跟男朋友吵架后的处理 这样处理才不容易分手

 chuduixiangdeqingkuangxia，zhengchaoshibidingde。xiangyingdangmeiyourendaochuduixiangdeqingkuangxiabushizhengchaodeba，youshihouchaoyichao，haikeyitishengbiliangrenbicizhijiandeqinggan，guanjianshikannizenmechao。gennanpengyouchaojialezenmeban？gennanpengyouchaojiahoudechuli，gennanpengyouliaotiangailiaoshenme。

 eryouderenzhengchaozefeichangrongyizaochengtichufenshou，jieguozaifenshouhouyouzhujianzuohouhuimoji，weihedangshiyaoneimabulizhi。neimazaigennanpengyouzhengchaoyihou，yaoruhejiejuecaiburongyifeichangrongyitichufenshou。

第一，不把争执当总体目标

 qinglvzhijianchanshengfenqi，qizhengchao，shijishangshiyijianhenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，dajiayingdangxuehaozenyangbayixiehenyoukenengchanshengdefenqi，zaitachanshengyiqianyouyidechulidiao。

 lirunihaishishuoyaochimalatang，nanshengshuobuyuanchi，zuoricaichiguo。nvshengbubizhishuobupeitaqu，bianshibuxihuanta，butongtale。nanshengshuotaqueshibuxuchi，yaochidehuanizijiquchi。

 zheileizhuangkuangwojuedeyingdangxuduolianrendoushihuichanshengdeyizhongzhuangkuang。shijishangnihebuneiyangzuonanshengpeinvshengchimalatang，chileyihouzairangnvshengpeinanshengquchitayaoxiangchideshiwu。youdeqingkuangxia，nimenzhongjianwangwanghuizaochengmaodun，shiyouyuliangrendoujianchibuxieyaorenweizishendejianjie，zhengzhibuxiacaihuifashengzhengzhi。

第二，众人皆知胜负

 zhengchaoleqianwanbiezhenggeshengfu，yidingyaonixiangenwochengrencuowu.wokenkuanrongni，liangrenchuduixianghaowuyiwen，bixuyouyigerenzaizhengzhideqingkuangxiarenrang。jiarucicishinanshengxianrenrang，neixiayicizhengchaodeqingkuangxianvshengyexuyaofuciruan。

 zaiqingganzhongfashenglezhengzhi，shizhongshiyifangbupakunnan，neiyangshibuzude，neiyangdeqingganshibutaikenengzoudezhangqide。bingqiebubiyizhiweilegenghaodizheiyizhengzhiquzhengyigeshengfu。zaiqingganzhongshimeiyouduihecuode，zhengzhideqishidiandaodishisheizuocuoshi，neimejiusheixianxianglingyifangdikuaitou，chengrencuowumaimeng，nannvshengdoukeyongde。

第三，调节情绪

 jiaruqueshimeiyoubanfa，liangrenfashenglezhengzhi，yidingyaogaoqingchudiaojieqingxudebiyaoxing，buguanchaonaoshengduomedemenglie，bubijiangchuneileifeichangrongyishanglingyifangxindehua。

 nixuyaorangzishenxianpingjingxialai，huanweisikaoyixia，ruguonishilingyifang，tingdaoleneiyangdehua，nineixinshiyizhongnaxiedetihui，youyixiehenhuabushikeyisuibianshuode，shuoduoleyejiuruyuanyichangle，lirutichufenshou。

 xuduoqingkuangxianiyaoqujieshidudezhengzhi，nenggoutuidongliangrendeqinggan，keshizaizhengchaoyihouhuizonggoutongjiaoliuqingkuangxiabixude。buyonglejiezhengchaodeyuangu，erbushimeiyicidouguzuogaoshendemenghunguoguan。

 youyixiezhengchaodeyuanyinshinenggougenjurangshijianchuli，danyouyixieshierjiufenqijiubixujiejue，burannantizhinengyiciyouyicidechenji。

 yuqishuoweilaihouhuimoji，bibushangrujinhaohaoyunyingzishendeqinggan，tanyichangbutichufenshoudetanlianai。gennanpengyouchaojialezenmeban？gennanpengyouchaojiahoudechuli，gennanpengyouliaotiangailiaoshenme。