和喜欢的男神聊15分钟之后，找不到话题了怎么办？聊天话术900句

 nanshengderenshengguanli，zhenduiaideren，zongshihuijuedezishendiyitou，zhaobudaoliaotianhuatizenmeban？zongshihuiyigezhonggeyangfangfahefangshixiyinzhuxinainvshengdezhuanzhuli。zhenduixiaidenvhai，nanshengxianglaidoushitixindiaodande。liaotianhuashu900juyounaxieni？

dangranburongyiliaotianliaotianjiuhuranxiaotui，bujienidehuacha，shinizaochenghuatitaolun，zuizhongtingzhixianliaodeshini……

xiaolizaiweixinshangduiwoshuo：“sansuininhao，wodemingzijiaoxiaoli，2021nian28sui，shiyimingyingyujiaoshi。

 zhaobudaoliaotianhuatizenmeban？shangyigeyueyuechudeqingkuangxia，wogenjuxiangqinyuehuilejieleyigenansheng。neishihou，dajiaxianliaoliaodetingbucuode，woduitadebiaomianyelingrenmanyi，yinci，xiangqinyuehuiwanbihou，dajiayizhizaiweixinshangyeshiyoulianluo。

 meiyiciwojijilianluotadeqingkuangxia，tadoushihuijidaowojijizhudongdehuifu，danshi，yilianliaoleneimelaitianyihou，woquefajueleyigenanti。

tajuranmeiyouyicijijilianluoguowo。yishidaozheiyidianyihou，woyishunjianganjuezishenhendijian。

 woshiyigenvshengya，benyingdangdengdaitajijilaizhuiqiuwanmeiwode，kerujinwoqueyizhizaishangganzhezhaotaxianliao，zheijiaoshenmeshiya？

 zhihou，wojianjiandizhujianyouyilengdanta、meilita，zuiduodeyici，wozhengzhengyizhoudoumeizhaotaxianliao，tarengranmeiyoujijilaizhaowoliao。

sansui，nijuedezheijiujingshishenmeyuanyinya？shitayagenjiutaoyanwoma？huoshitazaiyuqingguzong，dengzhewoshangdangni？”

 yigexiangqinyuehuilejiedenanhaizi，meiyicixianliaodouhenjiqing，danshitacongbujiji，chukaicaiyitameiyouneimexihuannidezhuangkuangyiwai，yeyouyizhongzhuangkuangnenggouzaochengzheiyijieguo：

nanshengduinihenyouhaogan，danshinidailainanshengbutaihaodexianliaoganshou，xiaochulenanshengjijilailianluonidequdongli。

 yinweinanshenghuoshiduiliangrendeguanlianbaoyouyidingdeqidai，ruguonijijiqulianluonanshengshi，tayiranhuihenaixizheiyijiyu，jiqingdehuifuni。

jiranyouerzhongzhuangkuangnenggouzaochengzheiyijieguo，neijiujingruhequfenzheierzhongzhuangkuangni？

实际上区别这二种状况并不会太难，你需要把握住2个关键环节：

 1、yaoduizishendexianliaogongzuonengliyouyigekeguanxingdepingding。huiwangyixiazishengennanshengquanbudexianliaoquanguocheng，suihouyong“jiaohuanzhenshishenfen”defangfa，quganshouyixia，nanshengjieshoudaonixinxineirongshidetihui。

 jiarunidejuedeshiwuqude、xinfande、nankande，neinanshengjiuhenkenengshiyouyuxianliaoganshoubujia，zheicaibuyuanyijijilailianluoni。

 fanguolai，jiarunidejuedeshiqingqingsongsongde、yukuaide，neimananshengdebuzhudong，jiuhenkenengyiweizhetaduiniyagenjiumeishenmexingqu。

2、zaigennanshengxianliaodeqingkuangxia，zhuyaoguanchataduinimingquetichuhuatitaolundehuifudu。

 jiaruxianliaodequehencaogao，meihuiyingyijuxinxi，nanshengdoushihuijuededaonanaodehua，neinanshengduinidehuifuduhaowuyiwenhuijidi。

liruniwennansheng：“zaiganshenmeni？”

nanshengjidaoniyigefengbishidehuiying，liru，meizuoshenme，zaimanggongzuozhongzheixie。

danshi，jiarunanshengyagenjiubuxihuanni，neitaweihehaixiangyaohuifunidehuani？

diyigeyuangushi，chuziyuwenminglimao，guoyibuquhuijue。

diergeyuangushi，nanshengmanhuaimuditiejinni。

yijushangbiande2geguanjianhuanjie，niyejiunenggousuibiandebianbiechu，nanshengjiujingshiyouyushishenmeyuanyinbudaojijilianluonidele。

