聊天中如何拉近关系？怎么幽默聊天？

 zenyanggennvhaiziliaotian？youxuduodixionghemeizhilejiedeshizhangdoubuduanle，kequehaijinjinqinqipengyoudeguanlian，zenyanggennvshengliaotian？buqingchugaizenyangbazheiyiduanqinggantuidonggaoxiedecengji。zenmeyoumoliaotian？

一、什么叫多方面同理心?

 suhuashuodehaoguanlianquanshiyouqiandaoshende，yinci zaizhangwoduofangmiantonglixinqian，womenxianlailiaoyiliaoqianbucitonglixin，qianbucitonglixinyibanzhideshigennvshengwaizaigoutongjiaoliudachengyizhi，yejiushirenmenchangshuodezhaodaogongtonghuati，yongyouyidingdeguishuganbingbazheiyifenxintaiweichixiaqu，zaochengxintaishangdegongmingdian，jinerdadaoqianbucidetonglixin。

 ershenrudetonglixinzeshihenvshengzaixingqushangluojisiweishangmiandadaoleyizhi，bicizhijianshifenlejie，naizhishikeyiweihailingyifangdexintai。

二、闲聊中怎么应用“多方面同理心”拉进关联?

1、henvshengchuangjianbijiaowendingdelianluo

 youxuduodixiongshuomeizhiduizishenaidabulide，zaiqizhongdeyinsubianshimeiyouchuangjianbijiaowendingdelianluo，yaolejielianluoganshiyinweichuangjianguishugan，jiarunvshengtihuibushanganquanxing，dangranhuiduinilengmo。

 zenmeyoumoliaotian？yaoxiangchuangjianbijiaowendingdelianluoqishibushihennande，duoquhenvshenghuhuansirenxinxi，yuechongzuyuewanshan，yuehuiyouyi，yueyouguishugan。

 ziranyaoxiangrangnvshengjijitanbaizigedesirenxinxi，jijidakaixinfeibixudajiaduoxunzhaoxiangtongdexingquhegongming，jinyounvshengduinigengjiayouxingqu，caihuiqingbuzijinquwenyigexiesirenxinxi，cikedajiazaiquwennvshengdeyixiexinxineirong，yehuixiandebijiaojianyi。

zenyanggennvshengliaotian？xianliaozhongzenyanglajinguanlian?xuehao“duofangmiantonglixin”zhuninadaoxinaimeizhi!

2、jijijiyuhuatitaolun，tuijinlianluogan

 zaihenvshengchuangjianleyidinglianluohou，yaoxiangbaguanlianshangsheng，bixudajiatuijinhenvshengdezheiyifenlianluogan，zaixianliaozhongliaoyixienvshengyouxingqu，nengliaodehuatitaolun，zaochengtadegongmingdian，zheierwomenzaixianliaodeguochengzhongxianxiangnvshengzhanxianzishendexihaotexingdengfangfakaizhankaichengbugong，zaijijiweitajiyushiyongjiazhiyihouzhengqueyindaonvshenghuhuandajiasuoxuyaodexinxineirong。

 liru“wodexinggefeichangxiaixuexihemanpao，keyilingrendanaoheluojisiweigengweilingqiao，rentiyebijiaojiankang，nipingchangdouxiaiganshenme”

 jijigongxiangzishendegerenaihao，bazijigaopinzhideshenghuozhuangtaigongxiangchuqu，suihoulejienvshengdebenrenxiai，jiarunvshengshuopingchangyemeishenmeyouqixiaizuode，zheierdajiayoulianggefangshi quhuiyingnvsheng，yishihenvshengjiangzishenxingquaihaohexihao，qukuadaqicixiyinzhu，jiarunvshengduizheigehuatitaolunyouxingqudehua，ciwaiyigebianshizhuanhuanhuatitaolun，congnvshengdeweixinpengyouquanzhongchaxunnvshengdegerenaihao，lirutesemeishi、yingpianzheixie。

 danshibixudeshi，gennvshengxianliaoshi，liaoshenmebuzhongyao，guanjiandeshirangnvshengcanjiazaiqizhong，zhengqueyindaonvshengduojianghua，erbushiniyigerenzaineiliziwoanwei。

xianliaozhongzenyanglajinguanlian?xuehao“duofangmiantonglixin”zhuninadaoxinaimeizhi!

3、baituohemugan，lingzheguanlianmaixiang

 bansuizheliangrenlianluogandejiazhong，guanlianqudechenggongcong“guolurenji”qudechenggongshengdao“zhixinji”，didazheiyicengjiyihou，xiamianbixujinyibusuoxiaojianju，baituohemugan，lingzheguanlianmaixiang，rangliangrenyuelaiyuegengmiqie。

liruxiangtabiaoludajiadexinsi，taxiangdajiaqingtushifabuyidianbuyiyangdeyishideng。

 yaobiaoshujubeidajiabenrentediandexinqingheyishi，neimajiuxuyaowomenzaigennvshengyiqiyingduiyixieshijideshiqingshi，bubiqujiexierqiedianpingzheijianshiqing，zhishiqufabuduizheishidetihui。

 lirunvshenggenyigepenyoufashengzhengzhi，zishenhenshengqi，cikebubidianjizhejinvshengpouxishierqianyinhouguo，sheizhengqueledaodishisheidecuole，zheibushinvshengyaoxiangdehuidanaizhihuijiqinvshengdeqingchunqipanni，ganjuenishizaizhizeta。womenyaozuodeshixiangtabiaoshudajialinweibujudexintai，erqieshundaijiangyijianzishenxiangxiangdelijing。

 genjuyuzhongbutongxintaidachengyizhideshiqingyueduo，nigennvshengzhongjiannengchedichangkaixinliaodeshieryejiuyueduo，zenyanggennvhaiziliaotian？yuejiejinyuxianglingyifangbuyiyuli。laidaobuyiyulideneiyibu，yejiudaibiaonimenzhongjiandeguanlianzaoyijiqiqinmiwujianhelaogu。