改变直男的聊天方式 直男怎么改变情商

 gaibianzijiyaocongnalikaishi？gangtiezhinanchangchangshibeinvhaidiaokandemubiao，naxiezhinansiwei，gangtiezhinanhuogaidanshen，gangtiezhinan，gangtiezhinanbumingbainvhaidexin……gaodegangtiezhinanmenzishenyetexianggenggai，xiangyaozhidaozenyangcainengshounvshengreliehuanying。xiabianjidahuoergongxianggangtiezhinanruhegenggaiqingshangzhishang？rangnvshengduiniyouganjue。shouxianbushidashangaisongshenmeheshi，ershigaibianzhinandeliaotianfangshi。

一、自我认识

 gangtiezhinanyaoxianggenggaiqingshangzhishang，zuixiangangtiezhinandeyouyigeqiadangdeziworenshi，tabixuyishidaozishenbuhuiliaotiangangtiezhinanzheigewenti。fouzedehuataburongyijuedezishenyoushenmewenti，youshenmewentideshijuedetagangtiezhinanderen。xuduonanhaizizaibeinvshengjiaogangtiezhinandeqingkuangxiahaihuijixuqijibaihuai，ganjuenvhaizaiwumiezishen，shijishangrenkezishendebuzhengquebingbuhuitainan，nandeshiduizishendelejiebuzu。

 jiarunanhaiziguanniandaozishenshigangtiezhinan，neimejiuzhaobangqile。yigeshiduokankanqingshangzhishangcengmiandeshu，yigeshiduoyurengoutongchupeng，suihoucongzheidangzhongchajuezijideshuohuafangshi，duoguanchashenpangqingshanggaoderendejianghuabanshifangfa，jianjiandixuexipeixun。jianghuaqianxianzainaozhongxiangyibianzishenshuoqidehua。

二、婉转讲话

 gangtiezhinanjiarunengzaihexiaidenvhaizhijianghuashiyirandaishangzuizhenxinshiyideguanzhu，shuohuafangshiwanzhuanyidian，anshizhehanyi，bubihenzhijiejiangchuqu，jilingyifangliuchuyidiankongjian。henyoukenengjianjiandiyekeyiyuelaiyuegenghuijianghua，yuelaiyueshuobailede“gaoqingshangba。

 xiang“duohedianreshui”zheileiyaoduoshuo，henyoukenengnidequeshizhenxinshiyide，danzheileihuazainvshengtingqilaiqueshiyoudianerfuyanleshideyuyi，bibushangbaduohedianreshuihuanwei“xubuxuyaoxianzaiwohuilai，shundaibangnikanyixia”。xianliaoshiyexuyaofangzhilaoshitichuwenti，duorangnvshengqingtu，zishenbuhuiliaotianjiuduofuhe，zaishidumingquetichuzishendejianjiejiukeyile。

三、平常言谈举止多留意

 zenyangyuelaiyueqingshanggao，nenggouguanchazheixierichangrichangshenghuo，penyoubijiaoduo，henshoudajiaxiaideneixieren，tamendeyantanjuzhi，xingweijuzhi，zishenduoxuexi，suihouduokanshuba。haikeyiquwenyixianidepengyoumentamenhenijianghuashi，yanfandesadifang，gaizhengjiuxing。

 ziran，shijishangyouyixieshuobailede“gangtiezhinan”bingbingbushibuhuiliaotian，jinjinshifouhuigenvshengxianliaobale。liruyoudenanhaizizaigennvhaiziliaotianshibianshibutaihuiliao，youyuchupengdeshao。eryouyixienanhaiershiduoshaoyoudianerdananrenzhuyi，dantamenduinvshengdexinbushihuaide。bingqierichangshenghuoxuduonanhaiziduinvshengbianshigangtiezhinan，keshizaipingchangshejiaomeitiquanguochengzhongqingshangzhishangdoushifengao，zheijiushidianxingxingdequefagongzuojingyanbale，buqingchuhenvhailiaotianyuhenanshengliaotianhuicunyouluojisiweichabie。gaibianzijiyaocongnalikaishi？shouxianbushidashangaisongshenmeheshi，ershigaibianzhinandeliaotianfangshi。