跟前任怎么聊天才能复合 这样和前男友聊天

 genqianrenzenmeliaotiancainengfuhe？dajiazongganjue，wanliubianshibixufenshougaibianxianzhuang，"fenshou"ranglingyifangzaochenghuiweiwuqionghelianlianbushe，"genggai"ranglingyifangyouyidingdegongzuojingyan。xiangwanliuxianfenshou，henyoukenengjiushiwocongshizhijinduguozuichedeyijuhuale。genqiannvyoufuheliaotianjiqiao，genqianrenpobingdediyijuhuayaoshuohao。

yishangshijicaozuobiaocengshangkeyichanshenggengqiangdexiyinzhu，keshiwangjileyigehenzhongyaodeshi：jingjichengben。

 zhenzhenzhengzhengtigaozijishibixuhuashijiande，biedebuyongshuo，guang"zaoshuizaoqi"or"zaoshang"neimexiaoxiaodexiaoxiaoxiguanxing，meiyouyilianggeyueshijianyibanrendouyangbule。yinci，nijixiwangyutigaohouzaiquxiyinzhulingyifang，wu，jiupashibudaiwo。

nihenyoukenengyaoshuo，zannenggouyibiantigaoziji，yibianquwanliu，duima？

 zaiwojingshourendeganqingwanhuianjianli，youhenduonvshengdoushizheguo"zhualao"dewanliufangfa，danjuedaduoshuqingkuangxia，tamenhuandedeshijiaruheimingdanheshanhao。

要问为什么啊？

 nanhaihenvhailuojisiweidechabiedaozhile，juedaduoshunanhaizishikeguande，nvshengshilixingde。nvshengdelixingdaozhitatongchangshiqingxubuwendingde，youqishifenshouzhihoudenvsheng，youshibianshiyike"xintaidingshizhadan"。

cengjingdewojiujingshourenguoyigeshili。

 nvshengzaizizhuwanliudeqingkuangxia，hualexuduosixugaijinzishen，dannanhaizimeiyoudiyishijianjiyuhuifu，nvshengjiuchongguonanhaiziqiyeloudixia，batahanlechuqu，dangtayanqianfaguoyitongxingzi，nanshengshuoletayiliangju，tataiqijiushuailenanhaizihaoduogebazhang。daguohou，nvshengfajuenanshengbashoujiweixin、dianhualaheile，mengranlejienantibianda，zheicailaizhaowoliaoxunqiubangzhu。

woshoudaoanjianyihou，rangnvshenghuanweisikaoyixiaqiannanyoushishajuede？

 qiannanyoucaiyouyushushiduliekaitiaoxuantichufenshou，zhengyiduzinanshou，youbeinvshengguidingzhei、guidingnei。kenengneixinweiyidejuedebianshi：zheinvdezhenshishigeshenjingbing，wodangshijuecetichufenshouguozhenshigeqiadangdejuece。suihoujianjuejiaruheimingdan，zhiqidaiyouyigeqingjing，jinshengbufuxiangjian。

yincia，"zhualao"zishenmeiyoucuo，nantizaishijicaozuofangmianfeichangrongyifashengbug。

 nvshengtouruleyitong，quemeiyouhuodeyizhongrenderentong，youqingxubodongshinenggoulejiede，keshi，wanliushijianzhuzhongshijianhefangfadeshier，youyixieleichishibukeyicaide，youyuxintaizuochuguojixingwei，yeshibuzhidangde。

nanmianxintaibodongguodadaozhierdutichufenshou，woxuduoqingkuangxiahuitiyidahuoertiaoxuangenjuliaotianwanliu。

 liaotiannenggoufeichanghaodihuancunliangrenzhongjiandexintai，yehuishidutishengliangrenzhongjiandemoshenggan。tichufenshouguigenjiedishishushiduliekaidejieguo，erxintaihuancunhemoshengganquanshishushidufujiansuowubide。

neijiujingzenyangliaotian，caikeyihaohaodiwanliuni？

挽留时聊天的禁区

rutongqianbianshuodeliaotianzhong，wanliuzhongyouyixiejinqushibunengcaide，liaotianzhongyiyangcunyouzheneiyangdejinqu。

