主动聊天该说什么？女生忽冷忽热的根本原因是什么？

 zhudongliaotiangaishuoshenme？qingganzhizhongzuizhemodeyizhongzhuangkuangbianshinvshengshilengshire，zhudongliaotianshuosha？lingrennanyizhangwonvshengdezhenzhengniantou，liquyebushi、zaicijinxinggongjiyebushi。zhudongliaotianyoumodekaichangbaizenmeshuo？

1、你不是另一方最佳的挑选

 xianrujinshi“nanduonvshao，sengduoroushao”deshiqi，gezhonggeyangnuodongappdefasheng，youzherongmaodenvshengbeiyanmeidegailvgengjiaxiao，nvshengzhoubiandeyixingpengyouchengbeizengjia。zhixuzaijiaoyouruanjianfangshangzishendexiangpian，jiukeyihuodechengqianshangwannanxingdeguanzhuhequyue。

 zainilejienvshengdeyishunjian，bicideganranlishizuiqiangde，yihoubiciyouhuolichixujiangdi。zhudongliaotianshuosha？suishisuidifashengdejingzhengzhe，douhenyoukenengqiangzoutadezhuanzhuli。zongeryanzhi，taduinieryanshibibukeshaode，niduitalaijiangquebingmeiyouzheiban。zheiyeshitaduinihulengdeyuangu，youyutadexuanququeshitaiduole。

 fanzhuanfangshi：tigaozijideyouhuoli，jibenjiansheniyaodeweixinpengyouquanyushenghuo，genjugengyouyouhuolishenghuoxiguanzaizhaoduixiangzhizhongdedaohendadeyoudian。

2、你也许仅仅个备用胎

 beiyongtaishiyongyubeide，yiqieanhaodeqingkuangxiazhutaizaixingche，jinyouzhutaiwufagongzuozhongle，beiyongtaicaihuidazhanshenshou。zhudongliaotianyoumodekaichangbaizenmeshuo？jiaruzhangqixinglengdanbeiyongtai，beiyongtaihenyoukenengjuedeshenshouyanlidaji，yihoulikai。yinci ，nvxingpobudeyimeiguoyiduanshijianjiufuweiyixiabeiyongtai。

 jiarunijuedenvshengduinishilengshire，zainijuedeyaorenshudeqingkuangxia，tajiqueyourangniqidai。niyaotuijindeqingkuangxia，tayouburangnijiyu。neibajiubulishi，nijiushiguifandebeiyongtai。

 fanzhuanfangshi：jibian lingyifangjiangnidangbeiyongtai，yeshiyouyuniyouzhedudaozhichu，zhudongliaotiangaishuoshenme？yaoburantaweishenmepianyaoyuenizuobeiyongtai。cikeyaoyongyushengjihetarendeguanlian，erbushizuoyigezhinengquyuenvhaizide“laoshiren”。