跟对象没话聊正常吗 和男朋友聊天没话题了怎么办

 genduixiangmeihualiaozhengchangma？goutongjiaoliushitongxiangneixindegongluqiaoliang。jiarushiquzheiyigongluqiaoliang，qingganhaowuyiwenhuifashenggeshigeyangdenanti。xiaomin，2021nian28sui，shiyijiahulianwanggongsidexiaoshouzongjian。xiaominwangwanghuilaizhaowoliaozuozixun，shiyouyu，tachajuezijihenanyouyulaiyumeiyougongtonghuatile。genbaiyangnanliaotiandejiqiaoyouhenduo，changshijinanyouyidaduannuanxindehua。

liangrenzailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，changchanghuifashengjitongyajiangdeqingkuang：

xiaominduinanpengyoushuo：“wohaizaiqiyeligenpengyoufashengzhengzhile，rujinqueshihenshengqi。”

 tingjiantamenyihou，nanyoubudanmeiqukuanweita，haihuijixuyibianhanzheshoujiyouxi，yibiangentashuo：“younaxiekefahuodeya，laipeida2jushoujiyouxijiuhaole。”

 xiaominrangnanyouqubaquanzidongxiyijilideyifukuzilianghao，nanshengjiuzhiyaobayifunachulai，suihoubatamendazaiyifujiashang，lianshuaiyebushuaiyixia。xiaominwennanyou：

“weishenmebushuaiyixia，jiubayifuliangshangni？rujinyifushangquanshizhouzhe，nikanbujianma？”

zheigeshihou，nanshengbianhuigentashuo：

“niyemeishuoyaowoshuaiyixiaya，wochedishiyizhaonideguidingzuode，zheikebukeyiyuanwo。”

shijishang，zailiangrenrichangxiangchudequanguochengzhong，xiangjindeshierqueshishitaiduole。

yeqiahaoshiyinweizheizhongshierdechixujilei，xiaomincaihuiganjue，tahenanyouzhongjianyulaiyumeiyougongtonghuatide。

shijishang，zuochuguanlijueceyiqian，huoshiyingdangchongzukaolvyixia，liangrenzhongjiangoutongjiaoliubuchangnantideshuipinghetexing。

congzongtishangbianshi：qinglvzhijiandegoutongjiaoliubuchang，dagainenggoufenchengsigetexingdenanti：

1单纯的语言沟通难题

 2gerichangshenghuolijing、zhuanyezhishiqingkuang、xinggetezheng、biaoshuxiguanxingdougeyoubutongdeliangrenrichangshenghuozaiyiqi，xianghuzhijianhaowuyiwenyaoyouyigejiehedequanguocheng。

liangrenzaijiehedequanguochengzhong，fashengdemocahebuyukuai，shijishangbingbingbushiyigenanti，zhishiyizhongyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang。

 yibanlaishuo，danchundeyuyangoutongnanti，dabufendoufanyingzailiangrenzaikannantishishijiaodebuyiyang，erbushizaitongyigeshijiaoxia，jianjiedechediduilimian。

举个事例而言：

 xiaominzaiqiyelishoulebiequ，huidaojiayihouyaoxianghuodenanshengdekuanwei。zheiyeshixiaominlizaizishendexinlizhuangtaitihuideshijiao，duinanshengmingquetichudeguiding。

 nanshengduixiaominshuo：“younaxiekeshangxindeya，laida2jushoujiyouxijiuhaole。”zheiyeshinanshenglizaizishendeshijiao，yongzishenxiaidededaokuanweidefangfa，laixiangxiaominbiaoshuzhencheng。

 xiaominwangwanghuifahuo，danshishiyouyunanshengbiaoxianchulaidezhencheng，bingbushitayaoxiangdebale。kenanshengbingmeiyoutihuidaozheiyidian，zheileigoutongjiaoliunanti，jinjinshijiaodebuyiyang，erbushijianjiededuilimian。

neima，naxiecaisuandeshangjianjiededuilimianni？

 nanshengmingzhidaoxiaominbixunaxiedekuanwei，danshiquebingburenkezheileifangfa，zhishizaicimanbuzaihudeyongzishendefangfaqukuanweixiaomin。

zheicaisuandeshangzaitongyigeshijiaoxia，jianjiedechediduilimian。

 genduixiangmeihualiaozhengchangma？congzheiyishijiaoeryan，xiaomingennanpengyouzhongjiandegoutongjiaoliunanti，danshibianshidanchundeyuyangoutongnanti。

 yihou，liangrenzhibixuzaiyixienantishangduogoutongjiaoliu、duogoutongjiaoliu，xianghuzhijiandejiaoliuzhangaihaowuyiwenhuiyidianyidiandexiaotuide。

2复合性语言沟通难题

 fuhexingyuyangoutongnantibaokuo“danchunyuyangoutongnanti”detexing。yejiushiliangrenzhongjianrengrancunyouzhexuduo，yinweixianghuzhijiankannantideshijiaobuyiyang，suoyinqideyixiefenqihenanti。

ciwai，fuhexingyuyangoutongnantihaibaohan：liangrenzaijianjiedechanshushangjubeiyidingdejingjixing。

 yigewuliboshiyanjiushengheyigewenxueboshizaiyiqigoutongjiaoliu，liangrenzhongjianhaowuyiwenhuichuxianyixiegenjujiaoyujinglihebiaoshuxiguanxingdebuyiyang，xianghuzhijianhaowuyiwenhuichuxianyixiejingjixingdechabie。

liru，zaiyingduimouyirendemouyicuowuzuofashi，wuliboshiyanjiushenghenyoukenenghuirenweiyouliyouju，zhicuojiugaijiugai。

 kewenxueboshiquehuijuede，shierdeduiyucuosuiranguanjian，danzhaoliaolingyifangdetihuihexintaiyehenzhongyao。yinci，womenzaibiaoshushangyingjinkenengwenheyixie。

 liangrenzaijiejuetongyijianshijideshierdeqingkuangxia，suoshuchudejianjiehexuanyongdefangshishichediduilimiande。zheileiyibufenjianjieshangdedikang，bianshifuhexingyuyangoutongnantidedianxingxingtedian。genbaiyangnanliaotiandejiqiaoyouhenduo，changshijinanyouyidaduannuanxindehua。