跟女生聊天技巧 你还不会跟女生聊天

 kankangennvshengliaotianhuatidaquan，gennvshengliaotiankaitouzenmeshuo？liaotianshiyimenbixiukecheng，youqishizenyanggennvshengliaotian。bulunshiyouhui，huoshichumenguangjiegouwu，ziranhuanjingdoulijijueceleliangrendegoutongjiaoliutexing。zhenduinanhaizieryan，jiaruzhaobuzhehuatitaolundetupokou，jiudaibiaozhebenciyouhuidewanbi。zhongjiumeirenxiaixiangduixingwuhua，erqiekuzaofaweideyouhuiziranhuanjing。xuexuegennvshengliaotianjiqiao。

方式一：及时自然环境话题讨论法

 shuobailejishiziranhuanjinghuatitaolunfa，bianshiyijuziranhuanjinglaikaizhanhuatitaolundetiaoxuan。zheibingbingbushidanfangdesuiyijianghuahefuyansaize，zhishiyikaoziranhuanjinglailiaobomeizhidexin。

 zaiwomenzaifangshishengtaigongyuandeqingkuangxia，nenggouyijushengtaigongyuancunyoudeziranhuanjingqingkuangzhaoxunhuatitaolun，liru：nikandaoneilidepaiyilemeiyou？wojingchangzaixiangnayigewenrouxianhuidenvshengnenggenwozaizheililiaoliaotian，jieguoniyejiufashengle。huonilejieshuzhimeiyouliangkuailuoyeshitongyangdema？danzaiwopengdaoleni，woyefajueletamendetongyang。

dangbiciyinzheileiliaomeitaoluerlajinjianjushi，dajiajiukeyiyinchulairujindehuatitaolun，jinerzuodaoliaotianshengjiedeshengji。

 zhishangzheizhongdouguishuyuliaomeitaolu，danzhenzhenzhengzhengmudihuoshirangbicixuehuifangxiajinpogan，jinerzuodaobicizhijianchongzugoutongjiaoliudemudi。jiaruyigerenshanyuguanchaziranhuanjing，bingkeyibahuatitaolundaidaodaoziranhuanjingzhong，neikenengrangzheiciyouhuidehuatitaolunyuanyuanbujue，jinerzuodaoliaotianbugangademudi。

方式二：兴趣爱好话题讨论法

 meiyigerendejiatingfenwei，gerenaihaojiqisuochupengdaodegegefangmianquanshibuyiyangde，zheiyezaochenglerenherenzhijiandejiazhiguannianhuifashengquanjuxingdechabie。danzaiwomenxunzhaohezishengerenaihaotongyangderenshi，dangranshixiangyaojijiquduoliaotiande，yehuigengweixiangyaohelingyifangjiaowangde。

 zaiqingganhunyinzhong，gerenaihaoleisishibiciqingganpingwendeguifan。yaoxiangrangnvshenghezishenyizhiliaoxialai，jiuxuyaoxianjifaqinvshengdexingquaihaodian，jinerzuodaoyueliaoyuezijintouru。

genjushierxingzuozhaoxunxingquaihaodian

 jinguanhenduorenbuxiangxinshierxingzuo，danjuedaduoshunvshengshijianxinshierxingzuode。huanjuhuashuo，nikeyizhangwoshierxingzuodetexing，neiyekeyizhangwoyibufennvshengdehuatitaolunyaoqiu。lirusheshounvdeyidatexingbianshihaodongdanda，biaocengdiashengdiaqi，lichennvhanzi。shizinvdeyidatexingbianshiyaohao，eryaohaodenvshengfandaogengweisixubijiaomingan。

 zheizhongxingqingtexingzaihulianwangshangmiannengzhaodao，guanjianbuqujueyuzenyangxunzhaotamenxingqingtexing，zhishigenjutexinglaikaiqihuatitaolun，xunzhaobicibicizhijiandexingquaihaodian。

genjulibaitianrichangzhaoxunxingquaihaodian

 yigerenlibaitianxiaiganshenme，nenglijijuecezheigerendejiaopengyouquanshiganshenmede。jiarutaxiaidaijiakanzongyijiemu，neimenideyingshizhizuozhuanyezhishiyaochongzu。tandaoyixiedapaimingxingyouqudeshi，baguaganqingdeng，douxuyaoyouxiangduixingzishendekanfa。jiaruzheixiefangmianburongyi，jiububijianghuatitaolunladaotaxiaidezongyijiemushang，xiangyaoladaozishenxiaidezongyijiemushang。

 jiarulibaitianxiaichumenwanlechimeishi，neimenijiuxuyaotanlvyoutantesemeishi。liru：mougedetesemeishi，nengchidaoshenmeganjue，chiqilaiyounaxiehuiweiwuqiong，meimeishenmejijiehainenggouzhekouyouhuiyingxiaodeng。moushengdelvyoujingdianyoubuyiyangdedujialvyoufangfa，nenggouzhitongdefangfa，haikeyizuokongzhonglanchezheixie。

libaitianrichangzhaohuatiliaotianshifeichangjiandande，yeshizuifeichangrongyikandechubicideshihedude。

