正确的挽回策略应该怎样挽回？吵架多了感情就吵没了吗？

 lianrenbicizaixiangchuyiduanshijianhou，doushiyouhenyoukenengyouyugezhonggeyangqingganwentiermingquetichutichufenshou。chaojiaduoleganqingjiuchaomeilema？dabufenfenshouderen，zaishixiahuijuedechayi、jinghuang、naonuzheixie。chaojiafenshouzenmewanhuini？yinweichaojiafenshouhuozhekuaiyaolihundeyaoruhewanhuicaishizhengquedeni？weihehuiyinweiyidianzhengchaojiuchanshenggeheni？chaojiahehaohouganjueyougehezenmechuli？

 xintaideweihaixia，huiqushitamenyaoxiangjinzaojiejuetichufenshounanti。zenmehuineiyangni？youyufenshoutongchanghuidaozhitongchuhebuganxindengfumianqingxu。

 danmangmugenfengdijiejuetichufenshounanti，tongchangzhinengdaozhihouhuimojidejushi。yinerzaijiejuetichufenshouqian，yidingyaoxianweizijiheqiannanyoulizhideshijianhekongjian。，womingbaizishenbingbushigedabiaodenanpengyou/nvpengyou，jiarushiwozuodebutaihao，mafannigaosuwowonengdiaojie，dajiazhongxinzailaihaome？”

 xiamianhenyoukenenghuifashengerzhongjieguo，yizhongshilingyifangbeinidezhenxinshiyichudong，kannichengzhizhiqianhexuguodefuwuchengnuo，xiangyaogennifuhexing；

 lingyizhongshimochubulaishenghuoweiwanjujue，cikeyaobubianshitichufenshouxintaijiaoweijiandingbuyi，yaobubianshibixuhaohaodikaolvdao。cikeyidingyaojilao，bubiquyoukuyounao，yebubiqubilingyifangjihuida，yidingyaozhongshitadejuedingquan。

 rendoutaoyanbeikongzhi，ruguonijiyulingyifangzhongshi，huishitaganjuenidequebuyiyangle。jibiancicimeifuhexingqudechenggong，danhuiliuyouhaoyinxiang，xiayicichupengcaihuigengbianjie。chaojiafenshouzenmewanhuini？yinweichaojiafenshouhuozhekuaiyaolihundeyaoruhewanhuicaishizhengquedeni？weihehuiyinweiyidianzhengchaojiuchanshenggeheni？chaojiahehaohouganjueyougehezenmechuli？

 zuizhong，buguanlingyifangshibushitongyifuhexing。nijiranxuguofuwuchengnuoyaogenggai，neimejiuyidingyaojilaoqushixing。youyunijiarujinjinkongkoushuobaihua，neilingyifanghuitihuibushangnidechengxin。

zheileizhuangkuangxia，feichangrongyizaochengyulunyali。

那必须改变什么呢？

 ①zhangwonanhaihenvhailuojisiweidechabie，yongqiadangdefangfajiaowang；②xuehaoyunyingguanlian，suzaoshejiaonengli；③genggaishuoyutingdegoutongfangshi。

 chaojiaduoleganqingjiuchaomeilema？jiangwojinideaizhenzhenzhengzhengrenzhenluoshi，baozhengyanxingyizhicaihuishitaxiangxinni。neiyangnigouledemeihaomingtian，tacaikeyi“kandao”。