zhuinvshengqqliaotianjiqiao,shoujiweixinhenvshengxianliaodeqingkuangxia,zhuinvshengdeliaotianjiqiao,yaoshimeiyouhuatitaolun,neimajiuhuiyoubatianliaosidehenyoukeneng,zhuinvshengliaotianhuati,weixinhenvshengliaotianzhaohuatini?
第一:包交换提出问题法
huiyixiazishengennvshengkaijudeqingkuangxia,shifouquanshizaitichuwenti?“ninhao,nishi?”“qingwennijiaoshenme”“wojuederenshinixingma?”yibanzheizhuangkuanglingyifangjiufeichangshaohuilini。zheishijishangbianshifanle,zhiwenlingyifangxinxineirong,quebuyongshuozishenxinxineirongdecuo。zhuinvshengdeliaotianjiqiao,yincichangdao“huhuantichuwentifa”。ruguonixianjiyuzishendeshiyongjiazhi,zheileishiyongjiazhibianshiyuyanbiaodashangdeshiyongjiazhi,xingquaihaoshangdeshiyongjiazhi,erbushiqusuoyaotadeshiyongjiazhideqingkuangxia,wentarennantibianshiyizhongsuoyaoshiyongjiazhi。
yinweinihenyoukenengganjuetiwentiyejiushijiaotanyizhong,jiugengnengqudetarenderenke。shijishangnicuole,zuichangjiandejiushishuojirenjuedeshichaxunhukou,dajiadouxiaihuhuihuli,nijiyulexinxineirong,.woxiangyaojiyuwodexinxi,bingqieshuodaozheierniyeyaolejieyijianshiqing,bianshijiaruxiangyaozhenzhenzhengzhengxiyinzhulingyifang,neimajiubixurangtarenlaizhangwoni。xiangyixia,yigeliannixingqing,gongzuozhong,xihao,pinwei,sanguandengdoubuxiaodedelingyifang,zennengxiyinzhunilei?“wodexingqushiqukanshu,dalanqiu,chuantongleqi。nilei?”neiyang,yinweidajiaxianfengxianzishendeshiyongjiazhi,zaiwenlingyifang,lingyifangbianhuigaozhizigedetadexiaoxile。
neiyang,lingyifangcaikeyijuededaoniduitadexinlai,gengzhuyaodebianshinixianjiyuleshiyongjiazhi。xianliaodeqingkuangxia,xiangaozhibierenzishendexinxineirong,lingyifangdabufenhuitixingzishentadexinxineirong。woshiyongxinxineironggennihuhuan,erbushilijisuoyaonidexinxineirong,neiyangzainvshengneixinbianhuiganjuejunheng,zhuinvshengliaotianhuati,huodetadeshujujiuhenrongyile。
第二:求知欲闲聊法
qiuzhiyushizuinengtuidongrendeneixinde。ruguoniduiyigerenhuoshiyijianshizaochenghaoqixindeqingkuangxia,niyejiuhuixiangfangshefadexiangyaozhidaoweihe。xianliaodeqingkuangxia,nengrangnvshengduinizaochenghaoqixin,neimanvshengbianhuijiangnidanglipinlaizhuiqiuwanmei,jijigennidashan。
kanyixiaxiabiandeshili:“wokandaonidetouxiang,rangworenweiniyagenbushiheshangweixin?”(mingxiandezaochengnvshengdeqiuzhiyu)“nidetouxiangyaowoxiangdao。yigeshuilijipinyouwu”“wofaxianleninyousangeguanjiandeyoushi,you70zhongxingshinenggoutaonihuanxi”nvshengyibandoushihuihui,wenwomenshishenmeyoushide。wangliaoshineiyangdahua,youyutashuodeshihetaxiangguandeshi,tamingxianxiangyaozhidaoshisha。nvshengbiranxiangzhishifeichangzhideyouyisideshi。yinci tazhiyouxiangzhuilipinyiyang,zhuiqiuni。xiangjindeyeyou,“wananhaomeng,xinglaiduinishuogemimi”“kanguonideweixinpengyouquan,wofaxianyigemimi”zheixie,womenzaiweixinfapengyouquanhuichangchanggongxiangyixiehaoqixinxianliaoguojiguanli,yaoxuedenenggoujiadaoshoujiweixinkan。
第三:开放式提问法
henduoren xunwennichiwanmeiyou,huiying,chiwan。huatitaolunjiumeile。nixiaigoubu,huiyingxiai,jiumeiyouhuatile。zhengquedeshineiyangwen:“niyoushenmeyangdegerenaihao?”lingyifangdehuiyingtaiduole,nenggoushiqukanshu,kandianshiju,youshui,dujialvyou,dajiejiyouxiji。“nixiabanleyounaxiezhutihuodong?”lingyifangjiukeyihuiying,qukalaok,qukandianying,quguangjie。“nixihuanshenmedongwu?”lingyifanghuiying,gou,xiaomian,xiaomaomi。neiyanghuatitaolunmashangdakaile。
kaifangshitiwen,jianyiba。bianshidabufenqingkuangxiahanyounaxiedetichuwenti,huatitaolunyixiazidakaile。nvsheng:wozhixianghaohaoditangetanlianainanhaizi:neinishuoshuozhenaishishenme?pouxi:womenyaorangnvshengshuodaliangdehua,zhuinvshengqqliaotianjiqiao,xuduonanhaizitingnvshengshuoneiyangdehuayidinghuifuhetajiangdehua,dangaoqingshangdenanhaizizeburongyi。jiezhaonvshengyidinghuishuoduiganqingguandian,neiyangnicongtadaliangdeyujuzhongjiukeyishuoziyiduilianaideguandian,xiangduixingzhaoyixiegennvshengguandianjibenshangchabuduode,zheileibianshisanguandeqiheduyizhi,jianjiandidezaizheileigoutongjiaoliuzhongzaochenghaogandu。
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