找前任聊天怎么开场?第一次谈恋爱说话技巧

 zhaoqianrenliaotianzenmekaichang?henduoren diyicichuduixiangdeguochengzhongzaisuonanmianyouyixiejiaolvbuan，zhengchangzhuinvshengliaotianfangshi，buqingchudiyicichuduixiangyuyanjiqiaoyinggaishiruhede。chuduixiangshijishang yemeineimanan!zhudonggennanshengliaotiankaichangbaizenmeshuoni？

1、闲聊是两人的事

 youyixienanrenzaixiaidenvhaiziyanqianjiqiezhuyaobiaoxian,yizhiqianxinshuozigedeshi,erwangjinizhengduimianyeyougeta。neiyangbianhuihushinvshengdetihui,bingqierangtachabushanghua,nankanyouranersheng。

 yurenxianliao(youqishinvsheng),yidingbukeyiyigerenzaishuo,eryingdangzailiaodeshizhangyonghanxudeyudiaozhengqueyindaolingyifangjianghua。

2、找一些共同语言

 nanrengennvrenrichangshenghuoguanxindewupinbuyiyang,mianbulezaixianliaoshiwufaxunzhaogongtongyuyan,neiyangbiciqingganmeifashencengci。zhudonggennanshengliaotiankaichangbaizenmeshuoni？zhengchangzhuinvshengliaotianfangshi，yinernanhaizixianggennvshixianliaojiuyidingyaozhangwoyixienvshichangguanxindewupin,ruzuiredianying、dapaimingxing、zongyijiemu、meiweide、jinqixinwenzheixie。

3、建议不与此同时不能立即辩驳

 meiyigerenduixinshiwudeguandiandoubuyiyang,nibunengguidingtarenzhaonideniantouhuo,yinci zaitingjianqitarendejianjiehoujishizaibulejie,yebubimingquetichu,zhibixudangyigeguanzhong,zaitajiangwanhoukuaisuzhuanyihuatijiukeyi。

4、不必把嘴损当风趣

 nvxingdouxiaiyoumofengqudenanhaizi,genyoumoderenyiqijiaowanggengkaixin。zhaoqianrenliaotianzenmekaichang?keshi,jiarubajifengtucaotarendangzuofengqu,nvxinghuirenweinimeiyousuyang。yinci jiaruxiangyaoyongfengquhuodetarendehaogandu,changshibajifengdemubiaogaichengzishen,youyuziwodiaokanshijiaogaocengjidefengqu。