想改变命运，要知道怎么改变自己的性格

 suhuashuo“jiangshanyigai，xingbennanyi”， xingge zheidongxiyidanchengxing，qishijiuhennangaibiandele，henduorenshuodao。danshipianpianyourenjiushibuxin，yinweitamenjianxinzhezhiyaozhidaozenmegaibianzijidexingge，tongshiyejiuzhidaozenmegaibianzijidemingyunle。

一、怎么改变自己的性格

1、比较法

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2、针对法

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3、自我暗示法

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 zenmegaibianzijidexingge，qishishiyouhenduofangfade，doushuoxiangyaogaibianmingyunjiuyaoxiangaibianxingge，yinciruoshinixiangzhidaozenmegaibianzijidemingyundehua，xiandezhaodaogaibianzijixinggedefangfa。