genjugerenxingquaihaozhaoxunxingquaihaodian

 zheixiefangmianyouyigeshifenmingxiandetedian，bianshikannvshengdechuanyidapei。yizhewenyifanerzhongleidenvsheng，jiarunimeiyouguannianfangmianjiubuyaoyingliao，yaoshanyulingting，erbushitaohuatitaolun。yizheshishangchaoliudenvsheng，caizhuangchanpinpeidajiangshizheizhongnvshengshanyuqugoutongjiaoliudehuatitaolun。yizhexianyadenvsheng，liaoyiliaodongwudehuatitaolunshigefeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

 diyiyangaoqingchuyingdangliaoxienaxiehou，yaolijilejie，liru：wojialiyangleyizhijumao，nixuyaokanyikanma？zuijindedianyingnikankanlemeiyou？xushunvpaidexiaogushi，langpingbukuiweitielangtou。

 zheileihuatitaolundeguanjiandianqujueyu，bubiyishangqujiuxunwennipingshixihuanshenme，xihaonaxie，neiyangdegoutongjiqiaohenkuzaofawei，yefeichangrongyirangnvshengganjuenankan。

方式三：社会发展话题讨论法

 dajiameiyigerendouchuzaishehuifazhanzheiyidahuanjingzhong，dangranduishehuirenzhideshiqingbaoyoubuyiyangdeguandian。yinciruguonihenvshengliaotiankaizhandaoyidingchengdudeqingkuangxia，nenggouyijushehuirenzhidehuatitaolunkaiqixiayigetupodian。

 lirujinqichanshengdexiaohuotangshanglaopodeanzi，suoqucailiqianbuledeanzizheixie，zheizhongquanshiyuanyuanbujuedehuatitaolunlaiyuanyu。danzheierbixuzuohuatitaolunxingdezhengqueyindaocaixing，buranshengyingdejiangchuzheizhongshehuirenzhihuatitaolun，zhinengrangnvshengganjuezheigerenhenguaiyi。

 danglianggerentandaoyidinghuanjieshi，nenggoupaochuqu：nikankanjinqidemouxinwenbaodaole，xianzaidenvshengzhendehenburongyi。pengdaoyoubaolixingweidenansheng，wulunqingganduomedehao，douhenyoukenengshenxiandaoyizhongbeisunhaidejushi。nikanyixiaxiabiandepingjia，doushizaishuonvxingdenanti，shijishangnanshengdenanticaisuanshijiaodade。

 zheileiyujuyidingduolizainvxingdeshijiaoqupaochuquhuatitaolun，erbushilizaiyigexiaomianrendeshijiaoquxushuzheijianshiqing。zhongjiuzaibicigoutongjiaoliushi，nenglizaizhengduimianshijiaoquxushunanti，yeshiyigezhengqueyindaohuatitaolundejijiafangshi。

方式四：情感共鸣法

 jiarushuozuichudongnvshengxindeliaotianfangshishisha，neiyidingbianshishidukuanweile。dangnvshengshangxinnanguodeqingkuangxia，shiganqinggengweimingandeqingkuangxia，yeshizuifeichangrongyixiangbierenjiangchuxinliniantoudeqingkuangxia。yincinixuyaozhuyinvshengdeyixiexiaoguanjiandian，yiqilaikankantajinrideqingxuqingkuang。

 yidanfajuenvshengdexinqingyumen，jiuxuyaolijizhaoxunyuangu，bingpaochuquhuatitaolun：bieweimoujianshibugaoxingle，xiabanlewoniyaochimeishideng。

 ziran，nihaikeyidupixijingyinchulaiyigeleisidehuatitaolun，dedaolingyifangganqingshangdegongmingdian。lirujiandaonvshengyingongzuozhongbugaoxing，niyekeyishuozishenyingongzuozhongerkunao。jiandaonvshengyinjiatingsuoshibugaoxing，nijiuxuyaodangzuoliangshiyiyou，laixiezhutazouchukunjing。

 liru：shijishangyinweiwoyouheniyiyangdekunao，zhiqiangangganglaideqingkuangxia，yeshizaoshoulingdaodebugaoduzhongshi。danzhihoufajue，lingdaoshijishangrentingbucuode，zhibuguodajiadouhaimeirongrurujinqiyedezhuangkuang。wojiaonihaoduogefangshi，kendingnengshinizaigongzuoshangshibeigongban。

 qinggangongmingfadeqiantitiaojianshiyinvshengnanguohuoshikaixindeshiqingweitupodian，shengchanzhizaolianggerennengzaiciliaotiandehuatitaolun，erqiedechuzishendetiyihuoshifangshilaijiejuekunnan。henduorendouxiangyaoqudangzuonvshengdeliangshiyiyou，jiqiequchulitadenanti，quewangjilejiejuekunnandeyagen，shixunzhaoganqingdegongmingdian，lejietadezhenzhengniantou。

汇总

 ninengbingbushigaoshuaifu，haikeyibunianrubaiwan，danniyidingyaohuijianghua，huizhaoxunhuatitaolun。zhixuliaotiandefangfazuodaole，zhuinvshengshijishangbingbuhuitainan。

 dangran，wulunshiliaotianfangfahuoshizhaohuatiliaotian，qiyagenshirangbicinengchongzuzhangwo，gengxiangyaoquliaotian。erbushiweilegenghaodizhaohuatiliaotian，yiweidezhaobenxuanke，ziyuanqishuo。kankangennvshengliaotianhuatidaquan，gennvshengliaotiankaitouzenmeshuo？xuexuegennvshengliaotianjiqiao。