高情商拒绝别人的表白 高情商是怎样拒绝别人的

 gaoqingshangliaomeiliaotianjiluzhongjiaonigaoqingshangjujuenanshengdebiaobai，bumingbaihuijue，buqingchuzenmejujue，yijingshiwomenchengshouzheshifenduodexinlifudan，zuizhongzhishangshangji。zhangwoyingyongqiadangdefangfayiqian，shijishangzuixianbixulejiedeshiweihezishendexinlihuijuedehuijueshiyijianjiannandeshi。zheixiegaoqingshangjujuebierendebiaobaidefangfaganjinjixia。

1、担心愧疚。

 xindishanliangzongshihuiganjuetarendeweibozhilishiduizishenfeichangdadezhaogu，erguangjieshanyuanzirancaisuanshiduilingyifangdeganenhuikui。tayiqianneibanduiyuwo，wozenmehaohuijue？youhuoshilingyifangrenhedongxidoumeizuohuoshiganjueyidanhuijue，bianshizishendeguoshi。shidanxincuoguolelingyifang，shiyizhongduizishendeyuyanbaoli。

2、担心回绝以后另一方会对大家有不太好的观点。

 sheidoumeifabaituoshehuiyishixingtaidulicunyou。yinci，zhouweiduidajiadeguandianyuelaiyueyulaiyuguanjian。weilegenghaoditarenhuijiena，weilegenghaodiyuanhuashigu，huoshiweilegenghaoditaohaotaren，dajiazongshihuimeiyouliyourangzishendechuxintuoxietarendebixu。

3、害怕失去，心里没有安全感，软弱。

 zhenduizishendedianpingbuzukeguanxing，xinggemingan，pazheipanei，henzaihubierenguandianderengengfeichangrongyishenxianneiyangdeguaiquan。yeshiyizhongbuzuzixinxindezhuyaobiaoxian。

zhidaohaipajujuebierendeduofangmianyuangu，neimaxiamianjiujinggaizenyangjiejueni？

1、第一时间说no。

feichangjiandanlijidefangshitongchangzuiyouxiao。duiyuyuanyin，yuejianjiemingleyuehao。duoyidianzhenxinshiyi，shaoyidianzhaoshu。

keshibixuliuyideshi，yaogaozhizhenxinshiyidegaozhilingyifangzishendeniantou，buran，huidaozhiduitarenbuzhongshideyinxiang。

 baozhengzheiyidian，zuixianzhixuwukuiyuzishendexin，tongchangjiuchongzu。zhenzhenzhengzhenglejienibingjiangnidangpenyouderen，ziranyehuilejieni。

2、没法立即回绝，那麼说明自身的观点，并表明了解另一方。

youshidanghuijuedemubiaoshizishendelingdao，jiaoshi，laoren，zhijieledangdedefangfamianbulelingrenwufazhangkou。

 jugeshili，ruguonideshangjilingdaoguidingzuoyijianchaoguonigongzuozhongfanchoudeshideqingkuangxia，nibutaikenenglijijujueshuobushiwodefenneishi，keshiyoubukeyiwududeranglingyifangzhaquzishendexiexihuoshiganzuohaobenzhigongzuodeshijian。

 neimaninengneiyangzuo，zuixianbiaotaifayanzheiyigongzuozhongzishenbutaishanyu，pazuobutaihao。jiarunizheiermeiyounaxiehaodefangfa，wonengbangniqianglietuijianyigehouxuanrenhuoshiyigegengqiangdefangfa。

 danglingyifangganshoudaonidehaoxin，jinguanmeiyoulijibangzhu，yehuibiaoshiganji。huijueyoushibianshihuajie，buchaojiecaikeyidedaozuishufudexiangchu。

3、喧宾夺主，让另一方全自动溃不成军。

 ruguonitizaozaoyilejielingyifangyaozhaodaoni，ninengzaitazhangkouyiqianjianghuatitaolunyinzou，erqiebixuwuyijiandeliuluzishenduiyuzheishidekunnan。neiyangzhudaoquanjiubawozaizishenshoushangle。

jianxinyibanrenyedoushihuijijijieshuzheiyihuatitaolunle，neiyanghaikeyijiaodashuipingfangzhiduoyudenankan。

4、适当赔偿。

zhishangfangfadounanyishixiandeqingkuangxiakeyiyong。

jiushijinguanwobunengtongyizheijianshiqing，danwonengbangnilingyijianshi，mingquetichuyigequdaidejihuafangan。

ziran，lingyijianshiyingxuanneileiniweibozhilihuoshixingdetongde。

gaoqingshangliaomeiliaotianjiluzhongjiaonigaoqingshangjujuenanshengdebiaobai，huizongchulai，youguanjujuebieren，bixuliuyizheijigefangmian。

1.仁义之师。

xianhaowuyiwen、chengzanyixialingyifang，suihouzaijiangchuzishenhuijuedeyuanyin。

2.笑着说不。

3.待人处事。

4.dihuizishen，lagaobieren。

 wangwangyaoyongganshuobu，bujinshiyouyuweifanlebenrenzhuguanxingyixianghuoshichaoguogongzuonenglifanchou，yeshiyouyubixuzunxunzishendairenjiewudeguize。

huijuezhidaoyeshiwaiyuanneifang，bujiaobuzao，yiqingdongrendeweirenchushiguize。

jinyoumingbaihuijue，zhongnengxinlijunheng。

zongdelaishuo，jiujibujiuqiong。jiarutarenqueshiyouhenzhejideshi，neiyidingyaojiejinquanlibangzhu。

 zuizhongyijugecimowei，zhixumeigerendouxianshangyifenai，quanqiujiangbianweixingfudeshijian～zheixiegaoqingshangjujuebierendebiaobaidefangfaganjinjixia。