怎样和女孩聊天找话题？怎么谈恋爱找话题？

 zenyanghemeiziliaotian？chuduixiangyoushidequehuiyouyuzhaobuzheliaotianhuatiershenxiangaliao，ruhetanlianaizhaohuatiliaotianfangfakeyibangnifangzhizheiyizhuangkuang，zenyanghemeiziliaotianzhaohuati？ruhetanlianaizhaohuatiliaotianfangfani?shuoyixielingyifanghuiyouxingqudeshierba。zenyanghenvhailiaotianzhaohuati？

方法一：聊一些他会有兴趣的事

 yiban eryan，dajiataoluntamenzijihuoshizishenxihuandedongxideqingkuangxia，zenyanghenvhailiaotianzhaohuati？huiganjuegengzideyixie。weishenmeni?youyuwomenduizheizhonghuatitaolungengzhangwo，erqiezaoyisisuoguozheizhonghuatitaolunle。xialiejiujiyuyixiehenanyouliaotianhuatiyijingongcankao：

*他现在过得怎样

*tayiwangdelijing(biruershilijing，xiaiganshenme，tadejiatingshenghuozhong，sheiduitaeryanyiyifeifan)

*他的喜好

*他最爱的健身运动

*tazuixihuandeshu、yingpian，huoshigequ

方法二：持续充实自己，扩展自身的眼界

 jiaruninengxunzhaoshijiankankanxinwenwang，duyidubaokanzazhi，nideneixinshenchulibianhuiyouyueduodehuatitaolunkeliao。zenyanghemeiziliaotianzhaohuati？yaorangzishenjinsuishishiredian，liuyiyouqudexijupianshipinduanpian，huoshihulianwangshangshixingdegaoxiaoduanzideng。

 ruguoniganjueliangrendehuihuazhujianbiandeyuelaiyuekuzaodeqingkuangxia，nenggou wenyiwennidenanyoutajinqishifouyoududaohuoshijiandaonaxieyouqudedongxi。ruguoyou，nimennenggou taolunyixianishiruhekanzheijianshiqingde。yaoshimeiyou，neimazheijiushiduitashuonijinqisuojiansuowendejuehaojihuile。

方法三：讨论一些假定的情景

 nenggou xunwenta，jiaruxuyaotiaoxuanyiyang，shiganjuesangshishijuexiaoguogengnengjiena，huoshisangshitingjuexitong?shiningyuanyibeizizhichibocaini，huoshiyibeizimeiriwubitingbagezhongtoudeshengdange?jinkenengxiangdaoyouyisidejuziti，qingjingnenggou henyouyisi，haikeyihenfanza，suihouxunwennidenanyou，taxiangyaotiaoxuannayizhong。tadechuhuiyingzhihou，zaishitabiaomingtadeyuanyin。

 *nenggou youyihetaduizhegan。wulunnidenanpengyoushuoxieshenme，doumingquetichufanguolaijianyi，neiyangtajiupobudeyishenzhongkaolvtadejianyile。danshishuoqiqingxi，nirucizuojiushixiangrangshuohuayuelaiyuegengyouqu，erbushiqueshiyaoxianghetachangfandiao。

 *yeyoudaliangdecuojueleinantikewen：“naxiedeshihenyoukenenghuishinicheyeshuibuzhejueni?”“jiaruninengzaicihuoyici，ninengzuochuruhebuyiyangdetiaoxuan?”“nijuedeniderichangshenghuobuguanzenyangbunengqueshideshisha?”(huoshi，haikeyiwen“jiarunizhiyouliushijianwupin，ninengtiaoxuanzheixieni?”

方法四：使他对你说一些你永远不知道的物品

 nenggou shiyouguantazijide，haikeyishiniyongyuanbuzhidaodeyixieshierhuoshilengmenzhishi。wulunshinaxie，niyidinghuixuedeyixiexinshiwude。erjiarunixiangyaozuodegengshijiyixie，nenggou shitaduinishuoyixieniyongyuanbuzhidaodexihao。

 *fuguzaizheiyangdeqingxingxiayeshifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。tadushudediyitian，tadediyigexiaowanju，takeyijiqilaidediyigeshengrikuanghuanpaidui。zenyanghemeiziliaotian？genjuzheiyangdefangfa，nenggou feichanghaodizhangwodangtahuoshigexiaohaideqingkuangxiaxihuanshenme，naxieduitaeryanhenzhongyao。