan，shiyidianqianbixuhuijia；ruguozaiwai，yaojidedadianhuabaopingan；yigeyuekaiyicijiatinghuiyi，fenxiangzijidejinkuangdengdeng。

4、zuohaobangyang，gulihaizichengzhangweiyouxiudedaren

 haizishijieguanrenshengguandeshuli，hefumudeguanxijiweijinmi。suoyiweirenfumude，gengxuyaoyueshuzijideyanxing，jihaizijijideyindao。henduoshihou，zuodaorangzijidehaizipeifuhexinren，henduowentijiuhaojiejuededuo。

 xuehuichengweiyigeruizhieryoumodefumu，erbushiyigelengbingbingdefuqin，huozheyigeyuanfuyibandemuqin。hehaizigoutong，xuyaozhurugengduowenqingheai，erbushizijiyixiangqingyuandekongzhiyu。dangnizhenzhengdongdelegoutongdejiqiao，haizijiuhuibanibaizaipengyouquan，zuizhongyaodeweizhi！