躲避型情侣的思维方式 跟男朋友吵架后的处理

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 nibuyaoqukankannimenfenshoushi，taduininyouduowuqing，wulunshixintaixingtichufenshouhuoshirenzhinenglixingtichufenshou，zhixufangshiqiadang，wanliujinjinshijiandenanti。

zuorihoutaiguanliyouyigenvhaibangwosiliaoshuo，nanpengyouyifahuoyizhiaijiatinglengbaoliwo，gaizenmeban？

 deque，richangshenghuobianshiyouneimeyileiren，genlingyibanyongyoufenqi，xiaigenjujiduanhuadefangfaquchuli，youxierenshikongzhibuzhuzishendexingzi，yidingyaogenlingyibanchaogefantianfudi，zaihuoshishiyizhengchaojiuzhaobudaorenle，bugennigoutongjiaoliu，doubujiejuekunnan，jiuneimeliangzheni，shinichiyabakui。

一、那麼这类躲避型情侣究竟是怎么一个思维方式？

 yidantamenganjue，shixiadezheiyijiannanhuiweixiedaozishen，bulunshiweixiedaozishendehuolia，shijiana，qingxua，qiancaiazheixieyixiliedeyaosu，tamenbianhuijijidakaizishendeweihuxitongruanjian，tamendexinliyouyigexiaowuzi，yidanjuedezishenmeifacaokong，neimajiuhuidanggesuotouwugui，buyiqingkongwanlikendingbuchulai。

 shijishangtamenbingbingbushizaibikaini，tamendaliangdeshiduizishengongzuonenglidequefazixin，yebianshuobujianxinzijinenggoujiejuehaofenqi。

二、为何躲避型情侣会出现那样一个思维方式？

 shijishangguanjianshiyouyutamendejiatingguanxisuochanshengdeweihai。lirutayouyiduishifenyangeqieyouquanweixingdebabamama，zaiwomenmeiyoumingtianli，shibunengshuo“bu”zheigezide，youxiaodaoda，tamenzhiyouqutingcongbabamamadeyixiang。

 naizhipeiyangleyizhongtaohaoxingrenge，ninengfajuetamenxintengnideqingkuangxia，shiqueshihao，queshiwenwan，zheijiushiyouyutamenxiguanququyuebabamama，qidainenggouhuodetamendechengzanhexiai。keshizheileiyanlidajishidewenhuajiaoyu，querangtamenyicicidexiwangchengkong，yinertamenhuicaiyizishenshifoufeichangzhideshenai，yincizaochengleshifenbuzixindexintai。

 yincitamenzhangdahou，qipanyiduanwennuandehunyinguanxi，danyoumeifajienahunyinguanxilidemaodun。yinciyiyoufenqi，tabianhuibennengfanyingdebazijiweihuqilai，tamendanxinzaidujindaoershineibandeguanlianzhong。

tamenshiyaoxiangquxinlailingyibande，keshiershidelijing，rangtamenmeifazhenzhenzhengzhengdegenrenzaochengqinmiwujian。

三、有那么一个躲避型情侣该怎么办？

shijishangzuizhongyaodeliangzi，bianshilejie。

 nixuyaogaoqingchuneiyangdesiweimoshi，zaoyigudingbudongzaitamendezaiqianyishizhongzhizhongle，bingzhengyexunenggoujianqing，keshiquemeifachedixiaochu。

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zhizhizuizhong，tanaizhiganjuetayigerenyetingbucuo，dangtaguanniandaozheiyidian，yejiushibuhuizaixiangyaonideqingkuangxia。

shijiyinggaizenmezuo，wojidahuoeryidiantiyi：nixuyaoqufenbianyidian，taweiheyaotaobini，neiyigedianzainaer？

 shijishangzheileirenduobidedianshiyouguanlianxingde，bianshiduibumingdehaipahuiwujindebianda。tabuxiaodezishendechulifangfahuihuandenaxiedeyigejieguo，yincitaningkemeiquchuli。

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