刚认识的女孩子怎么聊天 单身的你敢这样跟她聊吗

 gangrenshidenvhaizizenmeliaotian？zaigezhonggeyangjuhuihuodonghuoshihuodongchangdili，wandedehenkaixinfenweiyehenhao，zheishihouniyuyiweidongxindenvshengliaotian，liaodaofeichanghaoyihouyeshunlidejialeweixin。ruguonihuilaihou，jinguanfannaoyugenjiahaoweixindenvshengruheliaotian？keshiniyaoxianghetafazhanqushijinyibudeguanlian，gangkaishizhuinvshengyuehuipinlvyaoxiankankan，heganglianaideqinglvliaotianhuatishiyouqubiede。yincikaishilehetaweixinliaotian：

你：在干嘛呢？

她：网上，追剧呢。

你：要看哪些剧啊？

ta：piaoliangdejiukeyile。

rujinninenghetagaogaoxingxingdeliaotianle，wuxuzaidanyoufashenggaliaole。

二、适度的勾勒情景

 zainimenliaotiandeqingkuangxia，shifoujingchanghuichuxian，meiyiciniquanshixingquhengaodehetaliaotian，keshitaduiniquehenlengmo，zaochengniranhouyemeiyoulehetaliaotiandexingqule，liaotianliaotianjiujieshule。liruxiabianzheiyilizi。

你：你在哪呢？

她：逛街购物呢。

ni：nidougoumailexienaxie？

她：……

niyejiebuxialaile，liaotianyejiutingzhile。

jiarupengdaomeizhilengmodehuifu。yibanquanshierzhonghenyoukeneng。

diyi，duinimeishenmexingqu，yinciyejiubuyuanyuniliaotian。

dier，niwendenantitameishenmexingquhuoshitayebuzhidaogailiaoshenmele。

zhenduitadehuifu，nishijishangnenggouxushuyixiatadeqingjing。

例如上边的事例

你：你在哪？

她：逛街购物呢。

ni：shifouzuoshoutibao，zuoshounazhenaichadian，suihoubianzoubianxi，suihouniyaodiaozhesuliaoxiguanhelaobanzaijiangjia？

nijinyouhexushudejijidian，fengqudian，zaiyuetiejintadejutiqingkuang，nimenliaotiandeqifenyejiuyuehao。

三、分拆关键词

 weixinliaotianhelingjuliliaotiandechabiebianshi，ninengwuxulikejiuhuiying，ninengtiaoxuanheshihuiying，neiyangniyeyousisuodeshijian。zheishihouniyejiunenggoushiyixiaguanjiancifenchaidefangshi，yejiunengdedaodaliangdehuatitaolun。

例如：

你：你在做什么？

她：与同学用餐呢。

 nixuyaozenyanghuiyingni？zheishihouniyejiuyingdangbawozhuguanjiancile，tongxuemen、yongcan，bawozhuzheilianggeyuansusanfanideluojisiwei。

 ninengneiyangshuo：“zuoriwoyaoquhexiaohuobanmenquchikaoroubanfan，yibuxiaoxinbachaotianjiaofangduole，jiangwoladeleishuiliua，suihouyouquhefutejia，zuibadouyuelaiyueyouliangyoula。”

neiyangliaotian，bujinnenggouweitajiyudaliangdeliaotianhuatitaolun，hainenggoujiazhongduitadexiyinzhu。

四、恰当的转移话题

 gangrenshidenvhaizizenmeliaotian？jiarunibuyuanxuezheizhongfangfa，neimayeyouzuizhongyizhao，：lijizhuanyihuati。yikaishidehuihuaweishili：

你：现在在干什么？

她：网上。

niyongyuanbuzhidaoruhequjietadehua，zheishihouniyejiunenggoulijizhuanyihuati，shuoniyaoshuode，liruhetatanyingpian。

ni：shangxingqikandeneibudianyingworenweihaibucuo，jiemianjingdian，shijixiaoguoyelitishizhenhanrenxin。

 jiarutataoyanyingpian，niyejiuzaiqianyiyigehuatitaolun，keshizhuanyihuatibukeyichaochu2ge，jiaru2gehuatitaolunyihoutahuoshimeixingqu，neinijiugaiganmaganmaqu，yiduanshijianzaiquzhaotaliao。jiaruniyizhihetaliaogezhonggeyanghuatitaolun，huijitayizhongniyizhizaiguitiannantadejuede，zheiyeshicuonandezhuyaobiaoxian。

 weixinshirujinliaotiandedaibiaoxingzhuanyonggongju，jiarunikendingbuhuiliaoweixin，neimenijiangsangshixuduopaoniudejiyu。jiaruniyizhaoshangbiandejigefangmianfangfaquduoshijianhuodong，niyejiuhuifajueshijishangliaoweixinyebutaijiannan。

 youyidiannixuyaoliuyi，zheizhongfangfazhiheshinimenqianqideliaotian，zhonghouqinirengzaiyongzheizhongfangfaquliaotian，neimanimenzhongjiandeguanliannanyishengjide。gangkaishizhuinvshengyuehuipinlvyaoxiankankan，heganglianaideqinglvliaotianhuatishiyouqubiede。