跟前任怎么聊天才能复合 怎么和前任聊天

 genqianrenzenmeliaotiancainengfuhe？woqiguaidiwenzufu：“niyulaolaojihuyebuzhengchaoma？”zufushuo：“ziranchaole，keshishiwojueji，meiyicilaolaofahuodeqingkuangxia，woyebajiazhongquanbudejiangzhiguanningdelaolaodide，neiyanglaolaozhufandeqingkuangxiawufadakai，bianhuijijizhaowoliaoshuohuale。”genqiannvyoufuheliaotianjiqiao，genqianrenpobingdediyijuhuayaoshuohao。

 zheishiwozaiwangluoshangjiandaodeyigexiaogushi，kanlehouworenweihenheshigongxiangjidahuoer，youyudangyigerenbuyuanyilicainideqingkuangxia，nizhibixubaozhengerdian：

①充足有诚心；

②xunzhaozishendeshiyongjiazhi，ranglingyifangxiangyaoni；

 nikankanxiaogushilidezufujiuhuodehengaoqingchu，lejielingyifangde“yaoqiu”zainaer，yelejiezishende“shiyongjiazhi”zainaer。

 ertongchangyaoxiangwanliudexiaohuobanmenyizhifeichangrongyilaoshihusiluanxiang，quenanyiyishidao，niyizhizaiwanliuzhongdeyiqiegerenxingweidounenggenggailingyifangduinidefenbian。

 liruwoyiqianyudaoguoyiweiqiuzhuzhe，tahenanpengyouzaiyiqisannianduo，liangrendeqingganmeiyouhendadenanti，zhibuguoshiyouyuzhangqiwaidideyuangu，nanpengyouganjuebunenggouzaicuoguolingyifangdexiwang，jijimingquetichuletichufenshou，erqiefenshouzhihouhaiyizhiweichizhetimiandi，changchangguanzhuta。

 shijishangzheiyeshigenanduxishuhendidewanliushili，lingyifangjinjinjuedeyalida，wucongshifangchulaiyincilinshitiaoxuanlefenli，keshitaquemanhengwuli，yizhibaoyuanlingyifangtaizisi，zennengshuofenkaijiufenkai，erqiehaihuyuqinrenpenyoudoulaizuonanpengyoudegongzuozhong。

 yuanbenshixintaixingtichufenshoudezhuangkuang，yingshengshengdizuochenglerenzhinenglixingxingtichufenshou，lingyifangyuanbenhainianzhexirilianren，zhihoulijijiaruheimingdanlelianxidianhua。

 yincijibiannidexingqing、jingyan、fengcaimeiyoubanfazaiduanqineineizuochugenggai，keshinizuishaoyaofangzhizaifenshouzhihou，zuochuranglingyifangdichudegerenxingwei，fangzhipengdaojinqu。

 jinriwoyeguanjianhedahuoergongxiang“fenshouzhihou，zaifulianzaoqi，yingdangruheliaotian”deganhuozhishi，qidaidahuoerkanlehou，keyishunlidikaiqiqiannanyoudeneixin，genjuliaotianchudonglingyifangwuqingdexin。

关键分成2个层面：

1、封闭式提问

 wohenlejiedahuoerzaifenshouzhihoufanzadeqingxu，xiangyaoqulianluolingyifang，youdanxinzaochenglingyifangdebumanyi，yifanzhengtuohou，zaiweixinshangfaguoyiju：“zuijinhaoma？”

henyoukenengnijuedetamenhenanquanxing，yekeyibiaoshuzishendeguanzhu，keshishishishangtamenlingyifangyagenjiujiebushangqu！

tadehuiyingjinyouerzhong，yaobu：“tingbucuode”，yaobu“guannishenmeshi。”

随后你怎么办？

nandaoshuoyouzhujianwenxiayigenanti：“nizaiganshenme？nichilema？shuijuele？”

lingyifangyouzhiyouhuini：“chiwan”“haimeiyouchi。”

 haoduogelianjichulai，niyejiuhuifajue，nimenzhongjiandehuatitaolunbutengbuyang，budanduiwanliumeiyouyiqieshijixiaoguo，haibabicizhijiandeguanlianyinxianglegengnankandejushi。

 yuanbenqianxinwankuheqiannanyouliaoyicitian，nixintouxiwang，gezhonggeyangxingfen，jieguohuandeleganliaodejieguo，neixiayicinizaixiangzhangkou，lingyifangdoubuxianghuifule，zhongjiuzhenduiwanliueryan，duoyicigoutongjiaoliu，jiushaoyicijihui！

shijishangzaifenshouzhihouxianghelingyifangliaotian，zhibixujilaoyitiaoguize：yuedangranyueheli。

 liruninenglejielingyifangyigegongzuofangmiandenanti，huoshishilingyifangyouyiyideshikeyibangshangnidediqu，quzhengqueyindaolingyifanghuiyingni；

denglingyifanghuiyingniyihou，nizaigenjubiaodaganxie，qutuokuanhuatitaolun，lajinbicizhijiandeguanlian；

dengliangrendehudongjiaoliujingchangyihou，zaikaizhanyaoqing；

neiyangchulaideliaotiancaisuanshiqudechenggongde。

2、挤压式互动交流

 henduorenfenshouzhihou，douhaimeilijicongqinglvdefangshizhongbaituochuqu，zaihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，huimingxiandipuluxuqiugan。

liru：“niweishalaidao？ruhebuhuiwo？”

“jinwannenggoupeizhewoyiqichifanma？”

“nizenmebuliwo，nitaijueqingle”

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 wodouyudaoguojiaoweiqiguaideqiuzhuzhe，tichufenshouhouxiexiaoduanwenhaibugou，guihailingyifangxieleyibenshu，xushuzishenjiujingyouduolibuleta，zishenyouduobushede，jiarulingyifangdehuifubuzujijizhudong，jiuganjuewanliumeiyouqidaile。

hezhenijiangwanliudangzuole“kanshuduhougan”？

lingyifangzaoyiyunifenshou，wojianglijiyidian，nimenzuiduosuandeshanggeyibanpengyou，yibanpengyouyouzerenjinidexintaifuqianma？

yincineiyangjiyashidehudongjiaoliuhuishitashifendichu，tahuiganjue：“zaozhiwobujianideweixinle，haimeiyouneimefan！”

 nizheileixiaochendeqingkuang，zhinenggengweijiandingbuyilingyifangyunitichufenshoudetiaoxuan，biandaduinidexinhanzhi，yincijiarunixianjieduandeqingkuangbuzulizhidehua，wojianyinibuyaoganqingyongshi，daishangxintaihelingyifangliaotian，shijixiaoguozhinenggengcha。genqianrenzenmeliaotiancainengfuhe？genqiannvyoufuheliaotianjiqiao，genqianrenpobingdediyijuhuayaoshuohao。