zenyanggennvhaiziliaotian?youxuduodixionghemeizhilejiedeshizhangdoubuduanle,kequehaijinjinqinqipengyoudeguanlian,zenyanggennvshengliaotian?buqingchugaizenyangbazheiyiduanqinggantuidonggaoxiedecengji。zenmeyoumoliaotian?
一、什么叫多方面同理心?
suhuashuodehaoguanlianquanshiyouqiandaoshende,yinci zaizhangwoduofangmiantonglixinqian,womenxianlailiaoyiliaoqianbucitonglixin,qianbucitonglixinyibanzhideshigennvshengwaizaigoutongjiaoliudachengyizhi,yejiushirenmenchangshuodezhaodaogongtonghuati,yongyouyidingdeguishuganbingbazheiyifenxintaiweichixiaqu,zaochengxintaishangdegongmingdian,jinerdadaoqianbucidetonglixin。
ershenrudetonglixinzeshihenvshengzaixingqushangluojisiweishangmiandadaoleyizhi,bicizhijianshifenlejie,naizhishikeyiweihailingyifangdexintai。
二、闲聊中怎么应用“多方面同理心”拉进关联?
1、henvshengchuangjianbijiaowendingdelianluo
youxuduodixiongshuomeizhiduizishenaidabulide,zaiqizhongdeyinsubianshimeiyouchuangjianbijiaowendingdelianluo,yaolejielianluoganshiyinweichuangjianguishugan,jiarunvshengtihuibushanganquanxing,dangranhuiduinilengmo。
zenmeyoumoliaotian?yaoxiangchuangjianbijiaowendingdelianluoqishibushihennande,duoquhenvshenghuhuansirenxinxi,yuechongzuyuewanshan,yuehuiyouyi,yueyouguishugan。
ziranyaoxiangrangnvshengjijitanbaizigedesirenxinxi,jijidakaixinfeibixudajiaduoxunzhaoxiangtongdexingquhegongming,jinyounvshengduinigengjiayouxingqu,caihuiqingbuzijinquwenyigexiesirenxinxi,cikedajiazaiquwennvshengdeyixiexinxineirong,yehuixiandebijiaojianyi。
zenyanggennvshengliaotian?xianliaozhongzenyanglajinguanlian?xuehao“duofangmiantonglixin”zhuninadaoxinaimeizhi!
2、jijijiyuhuatitaolun,tuijinlianluogan
zaihenvshengchuangjianleyidinglianluohou,yaoxiangbaguanlianshangsheng,bixudajiatuijinhenvshengdezheiyifenlianluogan,zaixianliaozhongliaoyixienvshengyouxingqu,nengliaodehuatitaolun,zaochengtadegongmingdian,zheierwomenzaixianliaodeguochengzhongxianxiangnvshengzhanxianzishendexihaotexingdengfangfakaizhankaichengbugong,zaijijiweitajiyushiyongjiazhiyihouzhengqueyindaonvshenghuhuandajiasuoxuyaodexinxineirong。
liru“wodexinggefeichangxiaixuexihemanpao,keyilingrendanaoheluojisiweigengweilingqiao,rentiyebijiaojiankang,nipingchangdouxiaiganshenme”
jijigongxiangzishendegerenaihao,bazijigaopinzhideshenghuozhuangtaigongxiangchuqu,suihoulejienvshengdebenrenxiai,jiarunvshengshuopingchangyemeishenmeyouqixiaizuode,zheierdajiayoulianggefangshi quhuiyingnvsheng,yishihenvshengjiangzishenxingquaihaohexihao,qukuadaqicixiyinzhu,jiarunvshengduizheigehuatitaolunyouxingqudehua,ciwaiyigebianshizhuanhuanhuatitaolun,congnvshengdeweixinpengyouquanzhongchaxunnvshengdegerenaihao,lirutesemeishi、yingpianzheixie。
danshibixudeshi,gennvshengxianliaoshi,liaoshenmebuzhongyao,guanjiandeshirangnvshengcanjiazaiqizhong,zhengqueyindaonvshengduojianghua,erbushiniyigerenzaineiliziwoanwei。
xianliaozhongzenyanglajinguanlian?xuehao“duofangmiantonglixin”zhuninadaoxinaimeizhi!
3、baituohemugan,lingzheguanlianmaixiang
bansuizheliangrenlianluogandejiazhong,guanlianqudechenggongcong“guolurenji”qudechenggongshengdao“zhixinji”,didazheiyicengjiyihou,xiamianbixujinyibusuoxiaojianju,baituohemugan,lingzheguanlianmaixiang,rangliangrenyuelaiyuegengmiqie。
liruxiangtabiaoludajiadexinsi,taxiangdajiaqingtushifabuyidianbuyiyangdeyishideng。
yaobiaoshujubeidajiabenrentediandexinqingheyishi,neimajiuxuyaowomenzaigennvshengyiqiyingduiyixieshijideshiqingshi,bubiqujiexierqiedianpingzheijianshiqing,zhishiqufabuduizheishidetihui。
lirunvshenggenyigepenyoufashengzhengzhi,zishenhenshengqi,cikebubidianjizhejinvshengpouxishierqianyinhouguo,sheizhengqueledaodishisheidecuole,zheibushinvshengyaoxiangdehuidanaizhihuijiqinvshengdeqingchunqipanni,ganjuenishizaizhizeta。womenyaozuodeshixiangtabiaoshudajialinweibujudexintai,erqieshundaijiangyijianzishenxiangxiangdelijing。
genjuyuzhongbutongxintaidachengyizhideshiqingyueduo,nigennvshengzhongjiannengchedichangkaixinliaodeshieryejiuyueduo,zenyanggennvhaiziliaotian?yuejiejinyuxianglingyifangbuyiyuli。laidaobuyiyulideneiyibu,yejiudaibiaonimenzhongjiandeguanlianzaoyijiqiqinmiwujianhelaogu。
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