如何给女孩子聊天话题 跟刚认识的女生的聊天技巧

 genmeiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？henvshengliaotianzenmeliaomeizi？jijiliaotianshuosha？weihetabuliwoyizhidiaozhuwo？weishenmeyoudenanshengnengzhuidaopiaoliangmeinv，keshiwoyizhibuhao？zheiyeshixuduodixiongdoushihuiwenqideweicimangrandenanti。shijishangzhuiqiuwanmeinvsheng，guanjianjiuzaizheiyi“liao”zi，jigenjuyuyanbiaodahuoshigerenxingweitexingrangtadexintaizaochengqifu，caikeyizhenzhenzhengzhengzhuidaota。jinridajiajiulaikexueyanjiuyixiaruhejinvshengliaotianhuatitaolun，weishenmeyoudenanshengzongshinenggengsuibianhuodemeizhidexin？dahuoernenggoucanzhaokanyixia，lingwuzaiqizhongjingcuide，jiugengfeichangrongyidemeizhidehuanxin。gengangrenshidenvshengdeliaotianjiqiaobunan，xiangjinvshengjianggushidejiqiao。

ruhejinvshengliaotianhuatitaolun？

1、明白倾听

 niyoumeiyoufajuejuedabufenrendouxiaizhuyaobiaoxianzishen，liruxianbaizishen、youqixiaifabugeshigeyangdejianjie，tanqihualaikankanertan。danjiaruniyizhizhituzijishuodehuatitaolun，lingyifangdouchabushangzui，tahuiganjuenizheigerenguoyuzishen，bierenyihouyagenjiubuyuanzaigenniliaotian。

 yinci，bulunshiyibandeshejiaoshejiaomeiti，huoshihunyinguanxi，nichukaiyaoshuo，haixuyaohuiting。erqiezailingtingdequanguochengzhonghaixuyaoxuehaohuifulingyifang。huifulingyifang？bianshi“ng、a、e、duide、shide……”ma？zheizhiyousuanzuididengdehuifu，ergaojidehuifu=getdaolingyifangdexinxineirong+tonglixin。

举个事例：

nv：jinqizhendeshiyaomangfengdiao，meiriquanshizhongwuliangsandiancaigudeshangchiwufan……

nan：neimenihuoshizhuyixiuxiyixia(didenghuifu)

 nan：a，neimenizheiyetaimangleba，zheiduanshijianhaowuyiwenfeichanglei，yincinihuoshiyaoxiuxiyixiaya，shengbujiaobaibunei。(gaojihuifu)

2、学好赞扬

meigerendoulejiezanyangnenggoukuaisulajinlianggerenzhongjiandeguanlian，zaihunyinguanxizhonghainenggouhuanqiai，tiwenqinggan。

keshiruheqiaruqifendizanyanglingyifangni？nandaoshuojinjin：wa，ninhaoshuai(haokan、qichang、yazhi)ma？

nonono……ziranbingbushi，zhenzhenzhengzhengzanyangdegongshijisuanyinggaishineiyangde：guanjiandian+tihui+bizhao。

举个事例：

 nv：yansurenzhendezuoyousaoshiyifannanyoudechuanyidapei，suihoushuo：“qinaidede，xiangbudaojinrineimehuichuanya，nideheisejiakegengaolingshanhongsemaoyidequehenda(guanjiandian)，yixiazijingshenshizhilehenduo，ngdequeyaobilinjuzhangdayekushuaixuduohahahahaha(zheiergenzhangdayebizhao，shiyizhongkaiwanxiaodehua，huoyueqifen，shengchanzhizaoqingxubodong)”

nan：wocao，nijiangwogenzhangdayezuobizhao(zhuangzuofahuo)

nv：hahahahaha，wanxiaode，hahahajinrineimekushuaideren，zaifahuodehuajiuzhangdebuhaokanla。