·聊情感，或是负面情绪地聊

shuoshihua，liao"qinggan"youguandehuatitaolunshiwanliushiliaotiandeleichi。

wanliuzhuzhongdeshizaojiushufudegoutongjiaoliuqifen，yaojinliangfangzhiyiqieranglingyifangbushufudehuatitaolun。

 lingyifanggangyunitichufenshou，zhendui"qinggan"dejuede，zhengchuyujiqifumianxinxideqingxuzhuangtaizhong，erfenshoudeyifang，tongchangxiaiyonghenfumianxinxidefangfawangqianrenbiaoshuzishendeqinggan：

 neiyangdebiaoshushijishangshiyizhongshifenzisidexintai，niwanquanmeiyoulizailingyifangdeshijiaosisuolingyifangyaoshenmejinjinyiweidibiaoshuniyaoshenme。

 qici，jishinigenjuneiyangdefangfawanliulelingyifang，lingyifangyezhinengzainideshenshangtieshang"tiangou"debiaoshi。yejiushishuo，nimenzhongjianyebianchenglefeiduidengdeganqing。

yiduanbuduidengdeqinggan，nijuedenengzhangqima？

·打破沙锅问到底

 xuduonvshengfenshouhou，zongxiaixunwenweiheyaotichufenshou。chanzheqianrenyaotajiaodaiqingxiniantou，youshihainengyikouqixunwenshangjigenaizhishijitiaoxinxi。

 yinweiwokeyilejiebeifenshoudeshihoujiqieyaoxianglejielingyifangxinlizhuangtaideqingxu，keshi，wonengchengdanzerendishuo，jishinizhidaotadexintai，zhenduiwanliuzheijianshiqingzishen，haowujiazhi。

nanhaizizaiyunifenshoudeshihouhenyoukenenghuibaichuyibaigeyuanyin，tayaoshuonizuo、shuozishenmuqianyaoxiangdeshigongzuo……

danshijishang，bingbushide。

piekaiyouyixieshijiyuangu，liruchaqian……tichufenshoubianshiyouyushushiduliekai。

 yinci，nidaposhaguowendaodidexunwen，weiyidaozhidejieguobianshibicijiaowangdeshushidujinyibuliekai，zheiduishihouwanliuyoubaihaierwuyili。

·没话题造就无营养成分话题讨论也需要上

 youdenvshengni，genjuyixiegongxiangzhidaotichufenshouqineiyingdanggoujianbicizhijianshufudegoutongjiaoliuziranhuanjing，yaochuansongzhengfangxiangzaijingshenshang，yelejiebuyinggaiguoduoxunwen，neitamenzaiwanliuzhongshizenyangliaotianni？

yirisanwen，"chilema？"、"chiwanshenmea？"

"你在干什么？"

发无意义的表情图

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nvsheng，lingyifangzhongjiuyeshigangyunitichufenshoude，nizheiguanzhudezheibanjishi，tanengkanbuchunixiangyaozuodianshenme？

 jiarulingyifangduiniyeyouniantou，niyejiubuhuilaidaozheiyibu。neijiranlingyifangshizhenxianghenitichufenshou，jiandaonineiyangfaxinxijiechuantaderichangshenghuoguanjiandian，tabingbushitiaoxuanbulicaini，bianshihuizaiduxiashoujiangnijiaruheimingdan，yifangnijinyibuyingxiangtaderichangshenghuo。

 yinci，zaoyiqueliliangrenzaoyitichufenshou，bicibianshipenyoudeguanlian，bingbushipenyoujianhuichuxiandehudongjiaoliugaimianchujiumianchu。genqianrenzenmeliaotiancainengfuhe？genqiannvyoufuheliaotianjiqiao，genqianrenpobingdediyijuhuayaoshuohao。