高情商女人分手不联系 在分手之后才会这么做

 gaoqingshangnvshengliaonanshengdeliaotianjilu，youhenduogaoqingshangyoumoliaotianjiqiao。fenshouhou，nidouzuoleshenmeshier，bipozishenwangjilingyifang？youxierenyibeizizhijingliguoyiduantanlianai，tajiushinidechulianqingren，jiushinidejiehunduixiang，erqiejiangbianchengneiyigegennigongduyushengyiqilaoquderen。youxierenyibeizijingliguohenshucitanlianai，yikezhenxinshiyifendaolebuyiyangderen，danzuizhongquefajue，buguanzenyangdoumeifahaohaodiquaiyigerenle。yeyouxieren，gangjinglilerenshengdaoluzhongjiaonandeyicifenshouhou，quechajuezijibuguanzenyang，yewufacongfenshouhoudetongchuzhongzouchuqu。gaoqingshangnvrenfenshoubulianxi，doushizheiyangzuode。

 shijishang，wangjiyigerenqueshimeibiyaocouhezishen，xuehaorangzishenshihuai，caisuanshiyigerenzuigaoqingshangdefanying，shiyigerendegaorenshengjingjie。

一、“分手之后，我感觉自身走出不来心理创伤了”

 shangyigeyueyigenvyoushilianhou，zaifenshouhoudezheidabangeyueshijianli，tacong130jinshoudao110jin，zaidukandaotadeqingkuangxia，quanburenjifuandan，lianbuyidianxianxueyemeiyou，dajiadourenweitaqueshidingbuzhule，yinciganjueyingdangjishijianduopeibanta。

 fenshouhoudedabangeyueshijianli，tabuxiangchifan，koukelejiuhejidishui，cituilegongzuozhong，bazijiguanzaiwuzili，youshinengshuishangyizhengtian。

xinglaishideqingkuangxiadoubufenbaitianheheiye，jiupingzilibiandejiumeiyoule，zaitongdianhuamaihongjiu。

jiushizheiyanghunhundundundiguoquledabangeyueshijian，dajiadouganjue，tacicihenyoukenengwanhou。

 3niantanlianaishuomeiyoulejiumeiyoule，qinyankanjiannanyougenqitanvshengzoudaoyiqi，huanzuoshiyiqieyigepingchangren，henyoukenengdoumeifachengshouneiyangdeqingganjiyintubian。

zaicuicanlezishendabangeyuehou，penyouzongsuanhuoshitiaoxuanzhengshizijidefenshouhouqingkuang。

zaitichufenshoudedishiliutian，tatuilezainanyoudachengshilizudefangwu，zhenglixinglixianglaidaociwaiyigedachengshi。

 zaijitasongxingyongcandeqingkuangxia，tagendajiashuo：woganjuezishenshizouchubulaixinlichuangshangle，woxuyaohuanyigeziranhuanjing，huanyigeyouyigedachengshi，sichuzouyizou，wojuedewanquanwangjizheigeren。

 youshixiangyixiang，zaiqingganliyongqingtaishenderen，zuizhongbutaihaodejieguoqueshitingcande；shiquganqing，shiqugongzuozhong，congcishiquduishenghuobaoyireaideyongqi；naizhi，diuqilezishenduiqinggandexinlai。

 “fenshouhoubingfazheng”huizaiweilaidejiaozhangyiduanshijianli，bianchengfushinirouti、neixindewanzheng，zhizhinixiongkoushangdebahenwanquanquanyu，lianchutongqiangtiebi，congcibuhaipaqinggandesunhai。

penyoushuo，dengtawanquanfangxialezheiyiduanqinggan，tabianhuiyixindezhenshishenfen，xindezishen，zhongguidaodajiayanqian。