jiushizheiyangkua，kuachuguanjiandian，tiandaoneixin。

3、歪曲式风趣

 niyoumeiyouyudaoneileizhuangkuang，liangrenliaotianyizhiganbiede，yiwenyida，rutongliushuizhangdanyiyang，suihouliangrenliaotianliaotianjiumeiyousuihoule。zheileiliaotianrutongpingjingdehu，meiyouyiqieyidianjingtaohailang，ningjingdelingrenkongbu。

 meiyouyisiqingxubodongdexiangchumoshi，lingyibanbianhuiganjueshixiheshenxinpibei，zhangciyiwangtahuigennishuo：“worenweibicizhijianzaoganjuebuhaole，womenbuheshi，fenshouba……”neizenmecainengjiqiqingxubodongni，caikeyirang2gebuhuizaijuedewuquhekuzaoni？lai，rujinwojiaoniwaiqushifengquliaotian，huanqiaidemeili！

看个事例：

nan：zuiaidenishishaxuexinga

nv：nixianshuoshuonishaxuexing

nan：woshioxingya，nigaishuonidele

nv：e，nishioxing，woshitaorenxihuanxing

jiushizheiyangwaiqushifengqu，liaochuxintai，huomiaodaileidian！

4、角色扮演游戏

 jiaosebanyanyouxi，nenggoulingrenduanzanxingyiwangzishendezhenzhengzhenshishenfen，fangzhijuliganhejinpogan，bingqiehainenggoujianchuqingqingsongsongfengqudeqifen。jiner，zuodaoguanlianxunsushengjihuoqinggantiwendemudi。danshijiaosebanyanyouxi，budanbixudahuoerpingriduoguanchaheleiji，haibixudahuoerhuibuhuojiaosebanyanyouxideliaotianduihuakuang，fangnenglinshixingchongfenfahuichuqiaruqifendexiangxiangli。

lai，huoshishouxiankangeshili：

nan：nipingchangdouruhejiaqiangduanliandeya

女：练习瑜伽啊

男：嗯，崆峒派的？

女：不，峨眉派

nan：e，zheiyanga，zaixiaduanyuganwennvhaishibushixingzhou？

nv：feichanghao，shuangmingzhiruo。

genmeiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？jiushizheiyangjiaosebanyanyouxi，budanhaowaneryouyisi，haiaimeiguanxi！

5、学好推拉门

 liuchuanyouyigenvxingwenbolatu：zenyangcainengrangnanshengfengkuangxihuanwo？conghuidebolatuhuiying：xianhuijueta，suihouzaidadaota！budankeyikuaisuzhizaoqingxubodong，hainengranglingyifangduinichimi。rujin，dajiazaikanlaiyixiadiergeliaotianfangfadeanli。shijishangzaizanyangzheiyianlizhong，jiuyingyongletuilajiqiao。

nan：qinaidede，nikankankuaitianyaoxiayu，wodaihuierbasanjiaojiniyong

nv：a，neizenmexing，nidaihuieryongsha

nan：biedanxin，wodaihuieryigerendadehuilaihahahahaha

女：卧槽

jiushizheiyangtuilamen，fengquyouyoumo，haixiangxiyinni！

 neimadixiongmen，jinrideganhuozhishijiujidahuoerfasongdaozheier。dangnizhidaozenyanggenjipinnvshenliaotianshi，tabianhuibushefangdigennigoutongjiaoliu，dannizixinxindeqichang，yehuixiyinzhutadeliuyi。nvshengshixintaiweishengwu，jinyouyouqudewentiheyingyongdeliaotianfangfajinmijiehecaihuirangliaotianyuelaiyuebuhuizailiefengkuzao。shijianjiule，nvshenghaihuijixujijilaiyueni，zhongjiusheitaoyanhui“liao”youhui“liao”derenni？gengangrenshidenvshengdeliaotianjiqiaobunan，xiangjinvshengjianggushidejiqiao。