聊天时，别总说“在吗”，不会跟女生聊天怎么办呢？

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 buhuigennvshengliaotianzenmeban？xianliaozaoxingyishuzaixiuxianhuodongzhongdeyingxianglixianeryijian，yuyanbiaodayeshiyigerendeqianzaixingbiaoshi。ruoshibawolezhishangjileiliaotiandejiqiao，niyejiubawozhulexianliaodezhudaoquan，neiyangnanshengyunixianliaobianhuiganjueyouyisi，nicaigengfeichangrongyizhuidaota。