二、由于深爱着过，因此大家更应当学好让自身学会放下

 shenaizheguo，fenlile，yehenguoqule，quanbudexintaidouyibianyouyibianzainixinlimianguolv，dangjingliguoyicixunhuanhou，nijiuxuyaogaozhizishen：wogaigenggaile。

youqishizhenduiyigenvshengeryan，shilianhoubukongbu，kongbudeshiziganduoluo，zishendoufangqilezishen。

yigerendegaorenshengjingjie，bujinjiushinimianduikunjingshidetiandanlizhi，yeshiniyingduibuchenggongqingganshidejiejuefangan。

shilianhou，dajiayingdangzenyanggenzishendiaojie？zenmerangzishenbaituobeishangdezhaoze？

1、jiaruonijinbuzhuxianggenlingyifanglianluo，neimayidingyaowanquanshanchulingyifangdelianxidianhua

jinguanzheileigerenxingwei，youyidianziquqiru；zhenzhenzhengzhengcengjingaiguoyigeren，zenmekenenghuiwangjilingyifangdelianxidianhuani？

 zhibuguoshi，neiyangdezuofashishinijianjiandijienayigeshiji：nimenzaoyiwanquancongbicizhijiandequanqiulihuaqule，nimencongciyihou，buhuizaiguishuyulingyifangle。

shanchulingyifang，yedaibiaozheniwubiderangzishenzhenfenqilai，zhujianyiduanshuyunidequanxinshengjiderichangshenghuo。

2、rangzishenzouxiangshijie，kanyikanshijieyouduoda，huanyigeziranhuanjing

 jiarunimianqianrenjianjuqueshishitaijin，ninenghuanyigebangonghuanjing；huoshishiweizijifangyigexiaoshujia，rangzishenquqitadachengshiguangyiguang，qukankangengkaikuodequanqiu，jiandaliangderen，gendaliangderengongxiangzishendesuowensuojiansuoxiangsuowu。

ruguonidelijingchongzufengfuduocaile，neimaniyingduiqiannanyoudeqingkuangxia，dayueneixinmianzhiyouyigeniantou：

 “rendemuguang、guanniandoushizaichixuyuelaiyuekeke、hendu；dangshideniguoyunianqing，yincitiaoxuanlehaiziqideqinggan；rujinzhenduinidehunyinguanlaijiang，qiannanyouyidianyebuhehu。”

3、qinfenqukanshu、xuexipeixun、jiaqiangduanlian，nizijiqiangjingle，nidejingshenshizhihexinlizhuangtaiyejiuqiangjingle

 gaoqingshangnvshengliaonanshengdeliaotianjilu，youhenduogaoqingshangyoumoliaotianjiqiao。buguanheshi，qingjuebunengfangqizishenxuexipeixundechongdonghegongzuonengli；buguandaoheshi，qingjuebunengfangqiyueduwenzhangdexiguanxing，jiusuannimeirijinyou1gezhongtoudeshijian，yeshizhezherangzishenduokanshu，xuexipeixunyixiazhuanyezhishi。

 chukaixuexipeixunyihou，nihaishiyingdangrangzishenbaochiwendingderentiqingkuang；youyubansuizhenianjitigao，bansuizheqinrenjianjiandilaoqu，niyejiuhuiyulaiyufajue，shenxinjiankangshiduomedenandekeguideyijianshiqing。

 ruguonikeyirangzishenjingxialaibuduanxuexi，duanlian，niyejiuhuijianjiandifajue：shijishangfenshouhouyemeiyoushenmelebuqi，bianshiyouyigeren，congwoderenshengzhong、richangshenghuolilikailebale。

只是是那么简易。

dajiaxiangfengenaizaiyiqibianshifeichangdadeyuanfen，xianrujinfenshou，biaomingdajiadeyuanfentingzhile，jiuneimejianyi。

 jinyoubuduanrenzhenxuexi，nicaikeyibianchengyigerenshengjingjiegao、qingshanggaoderen。gaoqingshangnvrenfenshoubulianxi，doushizheiyangzuode。