假如由于闲聊出了难题，男生才越来越不主动的，那如何解决这个问题呢？

ba“luojixingxianliao”bianwei“xintaixianliao”。

“luojixingxianliao”bianshi“shuoshier”。liru：zaiganshenme？zainani？chilema？shuijuele？

 luojixingxianliaohenfawei，nigennanshengxianliao，zuiguanjiandemudibingbingbushixinxichuandi，zhishijifaqilingyifangdexintai，congerjiliangrendehuihua，goujianchushufuyukuaideqifen。

shexiangyixia：nishixiangyaogenyigekeyidouniwangaoxing，shinixinqingyuyuederenxianliao，huoshigenyigemeitianlejieniderenxianliao？

 ciwai，yizhiyongluojixinggennanshengxianliao，liangrenzhongjianfeichangrongyihuifashengganliaodezhuangkuang。youyushierbianshizheixieshier，luojixingbianshizheixieluojixing，liaowanhouyejiuliaowanhou。

zheileitongchudeganliao，huirangnanrenzaigennixianliaodeqingkuangxiawangershengwei。

zenyangcainengba“luojixingxianliao”bianwei“xintaixianliao”ni？

zuixian，xuehaozaiyuyanbiaodanenglizhongtianjiaxintaiyanse。

ruguonixiangwennansheng“zaiganma”deqingkuangxia，ninenggaosuta：“niyoumeiyouzaixiangwoa？”

 ruguonixiangduinanrenshuo“henxiangquyunnanlvyou”deqingkuangxia，ninengbiaoshu：“yunnanshengqueshihenmeiya，danshi，wojihuyemeiyoulaiguo。”

 tingjiantamen，shibushinitihuidaoyizhongbiequ，yizhongchongjing？zheibishengsedeshuoshier，shijixiaoguokehaoxieguoduo。tahenyoukenengmashangjiuyuenilaiyunnanshengqiriyou。

chukaiyaozaiyuyanbiaodazhongtianjiaxintaiyanseyiwai，haideyaoxuehaoqutuilamennanshengdexintai。liaotianhuashu900juyounaxieni？

●●“tui”shizaiyuyanbiaodahegerenxingweishangbananshenglakai，rangnanshengjuedefahuo，biequhuoshixiaoqingxu。

●●“la”shizaiyuyanbiaodahegerenxingweishangbananshenglajin，rangnanshengjuedegaoxing，dadaohuoxiaodadong。

yunyonghaotuilajiqiao，jiunengrangnanshengdexintaixiangzuoguoshancheyiyanghugaohudi。

举个事例：

 nanrenzaipenyouquanzhongfaguoyizhangzhaopian，xiangpianzhong，tachuanleyijianxinyifuhenkushuai，dajiaxiangweiciweihuatitaolun，gennanshengjinxingxianliao。danqianwanbieduinanrenshuo：“nimaidexinyifuzhenhaokan。”

tingjiantamenyihou，nanshenghuiyingnizhibuguojiuyiju：“xiexiekuajiang。”

 kejiarunixianshudebawoletuilajiqiao，jiukeyineimeduinanrenshuo：“nixiangpianlichuandezheijianyifukuzi，wojianhenduorendouyueguo。”

nanshengneixinhaowuyiwenhuiyouyizhongxiaoxiaocuobaigan。danshi，zheibingmeiyouguanxi，youyuxiamiannihaixuyaoduinanrenshuoyiju：

“danshi，tamendoumeiyouniyizhekushuai。”liaotianhuashu900juyounaxieni？

tingjiantamenyihou，nanshengshifouyouhuizhuanyouweixileni？zheijiushituilajiqiaodegongxiao。

dicengluoji：yibeizi，nengpengdaodezhenhansuiyueyouxianghuzhijianaiderenhenshao，jiaruyouzhelezheiyifenhaoyun，hebujijiyidian。

 ruguonijuedezishenpengdaole，weitatouruqinfenhoulingyifangqueshierbujian，neimahaidekaoliang，zishendejijidefangweishifoubudui。

 zhaobudaoliaotianhuatizenmeban？yiweitouruhuoshiyuqingguzongshibuqizuoyongde，jishuzhuanyedeliangxingjiqiaocaikeyibawotadesixu。