女生跟你聊天时总是刁难你 跟女生聊天技巧

 kankangennvshengliaotianhuatidaquan，gennvshengliaotiankaitouzenmeshuo？jinridajiaeryanyishuo，liaotianshi，nvshengyizhiweinanni，tadeneixinshizenmexiangde？“liaotianjiuliaotianweishenmelaoshuozheizhongweinanwodehua”，xuduonanhaizizaihenvshengliaotiandeqingkuangxiadoushihuiyouneiyangdekunhuo，nanhaizijiuhenwunai。ganjuenvshengdezheileigerenxingweirangzishenhennanshou，woshilaijiaoyoudeyoubushilaizhaoqishoude。xuduonanhaiziquanshineiyangdeniantou。yucitongshinanhaiziyehenxiangyaozhidaonvshengweiheyizhiweinanzishen，nandaorangtahenkuaile？nvshengzaiweinanzishenshi，xinlishizenmexiangde？xiamiangendahuoshuoshuo。xuexuegennvshengliaotianjiqiao。

1.女生心里的念头

 nijuedenvshengweinannibushirangnilianmianshizhuonongni，shiqini，zheiyeshibuzhengquede。nvshengnengweinanni，neibiaomingtaduinihuoshiyouyixiexingquaihaode，weiheneimeshuoni？youyunvshengjiaruchediduinimeixingqu，huadouburongyigennishuoyiju。nvshengweinannideniantoushi“kanyixiazheigewentitashizenmehuidade？”，nvshengshiyizheiyixinlizhuangtailaiweinannide。

 bingqiexuduoqingkuangxiayoudeweinanbingbuyidingbianshiqueshiweinan，jinjinyouyunihuiyingbushangqu，nijuedetashizaiweinannieryi。tawangwangweinannishiyouyuyigedanshendenvsheng，tameiribuzhishigenniyigerenliaotian，tazaimeiyoumingquemubiaoyiqian，tahuigenxuduonanhaiziliaotian。nihuiguotoulai，nigennvshengliaotian，buyexuyaoxuanyigefuheniqingyidenvshengzuoweizongtimubiaoma？nvshengyeshizheiyidadaoli。

 tameirigenxuduonanhaiziliaotianbianshixiangcongzheidangzhongxunzhaoshihedemubiao，keshirenbijiaoduolebianhuirangtaganjuezhaohuatifeichanglei。yincitajiuxianggefangfa，taquweinannanhaizi，yongyixiequweiceshiquceshinanhaizinengfoudechufuhetaguidingdehuiying。jiarunengjiubazheigenanhaiziquhuadaonenggouzaiciliaotiandefanwei，jiarubunengjiulijipassdiao，neiyangtayekeyishengchuhuolilaigenhehutaguidingdeyixingpengyoukaizhanliaotian。zheijiushinvshengweinannixinlideniantou，neimayinggaizenmebanni？xiabiangendahuoerjiangxia。

2.应该怎么办？

 ruguonixiainvsheng，neimeniduoshiduobuchude。nibuyaoxiangxiangzhenvshengbuweinanni，zheiyeshibutaikenengde。jishinimenqueshizaiyiqile，nvshengmeishieryehuizailiaotiandeqingkuangxiarangnichuhaoduogenantikaokaoni。neijiranduobudiao，kendingshiyoufangfaquchulide。

 dangnvshengyongdajidefangfaweinannishi，jiuliru，nvshengshuo“niyigeyuexinshuicaineimedian？”，niyizhizaiyingduinvshengneiyangdeweinanshi，niyejiubixuquzhangbuduan。ninengneimehuiying“jinguanxinshuihenshao，keshiyinweiwobingbushikaoxinshuiyongcande”，neiyanghuiyingxianwaizhiyinbianshigaozhinvsheng，niyeyouqitashouyixinxiangmu。huoshinibingmeiyouqitazhuanqiandehaoxiangmu，ninengshuo“rujinshaomeishier，zaiguohaoduogeyuejinshengle，xinshuidangranjiushanglaile”，rangnvshenglejienishiyoujinquxinderen。

dangnvshengyongyixieshiniganjuejiaoweibuzundeguidingweinannishi，ninengyongjiaohuanjiazhidefangfaquhuiying。

 dangnvshengyongnizenmeruhebutaihao，zenmezenmebuhaolaiweinannishi，ninengtiaoxuanhushitadeguandianquzhuanyihuati。youyunvshengzheishihoudeguandianjinjinyongzhuguanxingniantoushuochulaibale，taxiangkankanninengzenmehuidata。jiarunishifenjiaolvbuanzhujianhetabiaoshulaibiaoshuqu，neinijiuhuiyuelaiyuehenchuyubeidong，ruguonizhujianbiaoshuniyejiujinrulenvshengdejiagouzhong。yincizuihaoshidefangshibianshiwuxuduoyan，nijuederennijuedelijihushi，bahuatitaolunqianyidaonenggouyunvshenghudongjiaoliudeneirongshanglai。kankangennvshengliaotianhuatidaquan，gennvshengliaotiankaitouzenmeshuo？xuexuegennvshengliaotianjiqiao。