所谓成功的男人，无非是掌握了聊天技巧，教你成功男人的说话技巧

 paokaishouji，bizishenxuedianyuyanjiqiao，sannianhourangquxiaonideren，gaobukepan。shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？shuobailechenggongdenanren，zhibuguoshibawoleliaotiandejiqiao，jiaonichenggongnanrendeyuyanjiqiao。liaotianyoushenmejiqiaoyounaxiekeyi xuexideni？wulunshihesheiliaotiandouxuyaoliaotiandejiqiao，neimexuexishenmeyangdejiqiaocaishibijiaohaode，gaoqingshangdeni？shuohuajiqiaoxunlianzenmelian？

 xuduoqingkuangxia，ninengfajuequdechenggongbingbushikaozhilizhishikaoqingshangzhishang，yigenanrendegaoqingshangbigaozhishanggengguanjian。zhilinengbangnichulishijieshuxuenanti，qingshangzhishangnengxiezhuniqudechenggong。dajiameiyigerendourichangshenghuozaishehuifazhanzhongshishehuifazhanzhongdeyiyuan，youxierendediqujiuhuiyouwulin，jiuxuyaoyubierengoutongjiaoliu，jiuxuyaojianghua，jiarunideqingshangtaidi，buhuiliaotian，bujinhenyoukenengsunhaitaren，haihenyoukenengduizishenyehuidaozhibuhaoweihai。zhengsuoweizhilichengkegui，qingshangzhishangjiagaoxie！shuobailechenggongdenanren，zhibuguoshibawoleliaotiandejiqiaohehuijianghua，jinrixiaofengjiaonichenggongnanrendeshuohuofangfa。

成功男人的语言技巧一：与别人交往时不揭短不口无遮拦，如何说话才可以使另一方觉得舒服，这肯定展现了一个成功男人的情商智商。

 shuobailedeqingshanggao，bianshidairenjiewuzhangwofencun，banshiyouzishendedaodedixian。fencungan，shiyigehengliangshidu：yidanweirenchushimeiyouzishendefencungan，bianhuidaozhiguoqinzeshu，chaowenbianleng。ruguonizaigenrenjiaowangdeqingkuangxianengbaozhengbuxulingyifangnankanganga，neimajiuzhidaoruheherenqiaruqifendejiaowang，niyejiubawoleyibufenchenggongnanrendeqingshanggaoweirenchushifangshi。

 zairichanggoutongjiaoliuzhong，zhizhiwuxuyanjin，liusanfenkongjianheren，jizijiliutiaotuilu。qianwanbiejietarenquedian，gengbubiyouyijierendebahenbingjiayan，jierenbahenderendoufeichangrongyizaorentaoyanheyanfan。renhuoyikouqi，shuzhengyizhangpi，meiyigedoushiyouzishendezizun，douhaomianzi。yincizaiherengoutongjiaoliuzhongjierendequedianshiqianwanbunengzuode。

成功男人的语言技巧二：在和人讲话是，要凝视另一方，目光不飘忽不定。

 shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？yigejianghuazhenxinshiyi、lingrenganjueyouzhenshiduderen，jianghuademuguangshishifenjiandingbuyide，congbuhuiqifubudingjirenyizhongbuzhongshilingyifang，lingrenganjuenigenbenmeiyouzaitinglingyifangjianghuadejuede。tarenjianghuashiyaoningshilingyifangdeshuangyan，biaomingzhongshihewenminglimao。jiaruliangrenzaipengmiangoutongjiaoliushi，yigerenmuguangyizhiqifubuding，jirenbunaifandejuede，bukeyilijikanjianlingyifangjianghua，zaisuonanmianranglingyifangganjuenizheigerenbuzhixinlaihejiezhu，neiyangbianhuibashiergaozale。

成功男人的语言技巧三：除掉多余的口头语和多余的杂声及其防止不应该有的回应。

 xiguanxingquanshizaimeiyigerichangwuyijianpeiyangde，youqishikoutouyu，butaihaodekoutouyufeichangrongyilingrenjuededichu。biru：“ninshishenmeyisi，nidongma？”“nizhangwoma？”“juedaduoshu……”zheixie。yeyouhenduorenmeijiangyijuhuazuizhongxiguanxingzaijiashang“de”dengyuzhuci，haoxiang“jiuzheiyangde”“feichanghaode”，zheizhongkoutouyuzaipingshishimeiyoushenme，keshijiaruzaijiaoweixuanbudechangsuozhizhongnijialezheizhongkoutouyu，niyejiuhuibeibierenrenweiniweirenzhengzhibuzuduanzhuangchenwen。chucizhiwai，womenzaibuquedingxingxinxineirongzhenshiyouxiaodeqingkuangxiadoushihuitingyaochuan，suihoubeibierenwenjinilailideqingkuangxia，niyejiuzhiyaoshuo“tingwende”neiyangdehuiying，zuoweiyigechenggongnanrenjianghuashiyouweixinlai。

成功男人的语言技巧四：发言要含有风趣的成份，而且风趣很重要。

 wulunshizairichanggoutongjiaoliuhuoshizaizuoshengyizhichangzhong，yigejianghuayoumobingyouzishenyuzhongbutongguannianderen，feichangrongyizaoshoulingyifangdeqinlai，danyoumodehuayubukeyiguoduobianweitucaotaren，tashishifenmeilimaode。fengqudefayanfangfayeshiyaoyijubuyiyangchangsuojiangbuyiyangdehua，chenggongnanrendeyuyanjiqiaobianshishuohuayoumozhangwofencun，juebushisuiyiwanxiao，lirunalingyifangdeyixiewochuoshiwanxiao、yongsubuyaguandewanxiaohua，rangtarennankan，yehuilingrenganjueniyouweisuyang。yigekeyifeichanghaobawanxiaohuajiangdehenyoumoyouburongyizidiaoshenjiaderen，kendingshichongmanlesixiangjingjiederen，yekendingshiyigechenggongdenanren。liaotianyoushenmejiqiaoyounaxiekeyi xuexideni？wulunshihesheiliaotiandouxuyaoliaotiandejiqiao，neimexuexishenmeyangdejiqiaocaishibijiaohaode，gaoqingshangdeni？shuohuajiqiaoxunlianzenmelian？

成功男人的语言技巧五：讲话瞻前顾后，白首太玄经，不可以绕弯子，应当保证简明扼要。

 shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？jianghuataizhi，feichangrongyirongyidezuiren，hailingrenyanfan。xuduoqingkuangxia，dajiadoubuaishuohuahenzhideren。guanjianyuangushitamenjianghuatongchangbulijingrendedanao，xiangqishenmejiushuoxieshenme，bazijideyumeizuoweishiyizhongchuantongmeide，gerenganjuezishenzhilvweilegenghaoditarenkaolv，shijishangtongchangbushizheiyangde，zheileigerenxingweihenrongyizaorentaoyan。chenggongnanrendeshuohuayishuyinggaishineiyangde：yigefayanmingbaibawofencungan，liuyudideranglingyifanglejiezishenhenyoukenengshuocuoledanyouburongyijilingyifangdaozhitaigangadejushi，zheicaisuanshichenggongnanrendeyuyanjiqiao，budanranglingyifangqingxidizhangwodaozishendebuzhengque，haiburongyiyouqifenfaqifen。yinci，yigehuijianghuadenansheng，zaigongzuoshang、qingganshangdoushihuishibeigongban。