zenmeshuojinanpengyoudaoqiandenuanxinhua?jirannimenrujinyijingfenshoule,neiruguonideqiannanyoubingbushiyouqihaiziqi,jiaowangcengmiandoumeiyouyuanzewentidenanti。hengzaidajiayanqiandenanti,bianshixubuxuyaoxianglingyifangzhiqian,yihoucaisuanshigairuhewanhui。chulejinanpengyoushengrijingxicelve,haikeyishuoxiejinanpengyousajiaodaoqiandehua。
zhiqiannengdedaokuanrong,bingbingbushiyouyunijuedededuoyouxiedaoli,jinjinqiannanyouzishenshuodonglezishen。jiarunijuededehetaxinlisuoganbuyiyang,nijuedezaiduoyemeiyouyong。
dajiazhihenyoukenengkuanrong“wuxinzhishi”,tangruonifanleyuanzewentibuzhengque,lingyifanghaixiangyaozaicihenizaiyiqi,neibushikuanrongleni,zhishiyizhile,renshu,zheibingbuliweichilianghaodehunyinguanxi。
一、什么叫致歉、挽留情况下的致歉
zainijuecexubuxuyaozhiqianyiqian,dajiaxianlejieyixiazhiqiandehanyishisha。
zhiqian:weibushiduhuoyoushanghaideyantanjuzhirenkezishendebuzhengque,shenbiaoyihan,bingxiangyaosunshipeichang。
henduorenzhiqian,jinjinqingpiaodeyijuhua,yidiandouqunzixiadeyeshou,jimeiyoutianbuneixindewaishang,doumeiyoutianbulingyifangdesunhai,zheidangranburongyikuachulingyifangkuanrongdemenkan。
zhiqianshiyigehenxiangxideguanlitixi,bingbushijianyideyiju“baoqian”jiunengguinade,erdajiagenjudahuanjingweihai,youguangfanbuyi、buyuanjienazhiqian。
“womendoushizuijianglidequnti,danzhijiangzishendedadaoli”,dajiashibushikuanronglingyifang,zhizaiyulingyifangzhiqianshifouhehudajiadejiazhiguannian。
dajiachangchangduiyixiezhilimingyanbuganxiangxin,fandaoduihaoguimi、pengyoude“wailixieshuo”jianxinbuyi。
zhiqianyezheiban,nengbeikuanrongde,yibanlaishuodaobuzhiqiandoubuzaihu。jiarusuowei,jiubingbushizhiqianbuzhiqiannenggouchulideshierle,shilingyifangyoushenmewenti、sixiangdaodejiansheluowuzheixie,zongeryanzhishimanbujianglide。
tichufenshouqianchangchanghuifashengneiyangdezhuangkuang:
a:wozuotianmeikaishoujishang/mang/meiwanshouji。
b:“ng,womingbaile,wobuhuiguaini,nishuiba”
suihoubianshibaofengyu,huoshijiatinglengbaoli。dedaozuibiankuanronghenzuifeichangrongyi,danbingbukeyichulijutinanti。
youyunimeiyougaohaozhiqiandechengxuliucheng,jinjindanchunxingdibiaominglezhuangkuang,suihoujiumeiyouxiamianle。dajiaxiguanduobi,zhiqianyeshihanhanhuhude,jinlianghuaqingzishendenanti,lingyifangzenmekenenghuijienazhiqian?
dajiaduobidebingbushibaoqianzheisangezi,zhishishihoubixutourudewupin,lirupeifu、fuwuchengnuo、qinfendeng。
wanliushidezhiqianyouqijiannan,jinguanzhiqiandemudiqujueyujianshaomaodunnongduzhi、jianshaofumianqingxu,biaomingtaidu。kelingyifangshibuyuanyitingde,youyuzishenjiuhuiyoufumianqingxu,nanyiqudeshixiao。
lingyifanghuijuede,“nijianyizhiqianyixiajiukeyile?neijiarunimeigai,woneishihouzaitizheijianshiqing,fandaokanqilaiyemeiyouhengliang。genghekuang,tarujinmeifafuweiwodexintai,tayewufagaibian”
lingyifangmian,jishidajiaxiangyaoshuo、xiangyaogai,yefeichangrongyishenxianquyue、diweidejiongjing,xuduolianrenfenshouqianbianshiyifangpinlemingquyue、chengrencuowu,zuizhonghuoshifenle。
zhiqian,shijishangyeshiyizhongzishensikao、fazhan、xintaishangdezhuyaobiaoxian。zheibingbushifenkechi,jinjinnanzaidajiaguoyibuquzhiqian。
二、挽留中需不需要致歉
zhiqianyouhelihua,danwanliuxubuxuyaozhiqianquebixudajiakexueyanjiuyixia,feishiquanbuwanliuzhedoubixuzhiqian,yebushisuiyiheshidounenggouzhiqian。
youyutangruoshitanlianaiqingkuangxiadezhiqian,wojianyinilijizhiqian,naizhilingfuduogehuayanqiaoyu。youyuneishigaoxiaolvzuida,yezuifeichangrongyizhende。
danfenshouzhihoujiuxuyaoyiju:fenshouyuanyin、bicizhijiandexingqing、ganqingdejibendengcengmianzhuoqingchuli。bubimangmugenfengdezhiqian。
·chongdongxingtichufenshou:jiyinxintai、suoshitichufenshou,yibanlaishuonanshengbuyibulizhitichufenshou,danjiaruqueshifashengle,neizhiqianhuoshihenbixude。weiyiqiandemaiyuan、zhize、wujiefuzeren,kuanrongdejilvhuoshifeichangdade。
·biaozhunxingtichufenshou:zenmeshuojinanpengyoudaoqiandenuanxinhua?zheileizhuangkuang,zhiqianjibenshangmeiyoushijixiaoguo,youyuqiannanyouhuicunyoufeichangdade“zhuguanxingjianyi”。lingyifangtingbujinqunishuodehua,youyunijuededehetaxiangdebuyiyang。
·mudixingtichufenshou:nimenzhongjianqingganbucunzaidewenti,nimenfenshoudeshihouyouyugezhongyinsu,liruguowailiuxue、yanjiushengkaoshizheixie,zheileijibenshangbuyongzhiqian,nulishenghuojiuhaole。
·wujuedetichufenshou:zheileidaduoshushiyouhuolibugou、shenmiganwailiuzaochengde,bixuchuliguanjianyouhuoli、xiangchumoshidenanti,zheileibuqianglietuijianzhiqian。
·ganqingliliangboruotichufenshou:qianglietuijianzhiqian,youyutabuzhangwoni,nikeyiyongzhiqiandefangfashitagengzhangwoni。
duiyuzhuguanxingshangxubuxuyaozhiqian,zhiqiandaonaxieshuiping,kanzhenizishendemudi、gongzuonengli。
jiarunizhendeshizaicizouxialai,buyuantichufenshou:tiyibubitailiji,bixuxuyuweishe。qingnanduanruoshizhangqishi,youqizaimumuchaochao,budijinjitian。
yemeiyouzaiyikaishijiuduinishuoyaowanliu,shipanijuedebugan。
“tichufenshoushiliangrendoucunyouyidingdenanti,weishenmeyaowoyaoquzhiqian?”
queshibicidoushiyoucuo,danbuweihainizhengquerenshinidewenti,zhongjiutanlianaibingbushiyaofenlichulaiduoshao。wozhiqianshishiwodanliangyingduinanti,wojuedeqinfenbajiejuewentidiao。chulejinanpengyoushengrijingxicelve,haikeyishuoxiejinanpengyousajiaodaoqiandehua。
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