改变直男的聊天方式 直男的5种聊天方式

 gaibianzijiyaocongnalikaishi？gangtiezhinanwangwangbeinvhaisuozhaoshu，bianshiyouyutamendebuanshishi，zaixianliaozhongzaoyirangnvhaiganjuehenfawei，haibuzizhi，zaochengzuizhongbeinvhaishandiaojiaruheimingdan。xiamian，yiqilaikanyixiagangtiezhinanzaixianliaoshi，quanshinaxiedeliaotianhuati。shouxianbushidashangaisongshenmeheshi，ershigaibianzhinandeliaotianfangshi。

1.查询户口式闲聊

 xuduogangtiezhinanzaihenvhailiaotianshi，yizhixihuanyigenantijieyigenantidiweinvhaitichuwenti。tamenchangshigenjutiwentidefangfalaifangzhixianliaozhizhongdenankan，haipameiyouhuatierzaochenggaliao。

 danneiyangchixuxingdetichuwentishijishangshizaisuoyaoshiyongjiazhi，zheihuirangnvhaijuedenidexuqiuganhenqiang。tebieshizaizailingyifangduinidouhaimeichuangjianhaogandudeqingkuangxia，zhinengranglingyifangjuedehenyanjuan。yaolejietabingmeiyouzerenquhuiyingnidewenti。jinerbeinvhaisuofangan。

2.过多展现自身

 yeyouyixiegangtiezhinanxiaohuobanmen，youqixiaiyizishenweiguanlizhongxin，laoxiangxuanyaozishen。jieguo，jiuzaochengleguoduozhanxian，meijuquanshiworuhe、ruhe，jibenshangmeiyijuhuadouyi“wo”laikaishi。

 nixuyaolejie，buduanyiziwoweizhongxindegoutongfangfa，huirangnvhaiganjuehenlei。youyunvhaidouchashangbushanghua，xianliaobianweiniyigerendedankouxiangsheng，nvhaidehuadoubeiniqianglaidao，zheiyagenyebujiaohudongjiaoliu，niyemeiyouzaihunvhaidetihui。bubeinvhaijiaruheimingdancaiguai。

zhanxianzishendequezaiyidingshuipingshangsuandeshangzhanxianshiyongjiazhi，keshiguoduozhanxianzishenbianshihenlowdegerenxingweile。

3.压实线话题讨论

 xuduogangtiezhinandoujuede，henvhailiaotianjiuyingdangwuhuabushuo，bazijidejiongshi、lingyifangdexiaoquedianzuoweishixianliaodexiaodian，budanjianshaolezishendezhenshishenfen，haigaodelingyifangfeichangganga。

 suiran，lianggerenjiaowangyingdangzhenxinshiyi。danzheiyebukeyibianchengnisuiyicaitahehushidangjinguanlianhuanjiedetuoci。huatitaolundeshencengshiyijuguanlianhuanjieerdingde，jiaoqianyanshenbianshiyashixianshijicaozuo，jiaoshenyanqianbianshitaibazijidangbierenle。

 yinci，yidingbakonghaonimendehuatitaolunshenceng，yidanyouyashixiangerenxingweiyidingyaojinzaogupiaozhisun。nibunengheyigeganglejiedenvhaiquliaolingyifangdeganqinglishishijian，youyuzheizaoyichaoguolenimendeguanlianhuanjie。

4.没有针对性和目的性式闲聊

xuduogangtiezhinandouxiaimeiyouzhenduixinghemudexingshixianliao，renweihenvshengliaodaoduole，qingganjiuyongyou。

 shubuzhi，shijishangnvhaiduiyigenanrendenaixinshibijiaoyouxiande。jiarunidexianliaoshimeiyouzhenduixinghemudexingshifeihualianpian，duinimendeguanlianshengjiqibushangyiqiezhengliangongxiao，neimanvhainaixinbianhuixunsubeinixiaomodaijin。youqishigaopinzhidenvhai，tamenjianduolewuqudenansheng，tamendenaixingengweibijiaoyouxian。yinci，xianliaoshiyidingyaoyoubuzhouhejiqiaode，qiadangdehuanjiebuzuoquqiadangdeshier，niligameoverjiuyoujinleyibu。

5.见好不好收

zheigewentibuzhishigangtiezhinan，xuduoxiaohuobanmenzaihenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，doushihuifanneiyangdebuzhengque。

 yaolejie，meiyicihenvshengquhudongjiaoliushi，nvhaidexintaizongshihuiyouyigezuigaozhi，nvhaixintaizuihaoshideqingkuangxiajiushizheigezuigaozhideduandian。neimazaizheiliyihou，nvhaidexintaizhiyoujianjiandijiangdi。jiarunirengranzhuazhenvhaixialiaobuduan，henkenengyuanlaidehaogandujiubeinixiaoqianmeile。

 qingjilao，ruguonijuedemeifazaicirangnvhaidexintaigengjiqingshi，qinglijichechu，bubilianzhan。taciciyunixianliaodetihuishixingfude，dangranhuixiwangxiayilundexianliao。jiarunijiangcicidexianliaoganshougaodebushitaihao，dabufenjiumeiyouxiayicile。

 zhishangbianshigennvshengliaotian，gangtiezhinanchangjiande5zhongliaotianhuati，qidaidahuoernenggouwuzejiamian，yiciweijian。gaibianzijiyaocongnalikaishi？shouxianbushidashangaisongshenmeheshi，ershigaibianzhinandeliaotianfangshi。