如何跟女朋友认错 分手挽回道歉为什么没有用

 gennvpengyourencuoyaoshuogennvpengyourencuodenuanxinhua，jianxinxuduonanshiwanhuiganqingshidoushihuiyouneiyangdeyilv：“weishazaoyihenzhenxinchengyihetazhiqianhenshucile，tahuoshibuyuanqingyuanliangwoni？”qishihegennvshengbiaobaijiqiaoyiqutonggong。

youshihounaizhiyuedaoqianyuekuaijiasuqinggandeshenwang，nvpengyouyufadedichuheqijue，shijideyuanguyouyixiajigefangmian：

1、致歉尽管能减轻分歧，但不可以从源头上化解矛盾

 pobudeyirenkezhiqianzaiwanliuquanguochengzhongshiyouyidinggongxiaode。nenggourangnvpengyoujiandaonidezhenxinshiyi，rangnvpengyougaoqingchunirenzhinenglidaoxianjieduanqinggancunzaidebuzu。gangfashengnantishi，zhenxinshiyidezhiqianyiranhuiyouyixieshijixiaoguo，tahuikuanrongni。jinjinniyizhizaiyuanshishichangdaozhiqiandehaochu，xiayicizaiyongshizheileishijixiaoguohuibeimanmanjianshaonaizhizaochengfanshijixiaoguo。

 nantibuchuli，buduanfashenghou，tabianhuicongxinlizhuangtaifenbiannishiyigechengrencuowubujiugaideren，jianjiandidetaduinizangouleshiwang，congeryinqizhiqianshixiao。yinciyouguanzhiqianzheiyigerenxingweidajiayidingyaoyishidao：jiaruyaoxiangzhikaozhiqian，huoshizuofuwuchengnuo，songliquyueneiyangdegerenxingweijiuyilaoyongyidewanhuiganqing，zheileizhuangkuangdabufenshibuhuiyoude。

 yilaoyongyi，zhidebianshiniyidanwanliuchenggongle，shihounimendeqingganshibuduanwenbufazhanfangweipingwenfazhanqushide，shiyizhongzhangqixinghuoyi。shubuzhizhiqianzhinengshiduanzanxingdeshijixiaoguo。

 nihenyoukenenghuidanxin：nandaoshuotakanbujianwodezhenxinshiyima？tazirannengjiandaonidezhenxinshiyi。keshidangtakanduolenizhenxinshiyidemoyang，erqiezaoyikanyanle，kanfanle，meishenmeganjuele，naizhiyouyixieyanfanhepaichile，neimazaizhenxinshiyiyehuikanqilaixubao。

2、为何致歉会造成抵触

 zhiqiandelizudiankendingshiweilegenghaodiqingganhao，xiufuganqingfenqidegerenxingwei。shubuzhizhinengzhiqian，neizailingyifangyanzhongshiyifanzaicifasheng，sibuhuigai，shihushiduilingyifangdaozhisunhaidegerenxingwei。zailingyifanglaikan，nidezhiqianjinjinniweilegenghaodiwanliuerzhiqian，jiusuannidaoqiandehuayuyouduozhenxinshiyi，lingyifangdouburongyijianxinnidehuale。yiqieyigegerenxingweidezuihaoshijixiaoguotongchangshiqujueyunidiyicizuodeqingkuangxia，jiarunifanfuzuozhetongyigegerenxingwei，zheiyigerenxingweijiushiqutayinggaiyoudeshijixiaoguole，zheijiuruyuemanzekui，yueyingzekuidedadaoliyiyang。

3、一味致歉只能沒有男子汉气概，引起女朋友的弃绝

 taiduodezhiqian，nvpengyouzhinengganjuenimeiyouyishidaonimendeganqingwenti，nirujindezhiqianshiweilegenghaodiyaoxianglikehetafuhezuochudegerenxingweibale。zainvpengyouyanzhong，nidezhiqianzheibushizaizhiqian，bushichengdan。cizhi，zhiqianyeshiyaoyoubiaozhunde，yiweidechengnengzhinengzainvpengyoudexinlishiquninanshigaiyoudebaqicelou，zheiyangyilainishiyigebumingbaiaiqingyehaowuyongchuganderuoxiao，zhinengyinqilingyifangdeqijuexinlizhuangtai，yufadebuyuanyunifuhe，naizhijuedetichufenshoucaisuanshiduidedexincunjiaoxing。

 huizong：shijishangfenshouzhihou，jibenshangmeigerendouzaizaiqianyishizhongdetuidongxiazuochuzhiqiangerenxingwei，zirannizhiqiandeqingkuangxia，lingyifangyehuibennengfanyingdelidongnishixianghuanjieguanlian，shixiangwanliu。jinjinzhiqianyeshizhuzhongfencunganheshudude，yifashengnantiniyejiuzhinengrencuodehua，nvpengyouhuiganjuenibingmeiyouyishidaozishencuozainalile，jinjinzaishiyingta，bugaoduzhongshita。yucitongshi，zishenzaimeiyounongqingchuweishenmefenshoudeguanjianyuangushibianqumangmugenfengzhiqian，zhinengrangshieryuelaiyuegengweicaogao，gengbuliquwanhuiganqing。yincizhiqianyiqian，huoshiyingdangxianxunzhaotichufenshoudegenbenyuanyin，gaoqingchuzenmehuitichufenshou，neiyangzhiqianyecaikeyigengyouganranli，zheicaigengkanqilaizhenxinshiyi。gennvpengyourencuoyaoshuogennvpengyourencuodenuanxinhua，qishihegennvshengbiaobaijiqiaoyiqutonggong。