追女孩子都聊些什么？相亲怎么和女孩子聊天话题 ?

 zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiaoyounaxieni？zhuiqiuwanmeinvshengqingkuangxiadexianliao，dangranyaoqubieyuhezishengemendexianliao，zhuinvhaizidouliaoxieshenme？zhuiqiuwanmeinvshengyingdangzenyangliaotianni?he“yaoaiwo·du”liaotiandejiqiaogongxiangyiqilaiqiaoqiaoba，kebiebanvshengliaochenggemenle!yonglixingdeliaotianhuati，rangxianliaotishengyidingdetiaozhanxing，zuihouzuihoufuzhuyixiefengqu，zhuinvhaiziliaotianpinlvduojiuheshi？niyejiuhuibianweiliaomeigaoshoula!

一：将客观变成理性的聊天话题

 xuduorendaoganglejiedeqingkuangxia，doushihuixiayishidiwenyixialingyifangshinalirenzheizhongjibenziliao，yaozenmeyangcaikeyifangzhiqianpianyilvdechaxunhukoufangfani?

举个事例：

nan：worenweinimeitaixiangdangdiren

女：怎么讲

nan：youyunideshenshangyouyizhongdutedeqichanga，kanshangquyouyizhongzhixingyouya。

nv：heihei，qiangda，wodequebingbushidangdide，shimoumoumoudide......

zheiyangziyilai，bubianshijizhidaolingyifangshinaliren，youshunbianderangnvshengjideni，jileniyigehaoganduma?

二：让闲聊提升挑战性

 zhuinvhaiziliaotianpinlvduojiuheshi？jiaruzaixianliaodehuanjiezhong，nimenjinjinyouyidameiyidadeliaotian，jingchangqiongcinaizhiyouyixienankan，zhuinvhaizidouliaoxieshenme？zheigeshihoujiubixu yixiexianliaodexiaoqiaomen，rangxianliaogengjubeitiaozhanxing，nvshengcaihuichuxianganxingqudeyuniliaoxialai。

举个事例：

nan：qingkuangxiabuzaola，zaodianshuiba，woyeyaoshuile。

女：好，晚安好梦

男：晚安好梦

 zheiyangzishifoubianhuibiandeyouqimosheng，nvshengdoumeiyouyaoxiangyuniliaoqilaideyixiang。shijishanghuanyigefangfashuo，jinengqingsongzizaidewanbiyitiandehuatitaolun，youkeyirangnvshengzaidiertianyeyouxianghenixianliaodechongdong。

nan：shijianbuzaole，chongfeituixiaba，mingrizhenzaiqutanwangchongfei

 neiyangdeyigeliaotianhuati，bujiuyouyisilexuduoma?zaimoweihaijiangdaomingrizaiqutanwangchongfei，nvshengzaixinzhongyehuiyouyigedi，nimingrihaihuijixuzaicizhaota。zheileijiaosebanyanyouxihaikeyihuanyixiejiaose，doukeyirangnvshenghenzhijiedeganshoudaonizairichangshenghuozhongyeshiyigeshifenyouxiuderen。

三：学好有方法怎么夸人

 xuduonanhaizidoulejiekuanvshenghuirangnvshenggaoxing，feichangrongyidedaonvshenghaogandu，danqishibushi，jiarujinjinhuiqianpianyilvdeshuo，nijintianzhenhaokan，nijintianzhenpiaoliang，huoxunvshengbianhuiheninshuojuganxieyejiuguoqu，dannihuanyizhongfangfa，huoxujiubuyiyangle。

举个事例：

nan：nijintianershihefuzhuangdapeidefeichanghaoei，yaowoyigepeidaxinshoudouganjuehenhaokan!

nv：shizhendema?heiheinikeyizhenzixi。

nan：queshihenhaokan，henyouqi。

女：你真会讲话嘿嘿

 duibiqilijizanmeinvsheng，nijuedenayizhongdezanmeifangfagengnengrangnvshengkaixinni?zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiaoyounaxieni？congyixieguanjiandiancengmianxiashou，huirangnvshengganshoudaonishizhendezaizanmeita，danyucitongshihaiyaoliuyiyigedu，bubibuduandizanmei，pulunideyaoqiu。