跟前任怎么聊天才能复合 前任说“不可能”复合

 genqianrenzenmeliaotiancainengfuhe？dangjinrenshuobutaikenengwanliudeqingkuangxia，shibushiqueshiwufamibule？zheidequeshiyigehentoutongdenanti，ruguonitingjian"butaikeneng"zheisangezideqingkuangxia，xinliyidingshishifentongchu。genqiannvyoufuheliaotianjiqiao，genqianrenpobingdediyijuhuayaoshuohao。

 keshiqingqianwanbieqingxubuwending，bubisipilailian，qingxixinbawenzhongkanwan，wonengxiangennigongxianglingyifangdexinlizhuangtai，jiqinigaizenyangshijicaozuocaikeyichaoqudechenggongwanliudelumianmairu。

一、前男友讲话无情的心理状态

 jinguanqiannanyoushuo“zhihouyebutaikenengle”tamenbaokuolejianglaidezhuangkuang，zheihuishinicaiyi，nidewanliumeishenmefangshile，meifazhongyuanle。

 keshiyouyigexixun！lingyifangdeqiangoutongjiaoliujingdiantaicishijishangshi：「xianzaiwobutaikenenggennizaiyiqi。」nihenyoukenengxiangwenweihe？qiannanyoudejiaofazaoyibaokuodaojianglaile，neibujiuhaowuyiwenmeijiule？。

 rendeniantoushichixugenggaide，qiannanyoushiyongrujindeniantoulaipingdingjianglaideqingkuang，shexiangyixia，ni20suideniantouhe30suiniantouhenxianeryijianshibuyiyangde。

yinci，taduinideniantou，yigeyuehesangeyueyeshibuyiyangde。

 yinciweizijiyidianzixinxin，chufeishizaoyiwanhun，qianshedaofalvwenticaihuiquannisheqi，buxuyiqiezhuangkuangdajiadoushiyoufangshibangzhuniwanhuiaiqing。

 ciwaiqiannanyoujianghuaneimezhong，shiyouyuqiannanyouhuiganjuezhihouninengduitasipilailian，yinci，tahuiyongwuqingdefangfalaiganpaoni。

 liruniduiqiannanyoushuo：「dajiazaishiyishixingma？／wonengshizhongdengnide。」ruguonidewanliuyongyitaixianzhudeqingkuangxia，huijilingyifangdaozhifeichangdadegongzuoyali。

二、解决方式与将来的挽留对策

jiaruniyeyudaolezheileizhuangkuang，woqianglieyaoqiuni，yidingyaoqieheqiannanyoubuyuanfuhedexinlizhuangtai。

 bubixuanyongsipilailiandexianlu，yingyongcifangfadepenyou9cheng9quanshihuibuchenggongde，huiqudechenggongjinyoukenengshijidanlitiaogutoudejiaxingfenshou。

 yebunengyongkeguan、luojixingqushuodonglingyifang，shuomingniduomedeqingshen。youyuqiannanyoujiranshiyongle“butaikeneng”zheisangezi，jiuzhengshiqiannanyouzaoyikaolvdaolehaozhangshijiancaimingquetichudetichufenshou，shixiashibutaikenenggennifuhede。

 yiner，nixuyaoyanzhelingyifangxinlizhuangtai，shutonglingyifanggongzuoyali，bubizaiciweizijikoufen，fangzhirangqiannanyougengweiyanfan。

 jiarunishutonggongzuoyaliqudechenggong，lingyifangjininhaodeganenhuikuixiangyaozaicihudongjiaoliu，qianwanbieyitoureyouhuilaibiaoshuwanliuyongyi，yidingyaoyongpenyouwanliufa，yibubuyongyoufangfadefangfawendingtiwen，zouzuishaodejindaocongpenyoubianhuilianren。

 danshijuedabufendepenyoudouburongyineimehaoyunhuodehaodeganenhuikui，tebieshizailingyifangtichufenshoucuocifeichangzhongdezhuangkuangxiagengshiruci。

 yincizai＜wanliushizhanyanliankexuefangfalun＞kechengneirongzhong，dajiayouqiduiyuzheileizhuangkuangshejifanganlexiangduiyingdekechengneirong，duanzhongyoulianwanliumiji。

 xuanyongfenshoudefangfa，keshidajiadefenshoudefangfaheqitazuzhifenshoudefangfabuyiyang，dajiadetexingshi“duanzhongyoulian”jifenshoubingbudengyuchedifenshou。

zaizheiqijian，womenkeyixiaolianggenlingyifangqulijigoutongjiaoliu，xianghupeiheweixinpengyouquandefangfachuansongnidegenggai。

ruguoniyuelaiyuegengqiangdeqingkuangxia，yaorangqiannanyoujuededaoninyouyixingpengyoudehudongjiaoliu，tishengtadejinpogan。

zheiyouxiexianggangzhuanshouyizhigupiao，jieguotaquehuranfengzhangle，qiannanyoudexinlizhuangtaiyidingshiwuweizachen。

 qiannanyounaizhiyoukenenghuijuedekuijiu，dangshifenshoudehuashuodeguozhongle，houhuimojixinlizhuangtaiyulaiyuqiang，qiannanyoubianhuiyougengmingxiandedongyinyaoxiangjijiwanliuni。

 dangjinrenjijilianxinideqingkuangxia，guanzhududouxuyaolveweibilingyifangshaodiyixie，liruqiannanyourangniqifenre，neinijiujiqiannanyouliufenre。

 bubitailengmo，yebieranglingyifangganjuewanquanyaoyaowuqi，yeyouqianwanbieyitouzaijinqu，jiandaoqiannanyoudexinxijiuyaoaidedabiaobai。

jiarunilengzanghouhuoshimeiyoushijixiaoguo，lingyifangbingwujijilianxidoubuhuifunidexinxi。

 zheiyiweizheyexuniyonglebuzhengquedefangshifenshou，yehenyoukenengjiushinidegenggaibuzuduo。youhuoshijiushinidegenggaimeiyouduiyudaoqiannanyouzaihudedian，niyizhizaikaizhanshixiaogenggai。genqianrenzenmeliaotiancainengfuhe？genqiannvyoufuheliaotianjiqiao，genqianrenpobingdediyijuhuayaoshuohao。